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DemonicVixen

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I accidently got my mate into a bad situation having decided to play a joke.
A lad was asking her out so i said why not say yes and see what happens. Then she could say she hadn't meant yes to going out with him, she meant yes to something else (or a wrong conversation). Trouble was, she did agree to saying yes but then when he asked to meet up with her she agreed. Then everything kicked off. He started asking for sex and stuff along those lines. Eventually she decided to "break it off" and ignore him. He started harrassing her, calling her and threatening to beat up her brother.

Please note, the lad in question happens to be my ex's younger brother (he is aged 17) and my mates brother also happens to be one of my ex's (he is aged 16). Both suffer from ADHD and are both extremely violent. When i suggested calling the police if he didn't stop harrassing her, she pointed out the fact that he could turn nasty or get others including his older brother (my ex) onto her or her family.


Basically, have you ever done something or helped with something that caused a major problem for your friends?
 

El Poncho

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Thats abuse and you should probably call the police, if they are stupid enough to mess around when the police is involved then let them get what they deserve.

Only stupid kids think that if they get their brother onto her they will get away with it, I know the police aren't all too good but it's better than nothing.

EDIT: Oh my thing, ehm nothing, nothing I can remember anyway .
 

ThreeWords

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Yeah, I have a habit of being unkillable, but it's lead me to severely underestimate danger, and things don't go so well when people start listening to my advice. thankfully, people don't listen to me when I say things like "Don't worry, it's perfectly safe to knock yourself out by cutting of you own air supply!"
 

DemonicVixen

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poncho14 said:
Thats abuse and you should probably call the police, if they are stupid enough to mess around when the police is involved then let them get what they deserve.

Only stupid kids think that if they get their brother onto her they will get away with it, I know the police aren't all too good but it's better than nothing.
trouble is, they aren't new to the police... and like i said, the lad and his brother are violent (oh, did i mention his brother is also ADHD?) and i know for a fact if you mess with one, you mess with the other and if you get the police involved, they have friends everywhere, willing to cause a lot of extreme problems. I can't think why i was so stupid to encourage her into it in the first place. If she hadn't said yes then it wouldn't have kicked off.
 

Kinguendo

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Yeah... if I was in this situation I probably would have remembered that they were both extremely violent... but hey, its not like you dated them or anything and knew that information before putting your friend into that situation...

Oh wait...

And for me, no.
 

Baris345

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Christ, how do seemingly normal people get themselves into situations like that? Go take a few Krav Maga classes and tell your friend to do the same, then hope the violent ones try to do something. The feeling of unbridled badassery that comes with knowing you could take out anyone threatening you is awesome!

As for screwing over a friend; I can't recall any times I've royally messed up, but countless times I'm sure I've given bad advice.
 

The_ModeRazor

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Well yeah, that was a pretty bad move.
Then again, I don't want the girl to end up on a katana, so you should just call the police.
 

lvl9000_woot

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...Then she could say she hadn't meant yes to going out with him, she meant yes to something else (or a wrong conversation). Trouble was, she did agree to saying yes but then when he asked to meet up with her she agreed."
IMO, everything after this part wasn't your fault. She could have said 'no' to him or ignored your advice.
 

scottsteve

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DemonicKitten said:
trouble is, they aren't new to the police... and like i said, the lad and his brother are violent (oh, did i mention his brother is also ADHD?)
What does having ADHD have to do with anything, especially violence?
 

Gildan Bladeborn

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Reuq said:
Jesus, reading that post I'm still wondering if there is incest occuring, let alone if there is advice I can give you.
I didn't want to be the first to say it, but that is very confusingly worded. It sounds like somebody needs to have a sobering discussion with one or more reprobates, and the time to do that is as soon as bloody possible. A close friend of our family recently had to deal with her brother getting shot and killed by the police after he broke into his ex-girlfriends home with a sawed-off shotgun - he'd become obsessed with her and was stalking her prior to that final violent incident.

If, as you indicate, you are genuinely worried that this is going to spiral into violence, I'd say you have a clear moral obligation to do what you can to prevent it.
 

DemonicVixen

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scottsteve said:
DemonicKitten said:
trouble is, they aren't new to the police... and like i said, the lad and his brother are violent (oh, did i mention his brother is also ADHD?)
What does having ADHD have to do with anything, especially violence?
Its well known that ADHD causes violent streaks. I myself have had 2 boyfriends who have been diagnosed with it and both have been violent because of it, to the point where teachers had to turn a blind eye when they got into fights. Me and my current boyfriend had ADHD in the past but both of us have learned to control it however we are both aggressive when aggrivated.

Reuq said:
Jesus, reading that post I'm still wondering if there is incest occuring, let alone if there is advice I can give you.
Also, i can't think how you come up with incest though i may not have been clear so i shall explain.

The boy (Henry) who was asking my mate out = my ex boyfriend (Greg)'s younger brother
My mate (Clair)'s brother (Steven) = another of my ex boyfriends

please note all names are not real, i only used them so that you could understand a bit easier.
Henry and Greg are brothers.
Clair and Steven are sister and brother.
and Greg and Henry are my ex boyfriends
 

Baris345

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So, did ADHD somehow become an airborne virus in your locality, or are you exaggarating a little?