Two questions: One for guys and one for girls

[BringBackBuck]

Can't see a situation where it would ever be appropriate to hit a woman. Not sure how this theoretical "if a girl hit me i'd hit her back" situation would arise. Most male female violence is a massive size/strength mismatch i.e: guys beating up their wives or girlfriends and is entirely not cool.

 

[wolfskin]

As people have said above, while an individual girl can most certainly be as strong if not stronger phsyically than a guy, in general guys are going to be phsyically stronger than girls.

And you shouldn't hit girls - that just ain't cool.

Now you see, that's just wrong. If a girl gets violent with you, you don't stand there trying to dodge. To do so is to admit that girls can do whatever they want with men simply because they are girls and have all of society behind them on these matters.

They have enough power over men as it is. All due to the fact that they refuse sex when they get hormonal over something irrelevant and we hate blueballs.
And admit it, if your gf hit you (And they do that alot you know) because she got pissed you'd still bang her at the end of the day. If you get pissed at a girl and just shout at her she'll dry up for a week before she has forgiven you for having the guts to oppose her irrational behaviour.

So the next time a girl starts hitting you because you ate the last cookie, clock her the fuck out and tell her to stop being such a hypocrite.

Wow, some people seem to be taking what I said as if it were written in stone. 'You shouldn't hit girls' is simply a good guideline, in the same way that, in general, you shouldn't really hit anyone. Obviously if someone, be they male or female, is getting seriously violent with you you shouldn't just sit there and take it.

On the other hand, I've never been in a situation were a girl has hit me to the extent were I've even considered hitting her back.

Also, dude, you've been dating some messed up girls. If they spend their time beating you and blueballing you, maybe you should just go find someone else.

 

[Jou-LotD]

A girl /can/ be as strong but usually aren't because society tells them they don't have to be.

As for hitting girls, I don't do it. But sure as shit I will pin them down and make them feel inferior by playing the old "Stop hitting yourself" game or spit hang over them. If they want to hit me and they are physically inferior, then I will not beat them down, just embarass them physically and make them regret their assault.

 

[Gingerman]

First off, for the guys: Why is it so difficult for you guys to accept that a woman can be just as strong as they are?*

My question for the girls is this: Why cling to that whole "don't hit girls" thing? If a woman can punch a guy in the face, shouldn't the man be able to defend himself or fight back without everybody acting like he's the devil?

*Not saying that all are, but I know from experience that they can be.

1) It isn't difficult for us to accept its just that most women are physically weaker, nothing to do with sexism.

2) I'm not a woman but I believe its something to do with the above + it allows them to get away with things. Also the sexist view of women being little flowers that shouldn't be harmed etc etc

Now were these questions so hard you needed to make a thread about them?

 

[latenightapplepie]

First off, for the guys: Why is it so difficult for you guys to accept that a woman can be just as strong as they are?*

I'm fine with it. Just as long as they don't rough me up or anything. I'm not going to hit them, or anyone for that matter, so I expect not to be hit either.

 

[garjian]

Ah but women have the advantage of targeting a very tender, very hittable weak spot that a man has. I mean really, one kick and as long as you're not fighting a eunuch, that dude is going down.

i cant understand this...

ive been shot there twice with paintballs... kicked there a few times... it doesnt hurt as much as people make out...
ill admit i fell over the first time with the painball gun :S but not the second or any other incident...

then some lad in my college group walks into a table, and the corner hits him there, and cant stand for a 5 minutes... why the fuck?
it doesnt hurt even close to that much...

i worry about us as a gender if were starting to get like that next itll be "*scream* theres a spider on the other side of the room... do go near it... just wait till it leaves *pant*"
oh wait... i know someone who does that :\

 

[Rancid0ffspring]

I've been punched in the face by a woman a couple of times before. I dealt with these incidents the same way I deal with any sort of violence, I try to subdue them first by tripping them over which can be belittling(spelling?) but if they got up afterwards & tried it again I'll defend myself.
You can only assess the situation as it happens. If you've got a girl going mental trying to go for your eyes or something you can punch them. Equality also covers responsibility for your actions. Give someone a smack in the face expect one back no matter your gender

 

[Caligulove]

oh, man.
there are many girls I know who I would not get into a fight with... fuck that.

At the same time, I'm over 6 feet tall, and really the rules go that if someone hits first, it's allowed to fight back. No matter what the gender.

I should also say that there is something sexy about a girl that could fight you a bit

 

[Kiefer13]

First off, for the guys: Why is it so difficult for you guys to accept that a woman can be just as strong as they are?*

*Not saying that all are, but I know from experience that they can be.

I have no problem accepting this whatsoever. I know for a fact that there are plenty of women out there that could beat me up (though I don't personally know any, somewhat disappointingly).

Oh, and as far as fights go (and when I say fights, to clarify I mean proper fights where serious injury or death is likely) I have one rule: Never hit anyone first. But hit anyone second.

 

[likalaruku]

If I hit a guy & he doesn't hit back, then that's the end of it. If he hits me back lightly, then he's into sadomasochism & wants to play rough. If he hits me back hard, I will grab his balls & twist them around like a lightbulb until he screams like a little girl.

It's actually quite ammusing to walk in on two people slapping eachother around while they're both laughing.