Also, I'm sensing my own thread coming out of this, despite already having two recent posts here, I've got another angle to push...
How come it's entirely ok to always make the men the losers on these shows? Ok, they're aimed at a female, stay at home, daytime demographic, (that's not sexist, or if it is, it's the programmers sexism, not mine), but does every damn show of this nature have to be about how the man failed in some various way and how he either has to change every fibre of his being to suit the woman's whims, or GTFO and she needs to find herself a real man.
"Real man" of course being the kind of drunken wifebeater type, because caring about a woman's feelings and showing love isn't manly.
Are we really that much of a failure as a gender? or is it perhaps occasionally the woman's fault in part? Personally I suggest that time spent standing outside clothes shops holding 17 bags and looking slightly bored should be allowed to be traded in for time blowing the heads off aliens.
Can you imagine the outcry if there was a SENSIBLE show like Tyra's from a male perspective, not something neanderthal like the Man Show, or Manswers, they just do us even more damage, showing us as only capable of thinking about pussy or beer, and imagining that thinking about both tits at once counts as multitasking.
But a genuine show where a couple comes on with a troublesome woman, and the man gets assistance and help and the woman got criticised for her behaviour? Unthinkable isn't it?
Oh the 'other' woman will get abuse, or the unfit mother, but it's almost never the female partner, as she's effortlessly loyal, loving, caring and flawless.