unlucky with love

[WingedIncubus]

Don't worry about it i lost my virginity at 21 and since then have been with my fair share of women it just happens, best thing you can do is be your self and be confident.

One of my friends have been with atleast 50 women and hes only 24 and its all because he just talks to them and is confident.

if you try to hard you will just seem needy and that will turn them off ya I find just talking to them and playing hard to get works best for me.

I would add "be yourself looking your best, being at your best". Being yourself will never help you if you look like a schlob and act like a total spineless loser. And by being yourself, it doesn't mean showing yourself as a bleeding heart whiner because you feel bad, either. It's not attractive. Keep that for your friends or girls you are already in a relationship with.

Also, touching is PARAMOUNT. Touch early, touch often, bust her balls, and treat her like one of the gang. Show you are fun to be around with, yet you do not need to act like a total clown to make her laugh. Show that you are not uncomfortable touching her and feeling her... and most important, that you are not afraid to escalate if the attraction is there. You must show early that you intend to be a sexual being with her, without putting her uncomfortable. Hence why touching her, make her talk about herself, entering her space, busting her balls, and leading her make you all a different place in her mind that the typical "nice guy" dweeb who does not assume his desire and is afraid to game her because he fears rejection, and so will use the laughable tactic to become her friend in the hope that she gets how wonderful he really is.

In fact, rejection is good. Being blowed out or rejected means nothing if you have a mentality of abundance. Thousands of other girls just as attractive are, walk, breath around you, so why focus on that poor girl who missed her chance to know how great you are? What makes her so special compared to the others? Anatomically, she is identical to the others, and mentally unless she is a super-heroine with special powers she has nothing that cannot be found with other girls.

Being needy, wussy, begging her attention will lead you nowhere except to a pitiful "let's just be friends". Most ner... I mean people with no meaningful positive interaction with women other than their moms and siblings tend to put them on a piedestal and beg for their attention. Girls crave for attention, yeah, but they want challenge coming from attractive males, not from supplicating boys.

Girls are not the prize, you are the prize. It's to them to win your attention. As soon as you understand that, it because a whole different world.