Very, very serious problem... please, please help?

[cheese_wizington]

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Intimidate them as nicely and calmly as possible until they listen to your case. Then have a nice talk about how that shit will not fly and if they mess with your siblings you will not let it go unpunished. Do not act like a angry teenager, but as a authority figure who is fighting for his and his family honor and safety.

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That will make him no worse than them, and he might just end up acting the same way to his children

If they get meaner and if I get bolder, I may try and have that talk. It seems almost necessary, but they scare me. They're nuts.
My current plan is to maintain the peace, ignore their general mean-ness, and follow the littluns like a hawk, but I'm at my breaking point, and I'm trying not to flip out... if they start something tomorrow, I'm going to calmly explain that they are crazy whores and need to shut the hell up. And I'll say it nicer, I guess. I don't want to be the angry teenager. ^.^
Merci beaucoup.~

Or you can also pull of the calm but insane dude thing. That works too when nothing else works

Nothing like a little dose of danger to make people thing your srs business.

Lol. I could try that, but that probably wouldn't scare them. He's currently living with his brother (where we're staying now) who's schizophrenic. He thinks they watch him through light sockets and voices told him to hurt little girls (which scares me), so they're kind of used to it. God, I know it sounds like an over-the-top soap opera, but I swear this is all true. xD

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I mean, help with dealing with this asshole. If this shit's not only affecting you, but also your siblings, you need to seek outside help because that's not cool.

Right, right. I would, but I just don't know where to turn to. u_u Tricky business.

Google child services in your area. Don't try to remain ignorant, confront your problems and find solutions.

 

[adakias]

Sound like you need some professional counselling(not the mental health kind) from an attorney and from child services.

The divorce is, like, settled and everything... I do wish we could get an attorney and to try and keep him from forcing the kids to visit (especially the 14 year old, who he forced to come), but we just can't afford it now. My mom had to leave her job because of her health, and he won't get a job so we only get $500 a month for child support. x3

there needs to be free, readily available legal counselling America. I'm sure there's some hotline or something thatll give something close to the real thing, but I wouldnt use it.(not i think you shouldnt consider it at all) If only there was a charity dedicated to "restoring sanity to America, for the children" or something.

*sigh* If only.
There so should to be something like that. There are people out there even worse off than me who need that shit... it makes me sad, but that's society. We just gotta deal, I suppose.

 

[adakias]

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Intimidate them as nicely and calmly as possible until they listen to your case. Then have a nice talk about how that shit will not fly and if they mess with your siblings you will not let it go unpunished. Do not act like a angry teenager, but as a authority figure who is fighting for his and his family honor and safety.

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That will make him no worse than them, and he might just end up acting the same way to his children

If they get meaner and if I get bolder, I may try and have that talk. It seems almost necessary, but they scare me. They're nuts.
My current plan is to maintain the peace, ignore their general mean-ness, and follow the littluns like a hawk, but I'm at my breaking point, and I'm trying not to flip out... if they start something tomorrow, I'm going to calmly explain that they are crazy whores and need to shut the hell up. And I'll say it nicer, I guess. I don't want to be the angry teenager. ^.^
Merci beaucoup.~

Or you can also pull of the calm but insane dude thing. That works too when nothing else works

Nothing like a little dose of danger to make people thing your srs business.

Lol. I could try that, but that probably wouldn't scare them. He's currently living with his brother (where we're staying now) who's schizophrenic. He thinks they watch him through light sockets and voices told him to hurt little girls (which scares me), so they're kind of used to it. God, I know it sounds like an over-the-top soap opera, but I swear this is all true. xD

-snipsnip-

I mean, help with dealing with this asshole. If this shit's not only affecting you, but also your siblings, you need to seek outside help because that's not cool.

Right, right. I would, but I just don't know where to turn to. u_u Tricky business.

Google child services in your area. Don't try to remain ignorant, confront your problems and find solutions.

I'll probably just do that. ^.^ I really should at this point... but not right now.
I'm tired (physically, mentally, and emotionally) and my legs are all achy and going to bed now.

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Thanks all. Also... is it weird that I keep thanking people? I'm suddenly self-conscious about that, but my logic is if ya'll take the time to read all that in respond, I should take the time to thank ya'll. Ah well.~
G'night, Escapist. <3

 

[jack583]

i don't know all the details and my advice might not work, but i'll throw it in anyways:

just look after the younger ones.
act as polite as you can WITHOUT looking like you are faking it or acting like a snob (it's a fine line)
survival is the main focus for you here
don't start anything and if someone else tries to start something, just keep calm and DO NOT SHOW EMOTION, be it possitive or negative.
if someone starts hitting you do not fight back. if someone is hurting one of you siblings then you should help them without violance. just seperate them and try to calm everyone down
be the balance in the chaos

like i said before i'm not sure if this will work, but they might help

I'm trying real real hard to be polite and emotionally detached. It's tough. I tried to start conversation with the grandmother out of politeness, but she literally stopped me midconversation and walked off, so I'm just gonna stop trying (the emotionally detached part needs to kick in here :3).
Thanks.

sorry i forgot to add "do not talk to anyone"
of course i sound like an idiot saying it now.

 

[newfoundsky]

Call the police.

 

[Death on Trapezoids]

My advice, repetitive and unreliable though it may be, is oral and physical isolation from these morons.
Otherwise, if they push, let them know in clear terms that you won't tolerate crap, and they will regret it if they continue. Remember: anger occurs for a reason. It means someone is doing something seriously wrong.

Like I said, not the best advice.
I offer what support I can from the confines of this internet connection.
Good luck.

 

[Hauntghost20]

Alright i am probaly the worst person to say this is the whole wide world but CUT THEM OFF COMPELETY they seme like terrabile people just cut the off like maybe phone them once a year but still sorta keep in touch with your siblings but cut your ex-step grandparents they seem like the worst just forget about them say now i'm not doing all this bullshit for the family even through NOBODY LIKES THE FAMILY

 

[rutger5000]

My uncle is exactly the same as your father. And I mean exactly, and I'm ashamed to say my family never did anything to protect his children. Now on of them is a herion-whore at best or death at worst and the other is in a psychiatric-institution.
I can't really give you much advice, but I can tell you two things about people like your father and my uncle.
First they can't be trusted, and are very hard to touch by the law. Me most likely knows very well how far he can push the law, and he will push it to that extent.
Second guilting them into doing anything doesn't work. In their screwed up little version of the world they are the most wonderful people and everybody is out to get them. From their point of view the have the worst luck and the toughest lives.
You really need to seek help from professionals. Sorry that I can't give any better advice.