BeeGeenie said:
I'll admit I have mixed feelings about gay men. I tend to see them the way many people see bronies: getting all up in your face about it because they crave validation. I'm sure there are plenty of gay men that are not so flamingly needy, who just go about their business without the need to draw attention to themselves.
Lesbians (and women in general) seem much more at peace with their sexuality.
I just wanted to butt in here and give my 2 cents.
I don't think lesbians seem "much more at peace" with their sexuality. I mean, I admit that I haven't actually met many lesbians, but perhaps it's the fact that they are generally ignored, compared to gay men, outside of "hurr durr lesbians are hot"? And that masculinity isn't as, for lack of a better word,
obvious than femininity? As in, a tomboy or a girl that doesn't grab your attention with her sexiness (forgive me if I'm using the wrong terms) won't be vilified as much as an effeminate guy who insecure guys will serve away from, for fear of "teh buttsecks".
As for just women in general...no. Just no. Considering that, on average, they're practically forced by society to spend much more time on their appearance than men...that doesn't sound like security in their sexuality.