What attracts you most about the gender you're interested in?

[zelda2fanboy]

Accessibility. If I think I have a shot at a girl, for any reason whatsoever, it's a bigger turn on than any part of her body or personality. At that point, it's out of my control. I can try to rationalize and talk myself out of it, but it only digs the hole deeper and deeper. Just now, I was looking at pornography. I was enjoying the sight of a luscious beautiful woman from a particular website. Really gorgeous. I didn't "finish" until I opened a window with another woman. This female had a body similar to the nude glitch in Heavy Rain. Not a knockout, per se, but pretty. This was a girl, for all intents and purposes was conceivable in my mind. For a split second I imagined that somewhere existed a very similar looking woman and that this woman may someday be willing to be my girlfriend. Then it was over.

Also this was a fetish site involving public nudity. Again, accessibility. I may never be able to touch one of these chicks, but I may get a chance to see one simply walking down the street one day. Yes, I am fairly demented,

 

[Ultress]

Spoiler: this is a good start

Other than that longer odd colored hair in chicks and some effeminace in guys.

 

[Flamingpenguin]

Strange, but I like girls with plain faces.
Mousy girls attract me for some reason.

 

[Blair Bennett]

Um...tolerance of my personality. I'm fairly loud, obnoxious, and I'm not much of a looker, so if their willing to put up with that, then fantastic. Oh, that, and their willingness to discuss the most inane of topics, solely for the purpose of finding a solution we may not agree on. If a person is so insecure in their own beliefs that they can't live in a world where you don't agree, I'm not really sure what you can build a relationship on there.

Aesthetically however...well...nothing. I'm pretty sure I'm demisexual. A lot of people here are saying that personality is a bit of a cop out, but I can genuinely say that personality is literally a requirement for me to feel any kind of physical attraction.

 

[lSHaDoW-FoXl]

Not too long ago I remember stumbling into a certain forum titled something around the lines of 'Are men becoming pansies?' Just as I was writing my thoughts down it turns out the Escapist decided to lock up the said forum, and a bit of my time was sadly wasted due to a unfortunate happening.

So finally, I can both share my thoughts on masculinity and what I like - Hurrah!
Screw masculinity. Sweaty over masculine guys with blood that's replaced by testosterone are not at all attractive to me, and they probably never will be. I'm more into the exact opposite, cute.

Straightened hair, skinny, clean, and Far Leftist is good enough for me. At a time I'd blurt out the BS 'Personality matters.' but this thread is 'What attracts you most about the gender your interested in.'

 

[fwelord]

"I find the most sensual part of a woman the boobies"-cookie or something for who ever guesses who said this.

Edit: OT inteligence is nice.

 

[Onyx Oblivion]

I'm not gonna lie to y'all...

I like feet.

And brown or black hair.

 

[Sjakie]

i'll be blunt:

tits, legs and overal proportions.

and all those guys saying they are attracted to personality in women are LYING!

 

[CINN4M0N]

I'd have to say height actually. I'm almost 6' 3" but I've only ever liked girls that are average height or shorter, I like cute little girls. A couple other things help, but height and personality (obviously) are probably the determining factors. I always thought it would be something else, but apparently I'm just not that kind of guy.

Mate, I'm 6'2", and the exact opposite. They gotta be above average height (according to girl standards), or you have to kneel down to kiss them. Plus I like the idea of my kids being a superior breed of tall strong men. Except for the daughters, they can be slender and elegant.

 

[Cinnonym]

BEARDS.All guys I know think they're instantly more attractive by shaving off the face-hair, but a well-maintained beard speaks of maturity, confidence... It brings out the eyes, too. I don't know why, but I've also got a thing for the Arabic/Indian persuasion... Good strong features, dark skin and hair. I think being attracted to foreigners is the product of instinctively wanting to strengthen the gene pool, so you Asiaphiles can rest a little easier. On days I find myself attracted to other females, I love the goofy, wild cute ones with the adorable little bubble breasts.

 

[XMark]

I used to be all about the ass and legs, but somewhere around age 25 my eyes wandered further upwards to the breastesses, and now I have a newfound appreciation for them. It's as if I'm looking at boobs with new eyes now. And drooling.

Also, an exposed lower back is sexy as hell. I'm ashamed to admit it but I'm a big fan of the "tramp stamp".

 

[A random person]

Bewbs

But seriously, in physical traits I want nicely-shaped breasts (not too concerned about size, and in fact I find a charm in smaller breasts), a somewhat rounded but subtle ass, a relatively petite figure (preferably a bit shorter, but not required), loose hair from shoulder-to-mid back length (color depends on other factors), a laundry list of other subtle factors with thighs being high on said list, and most importantly a cute face. Basically, my tastes lean more towards the "cute" end of the spectrum than the "hot" end.

As for personality, obviously a bit geeky, anime and video game nerd on a gaming forum I am. I also want relatively quiet and nice, but not to a totally submissive degree and also a little energetic. She should be able to start and carry on interesting conversations over geeky matters, partly for the sake of tolerating me. Basically from what I know, I'd want her to be both affectionate and someone I can talk with about nerdy things, though keep in mind this list is subject to change as I grow.

 

[CINN4M0N]

I'm not gonna lie to y'all...

I like feet.

And brown or black hair.

I was house sitting for my uncle last year, and on his desktop was all his porn. It's content was mostly around foot fetish stuff. I was a little surprised and confused. What makes a sexy foot?

Edit: I originally forgot to include the quote.

 

[LiftYourSkinnyFists]

I like them to have a taste in: Music, Games and Comedians

They must: Understand sarcasm, Know how to deal with sarcasm and learn how to talk sarcasm.

If they: are stupid it's not bad unless they can't have things even explained to them that then becomes irritating.

I like most physical features the one that gets me probably is the nose and eyes area of the face I also hate dimples.

I love emotionally-ept girls, not OVER super drastic emotion-whores but just average plain normal gda emotion.

THEY MUST LOVE SHIRTS (the ones which checker/stripe patterns)


Oh and also must have the ability to know whether or not they look good.


I suppose one thing I do love in women is the constant insecurity I mean, other than sex this is all they need men for dohoho.

 

[boybokeh]

Personality is important for me: she needs to be a *****.

 

[Stoic raptor]

She gots to have nice calfs. And feet.

NO FRENCH NAILS AND TOENAILS. Seriously, they disgust me.

 

[stone0042]

Tits and ass. My children can have only the best genes.

As for what I look for in women, personality.

Funny, and true.

 

[wildpeaks]

It has a pulse.

(insert dr who reference here) :-D

 

[TheLazyKnight]

I like petite women. Plus, I absolutely love green eyes.

 

[Snowalker]

Umm.. her vagina eyes...