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InnerRebellion

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Ever had your life change completely because of one event, or maybe a chain of events? What was it? Was it for better or for worse? Do you like how your life is now?
As for me...
Ok so, in fourth grade, I was madly in love with my only girl friend. I had recently become friends with this guy, and he was pretty cool. Rich, but he wasn't a prick. Every week his grandmother would bring in a huge pizza for our lunch table. Me, being lower middle class, envied him, and he'd give me games for free.

So me and this kid are pretty tight, when one day, the girl I love, comes crying to me, telling me he threatened to rape her. She had told the teacher that he stole from her desk, and after school he told her he was going to follow her home, stalk her, come in when she was asleep, beat her and rape her repeatedly. Mortified, I told my parents, and they told her mother. She called the police, and the police DIDN'T FUCKING CARE.

So I'm in school and I start ignoring him, and one day he asks me what's the deal, and I tell him I'm pissed at him for what he said to her. He tries to change the story like he thought rape meant take your money, but I knew full well he knew what it meant; his cousin was a well known rapist in the town. I start drifting apart from the kid.

Jump ahead to the next year. He's in my class again, and I hate it. After a while, I switch to a different class. Then I hear he's been talking shit about my parents, and that got me pissed off. I went off in a full blown rage in the middle of the hallway and had to get dragged to the guidance office, where I was locked for the rest of the day. I was later transferred back to the old class, and another kid who my "friend" had tortured came to me.. He says, "Chris, I have an idea. We make a website and tell people the truth about him. Then nobody will listen to him, and we'll be free from the hurt, man."

When I was younger, I used to give in to peer pressure easily, and then he says, "Man, I know what he did to you and Em. You can get back at him with this!" That sent me over and I agreed to it. We made the website, and put all the shit we knew about him, and then we swore to keep it quiet and let people find it. But the next day, the idiot talks about it to his cousin, and the kid hears about it. He comes over to me and asks me about it, and I deny it.

Weeks later, my parents find out, and I am in deep shit. Soon the school starts intervening, and starts calling me the worst shit to ever enter the building, when in fact they had told me before I was one of the place's top students ever.

People start punching me in the hallways, throwing stuff at me, stabbing me with pens and pencils. People start threatening me and telling me to go kill myself.

I transfer to a new school and get away...until I hear my friend got in a fight with the teacher. The teacher decided to tell the whole class about it, and my friend gets up and says that she has no right to tell them about it, and the teacher slaps him across the face. But it worked, people stopped talking...I still owe him, and he says I don't.

I come back the next year, and people start threatening me again. I was walking once when I got jumped. Stabbed, punched, kicked and cut all over. Nobody believed my side of the story, and the girl I loved was upset with me. I told her I had done it for her...she told me she loved me, kissed me, then walked away, and has never talked to me since.

I am emotionally and physically scarred because of that, and people still attack me over it, and that was almost 5 years ago. Whenever someone brings it up, I want to grab their throat and make them shut up.
Oh, and any thoughts on mine I'll welcome...I've never shared that story before.
 

vance32

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Ummm this is cheesy but falling in love changed my life + getting my first nuke in the same day
 

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Deus Ex completely changed my expectations for Video Games. and Serial Experiments Lain changed my perception of the world... to keep it simple...
 

Necrofudge

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Learning to speak and learning to walk would probably be the only things I could name off the top of my head.
 

InnerRebellion

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vance32 said:
InnerRebellion said:
vance32 said:
Ummm this is cheesy but falling in love changed my life + getting my first nuke in the same day
A good day. Was it at the same time?
no they were 2 hours apart
Oh, because if they were at the same time, I was gonna say that you should not love pixels. Heheh. But good on you mate, love is great till it bites your ass.
 

vance32

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InnerRebellion said:
vance32 said:
InnerRebellion said:
vance32 said:
Ummm this is cheesy but falling in love changed my life + getting my first nuke in the same day
A good day. Was it at the same time?
no they were 2 hours apart
Oh, because if they were at the same time, I was gonna say that you should not love pixels. Heheh. But good on you mate, love is great till it bites your ass.
americans doint love pixel thats the japanese
 

InnerRebellion

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vance32 said:
InnerRebellion said:
vance32 said:
InnerRebellion said:
vance32 said:
Ummm this is cheesy but falling in love changed my life + getting my first nuke in the same day
A good day. Was it at the same time?
no they were 2 hours apart
Oh, because if they were at the same time, I was gonna say that you should not love pixels. Heheh. But good on you mate, love is great till it bites your ass.
americans doint love pixel thats the japanese
Aw hell, that was low. I was merely joking, no need to insult the Japanese. Go for the North Koreans, nobody likes them.
 

BlindMessiah94

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Getting in a car accident last year caused a string of events pulling me to rock bottom but in retrospect has created opportunity from the ashes of my former life, giving me hope for a much more creative and happy future than I could have achieved before.
 
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just as a point of interest dude, why didn't you just flog the fuck otta this guy? i would'a the second i heard what he did to your friend.

life changing moment for me, being an absolute dick teen thinking i was untouchable, then getting jumped by 4 blokes and having the living shit kicked out of me=] BIG eye opener
 

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As a kid, I witnessed a pretty big gorefest. We have, rumored, the most dangerous railwaystation in the country. With an average deathtole of 2 per month.
When I was I think around 10, I was on my way home from school and saw a guy standing next to me waiting for the train to pass to get hit by it. He thought he was faster.
I could still hear that faint scream that lasted all of a nanosecond.

But that's not the changer.
I became pretty closed up after that and was pretty much the guy that never talked and stayed in the background.
Move up to when I was 19 I was in my Graphic Design School. We had a guy in my class who was a wannabe-emo, who was madly in love with this girl in our class. For reasons that were beyond me, after months or threatning her that he'd kill himself if she didn't love him. He tried, during Flash-class. He grabbed a blade and cut his wrist.
Everyone paniced and I, the strange nevertalking kid in the shadows, saved his life. I put presure on the wound and tried to close it by tying my shirt around it untill 112 (the 911 of my country) came.

Ever since that day I opened up. It's strange that such a horrible thing can help you, but it somehow put me over that gorefest I witnessed when I was little.

EDIT: 100th post, yay
 

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Deshara said:
Falling in love. I was a couple with the girl for about two years, and while she started out being the most amazing person I knew, because of the occasional stupid thing that'd happen and her not exactly being a stable person (understandable with her family being the way it is), she slowly became the worst person I knew. This has provided me with a whole hell of a lot of experience when dealing with people, whether they're a nice sweetheart who just wants to spend a little time with me or a lying girl trying to act like a sweetheart to exploit me for their own purpouses. And, having learned slowly over time how to get something from her even if she doesn't want to give it (not like that, perv), I've apparently become a very, very seductive person.
Oh god this. Love at first sight to wishing they didnt exist... Puts everything into perspective really. Kinda trashed my ability to trust people in a loving way but... time will tell
 

Oilerfan92

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I wont lie, thats a messed up 4th grade. I didnt get into my first fist fight till grade 6.

I caved into my moms wishes and went to church again, the church itself is ok, but after a year of going i decided to join the youth group (whos leader had scared me of when i first went to the church with a now self-admited overeagerness and creepiness).

I had gone to another youth group at my other church years early and it was pretty brutal, the leaders were ok. But the kids were all douches. So I show up to the group, it starts of ok, then the time comes for the group (about 8-9 in the highschool group plus 2 leaders) to ask me one question each to break the ice. Long story short. 8 of the 10 questions were ok (fav food and that stuff) but i was also unintentionally called retarded by the pastors son for having a minor speach impediment, and was asked an extreamly deep question about God and life and that, which resulted in me sitting there not making a sound staring at the ground awkwardly for 3 minutes before the group leader figured the group had embarrassed itself enough and bailed me out. Luckily for me, right after that, one of the kids who had seemed pretty cool and had gone through the same thing when he joined decided to be friendly to me, and eventually i became close to pretty much everyone in the group (even the kid who embarrased me and the kid who called me retarded).

The group is now the highlight of my week and im counting down the days till it starts up again in September. It was pretty much the only point in my week when im around people im friends with (school was ok, but i pretty much gave up on it at that point). And helped stabalize my life which had pretty much had nothing at that point. And i now have more than 3 friends.

...Also, there are a couple good looking girls in it too. I cant lie. Thats not to bad to ;)
 

InnerRebellion

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blue_lame93@hotmail.com said:
just as a point of interest dude, why didn't you just flog the fuck otta this guy? i would'a the second i heard what he did to your friend.

life changing moment for me, being an absolute dick teen thinking i was untouchable, then getting jumped by 4 blokes and having the living shit kicked out of me=] BIG eye opener
I don't like fighting. I'm a rather big guy, can damage someone pretty well, but I hate hurting another person.
 
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I'm exactly the same, 17 6'2 90kg but when it comes to a guy threatening a chick, especially one of my girls i couldn't care less, they wanna feel tough picking on someone they no cant fight back, make them know how it fucking feels like
 

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Having a dream where I was dying of a heart disease.
I know that sounds stupid, but thinking you were about to die can really change you.