There's nothing wrong with following your dreams, but you must also balance it with the demands of reality. You may one day be a great writer and have some mega-selling book, but even many of the best and most successful writers struggled or had to work additional jobs before they hit it big.Teh Jammah said:If you really want to write professionally you should consider (at least starting with) journalism of some description, even if its just sending in freelance articles to your local newspaper until they publish one. Not only is it writing for a living, its also giving you the skills you'd need to be an author - working within an editorial mandate, working to deadlines, etc. Plus you never know, it might actually give you an idea or two for a book, since sometimes truth is stranger than fiction.AnthrSolidSnake said:I'm in the exact same situation. I graduated high school, am now 20, and have no real job. My passion is to become a writer, "professionally", but my entire life has consisted of "That's not a real job." or "You will need to get a real job first." or "Chances are you won't be successful." All those statements weighed on me, HARD. My english teachers even told me to give up, and some said (though they tried to convey it as if they were saying it nicely) that I had no real talent for writing, despite the fact that I wrote novels since second grade. It didn't even have to be books that I wrote, I just wanted to write almost ANYTHING, to tell a story to someone. My parents were just sort of "Meh." when I told them, and now, when I finally have the actual time to sit down and write something for more than a page or two at a time, I'm constantly being expected to go out and get a job, or go to college. It's less a lack of discipline and more a lack of motivation. No one (except a couple old friends with whom don't talk to me anymore) had any faith in my passion as a writer, and most adults just passed it off as something as unobtainable as becoming a rock star, or NFL player.
But of you enjoy writing, then keep it up, even if its only as a hobby.
Regardless, don't give up. To use a good story: Timothy Ferris, the man who wrote "The 4-hour week" and the "The 4-hour Body" (both of which were megahits) got rejected by 26 publishers for his first book before someone finally picked it up.