What do you do when your stuck with someone you hate?
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Oh lord, does she at least swallow her damn sushi before she talks? Man there's nothing worse than sitting with someone who won't shut up and they insist on continuing to chew while they talk...what was the question again?
Oh, right. Maybe confide in your girlfriend that you can't stand the chatty cow, and while you will put up with her on the occasion she happens to be around, you'd be perfectly happy never seeing her again for as long as you live. I've always found honesty to be the best policy, so best of luck to ya.
Oh, right. Maybe confide in your girlfriend that you can't stand the chatty cow, and while you will put up with her on the occasion she happens to be around, you'd be perfectly happy never seeing her again for as long as you live. I've always found honesty to be the best policy, so best of luck to ya.
make sarcastic remarks at the start (like "oh, woo yay" or "aren't i lucky"), and then ignore them for the rest of the time.
I tell them how I feel about them with an air of complete neutrality. If they're sensitive to the awkwardness which would presumably follow that sort of reveal, they'll probably leave of their own accord. If your partner is likely to be angry, then just get up and stand away. If they ask why you've done so, *then* tell them.
If they're upset, remind them that there's no such thing as being honest "to a fault", and that insisting on socially expedient white lies is morbid, juvenile, tiresome and cowardly.
You don't want to hurt anybody, but nobody can make you share the company of someone you dislike. End of story.
If they're upset, remind them that there's no such thing as being honest "to a fault", and that insisting on socially expedient white lies is morbid, juvenile, tiresome and cowardly.
You don't want to hurt anybody, but nobody can make you share the company of someone you dislike. End of story.
Usually either imply I'm not in the mood to talk or imply I don't like them. Or put up with it. Unless they're so bad I want to rip their voicebox out and beat them to death with it (somehow) I can usually put up with a short period of inner hate with the knowledge that it will be over eventually.
Works for me...that and being oh so courteous. It really pisses people off when they can't get a rise out of you when they know you're not a fan.kman123 said:
It's very simple for me...I am roughly 6' tall, ~200lbs, and completely covered in tattoos. I also make snide comments constantly, mostly demeaning the intellect of others. 90 percent of my friends that are female have confided in me that at first they found me very intimidating.
My advice is to make her feel stupid. As long as you never let up, she'll get the picture. It may make her dislike you so much that she'd refuse to go near you anymore.
My advice is to make her feel stupid. As long as you never let up, she'll get the picture. It may make her dislike you so much that she'd refuse to go near you anymore.
Years ago, I was stuck in a car driving for 2 hours alone with my dad. We had just gotten done with one of our usual arguments before we left. I handled it pretty well though. We didn't speak, but I never showed any sign that I was uncomfortable. I pretty much just leaned back with a cocky half-smile painted on my face the entire way. I knew it was bugging the shit out of him. Very relaxing once I blocked him from my mental perception. Just sat back and enjoyed ignoring his mere existence.
Ignore them and just try to be pleasant, if I have to be with them why do I have to make the time any worse.
If I'm with someone else that I am fond of, which I am assuming you are fond of your girlfriend as she's your girlfriend, I just pay attention to them and try to forget the other person is present.
If its just me and the person I hate, I just text people I don't hate.
If its just me and the person I hate, I just text people I don't hate.
I hold in all my rage and homicidal anger until my eye twitches, then the veins in my neck bulge, after blood flow has increased, my brain will hemorrhage, once the bleeding is too much, my head explodes.
Buy a round of strong drinks, be nice, try to establish a threesome. If she's dumb it could be even easier than you think.
do what people did to kyle on south park when he befriended someone no one likes on facebook: ignore and it works cus they get pissedKouen said:
on another note you're avatar creeps me out a little reminds me of shadow from dead to rights
Generally, I don't make any pretenses about being polite. I don't like the person and don't want them around; why would I try to make them think otherwise?
The situation in the OP is different, however, since she's the girlfriend's friend. The solution there is to tell the girlfriend what you think of the friend, and to say no when she wants to hang out with both of you at the same time.
The situation in the OP is different, however, since she's the girlfriend's friend. The solution there is to tell the girlfriend what you think of the friend, and to say no when she wants to hang out with both of you at the same time.