What do you find attractive in a guy/girl
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A mixture of intelligence and looks.
I don't believe I'm asking to much, but it seems that mny ppl cant meat mi expctationz!#
I don't believe I'm asking to much, but it seems that mny ppl cant meat mi expctationz!#
Dark hair. Pitch-black is dead sexy on women.
On guys, I'd say a medium or light brown is alot better. Either gender, I can't stand blonde hair. Uber turn-off.
Eyes, I don't really care. Anything but gray -.-
Chest, well the girl needs lumps and the guy needs no lumps. Otherwise it could get strange.
Build, not too muscley for either gender. 'hunks' are a massive turn-off, size zero is the same, fat, well, I don't have a BBW fetish so no.
And a girl, well, smooooooooooth. Woot.
As far as personality... well that's a muuuuuuch longer list than the physical aspect, and it's 10pm on band camp week, and it's the latter side of the question, so I can't be bothered writing it now.
On guys, I'd say a medium or light brown is alot better. Either gender, I can't stand blonde hair. Uber turn-off.
Eyes, I don't really care. Anything but gray -.-
Chest, well the girl needs lumps and the guy needs no lumps. Otherwise it could get strange.
Build, not too muscley for either gender. 'hunks' are a massive turn-off, size zero is the same, fat, well, I don't have a BBW fetish so no.
And legs... guy needs to have some decently built thighs. Not flabby, not skinny, not hunky. I'm kinda picky with thighs :/Loud Hawk said:
And a girl, well, smooooooooooth. Woot.
As far as personality... well that's a muuuuuuch longer list than the physical aspect, and it's 10pm on band camp week, and it's the latter side of the question, so I can't be bothered writing it now.
Someone who has either blond or dark hair that's kind of longish and really touchable (I like touching people's hair if they'll let me), has dimples and pretty eyes, smiles a lot, and gives good hugs. And is taller than me. But seriously, it's hard to not be taller than I am, so that hardly counts. And if he wears a suit and is around my age then I will probably propose to him.
natural outward beauty... as in, if you only look good with make up on, then you dont look good. i say this because it is tangentially related to the REAL deal maker, not giving a crap about looking good. no make up, hoodie and sweatpants are your going out clothes..that kind of thing. hell, shave your hair because its a practical haircut, i honestly would probably take a while to notice. its indicative of not having the obsession with beauty over every other human quality that far too many people have.
well i guess i couldve just said "theres nothing sexier than a mind i can relate to", since that covers pretty much everything. ive said in a previous thread that a narcissist like me wants to marry his opposite-gendered clone above all else, so what i find attractive:
blunt and unrelenting in conversation; no flirty games, no 'hows the weather'. a woman once refused to back down after asking me who were the top 3 sexiest men in my opinion. that kind of unconventional, direct communication, where your dont care about the usual self-restrictions of talking with a stranger and actually talk about something you want to hear and find interesting...thats sexy. of course i never saw her again.....and its bruce campbell, nathan fillion, and whoever played dave in 2001: a space oddyssey, for those who are curious.
i could simply say smarts, but thats pretentious...but its also true. well in general this relates to me liking anyone who can challenge me...i really feel like the king of fools next to my family and peers (as in, the smartest out of a bunch of idiots, so it isnt impressive at all). in grade school i had a friend; i got risk the board game, played it with family and pwned them, played him and had the game go on for a week. we left the board sitting on the table overnight, and i obsessively made sure no pieces were disturbed (never occurred to me to cheat...damn child naivete). so yeah, i want a battle of wits with my woman, cause its really fun.
im fairly certain i moved before the game could be completed. might explain my extreme desire for another challenge of the same type, as it was never resolved.
....im sure that will be taken completely out of context.
well i guess i couldve just said "theres nothing sexier than a mind i can relate to", since that covers pretty much everything. ive said in a previous thread that a narcissist like me wants to marry his opposite-gendered clone above all else, so what i find attractive:
blunt and unrelenting in conversation; no flirty games, no 'hows the weather'. a woman once refused to back down after asking me who were the top 3 sexiest men in my opinion. that kind of unconventional, direct communication, where your dont care about the usual self-restrictions of talking with a stranger and actually talk about something you want to hear and find interesting...thats sexy. of course i never saw her again.....and its bruce campbell, nathan fillion, and whoever played dave in 2001: a space oddyssey, for those who are curious.
i could simply say smarts, but thats pretentious...but its also true. well in general this relates to me liking anyone who can challenge me...i really feel like the king of fools next to my family and peers (as in, the smartest out of a bunch of idiots, so it isnt impressive at all). in grade school i had a friend; i got risk the board game, played it with family and pwned them, played him and had the game go on for a week. we left the board sitting on the table overnight, and i obsessively made sure no pieces were disturbed (never occurred to me to cheat...damn child naivete). so yeah, i want a battle of wits with my woman, cause its really fun.
im fairly certain i moved before the game could be completed. might explain my extreme desire for another challenge of the same type, as it was never resolved.
i also want to qualify my statements by saying that while im not fat, my standards are pretty much as low as this; despite everything i just said, if it has a vagina and feigns interest in me, ill take it.Krythe said:
....im sure that will be taken completely out of context.
Effort. Effort makes a fat girl lose weight, and teaches a butterface how to put on her makeup. You know it when you see it.
To be honest with you all, I don't really even expect anything else, I hate getting my hopes up to have them dashed somewhere between tomorrow and three months later.
To be honest with you all, I don't really even expect anything else, I hate getting my hopes up to have them dashed somewhere between tomorrow and three months later.
Well, I would prefer someone who's hot, but the people I fancy right now are both very smart but not "conventionally" pretty.