What do you find attractive in the gender(s) you are attracted to?

[TheLastSamurai14]

A cute-faced girl who's smart, likes video games, doesn't judge me for my interests, and has the same views as me.

Basically, my current girlfriend fits this description well.

 

[Count Igor]

Smart, shares my humour, not too many spots, and nice hair. (I can't really explain the "nice" part)

 

[smithy_2045]

Physically, the only non-negotiables are she has to have a cute face, and she can't be fat.
Slightly prefer dark hair and being slightly taller.

Mentally, she has to be smart, witty, loyal, trustworthy, able to take a joke, funny, and most importantly able to put up with me.

 

[Bran1470]

i love a girl who talks a lot so i basically like my opposite

 

[Treaos Serrare]

Internal Requirements: A good sense of Humor, Thick skinned, Intelligent, Has Similar Interests on at least Three Subjects.


External requests(not required but a bonus if there): I have no preference for eye color i like most all evenly(though if i ever meet a woman with golden eyes I'll be on her like white on rice)
I prefer Darker skin tones to Paler ones but I like them all evenly(Pale girls are fun to leave marks on since it doesn't require much)-(Darker girls from creamy to mocha to chocolate all look DELICIOUS, and I'll leave it at that)
I prefer long hair to short as I like to play with it, and I like Black Hair most of all, with redheads coming in second( though unnatural colors and hairstyles sometimes pique my interest)
Body wise I like a girl to be at least a little meaty, really skinny girls aren't very attractive to me outside of the curiosity factor since I haven't been with a very skinny girl before.
Medium to low-end large for boobs and butts is my taste, not to big but not too small, a handful basically.

 

[Wolfram23]

Depends. If I'm looking at pictures of girls, I like a thin body, nice legs, and a cute/pretty face. But in terms of a girlfriend, definitely she needs to be smart and responsible and fun. I would add "not crazy" and/or "not a *****" to that, but that would rule out practically every girl =P

 

[Xaio30]

The face and hair. The rest of her body may be chubby, but as long has her face and hair looks good I'm on.

 

[Ryu-Kage]

Usually, at least neck-length hair (any natural-looking color for real girls, though darker colors more likely) and a cute face are enough physically. I tend to be attracted more to cute girls / women than "hot" ones.

Otherwise, if I can easily talk to the girl and have fun hanging around with them, that's a good sign. I don't mind arguing with her either; debating can be fun if each side can bring viable points, as long as she's not being impossibly stubborn. Lack of intelligence is also a turn-off.

 

[Richardplex]

I'm a face guy. I just don't like it when a girl hasn't got eyes, skin, or hair. Honestly though, an attractive face does it for me. And if she isn't an idiot. That generally reduces the attraction I feel to said idiot.

 

[Brutal Peanut]

Personality is important: Responsible, intelligent, and a good sense of humor.

As for looks: I've always liked tall, lean, and white. I'm not saying I think men of varying colors and races are unattractive, I just have a personal preference for white guys. I'm drawn to them. Hairy. Not body hairy like back hair, but I like longish fair hair and beards. I like beards. Light colored eyes. Teeth aren't a big deal for me, as long as they are flossed and brushed.lol

Spoiler: Basically, my spouse encompasses all these things. Heeeeeeello. *licks index finger and smooths eyebrows* How's it going handsome?

 

[dystopiaINC]

well...

-first thing i look at is her face, if i like what i see then i move on, i normally like dark hair on the longer side, about shoulder length but thats all relative as hair can change, eyes, i'm a sucker for brown and grey. everything else is not a set standard just as long as i like her face i move on.

everything below her face including chest and waist just need to be proportional and not on the heavy side by too much. i love a girl that on the modest side in terms of chest size.

personality is the important part though, the only women i've ever been attracted too are the ones that i can get along with without a care in the world. i mean a girl i can talk and joke with with out any moments or uncomfortable self-consciousness. you would be surprised how rare that is for me.

she has to be funny smart and accepting. i have met a lot of girl who thought me weird as hell when i bring up gaming, manga, books, and a few internet meme's, if she accepts that or if i can get her into to these and most of the above criteria are met then i'm gonna go absolutely nuts about that girl, (should i be single at the time)

 

[The Lost Big Boss]

tits and ass

You have been quoted for successfully stating the truth. I heretofore announce my support for your opinion, and will defend to the death your right to express it.

I second the support.

 

[Zenn3k]

Good size breasts for her body type, at least B cups...need something to play with

Nice ass, even if its small (I kinda like'em small), particularly if it sways side to side when they walk...omg I could watch that for hours.

Straight hair preferred, color really doesn't matter as long as it looks good on her. Hate curly hair however, I just get my fingers tangled in it! Also, long hair. Being able to pull on their hair when you're...umm, sexing it up, big bonus.

Cute nose is always a plus.

And last but not least, not an be an annoying, psycho, clingy *****, who screams at you if you ever disagree with her...but will tell you that you're stupid straight to your face. Those kinda girls are NOT fun to be with.

 

[LiberalSquirrel]

I like guys with dark hair and a good sense of humor.

You stole my answer. How dare you!

I'll also add that I like tall guys. And, if they can pull it off, a ponytail is damn sexy.

Also... just for the sake of the non-heterosexual Escapists, I'll point out that a better title for this would have been "What do you find attractive?"

 

[Retronana]

Cold n' lifeless...

Kidding, really I like smart, pretty faced girls. By smart I mean smart not academically clever

 

[Jester00]

like me: thin, blonde hair, funny

 

[XHolySmokesX]

Slim Curvy figure, with an attractive face, and good tits and ass.

but appart from the vanity, i like a girl who can take a joke.

Hey speaking of jokes, do you want to hear a really funny joke that all girls love?

What's the difference between two dicks and a joke?

A girl can't take a joke.

Thankyou escapist, i'm here till friday

 

[brinvixen]

Height, because I'm taller than your average lady, and little bit of facial hair is nice too (a bit of scruff, or a nice trimmed beard, whatever your fancy). Also, and I can't explain it but, I rather like a guy with hairy legs. Something about it makes him look so masculine, and it makes me ever so weak!

 

[RoyalWelsh]

I find girls who have a nice/shy personality and big, doughy eyes very attractive. I don't really care if they are chubby but if they are too thin then no thanks. I like curves, curves are sexy!

And also red heads.