What do YOU find attractive?

[Irradiated Tiger]

I'm usually attracted to blondes. Shy but with a spine. Not fat but not skinny enough to look like skin and bones and that's about it.

 

[Always_Remain]

I am attracted to woman who are not real. I know, I know.

It's just I've been burned a few times and I've burned others a few times; relationships just never work for me. Plus, I find people in real life to be insufferable which in turn makes me seem like a huge prick mostly because I am. I'm just pretty much a lost cause. Unless of course some girl designed for me descends from the heavens but I don't believe I'm that deluded yet.

 

[ColeMcdoi]

Well, I'm a guy and prefer girls who are not to skinny (god no!) but pretty slender, breast doesn't really matter as long as they exist in some form.

I like a little different kind of girl which I find is rather strange. Like the mangagirl or the extremely tall one (one in my class who is around 2m high!).

Speaking of tall girls I prefer shorter but some are fine even though they are taller.

Personality: Pretty smart, just smart enough to not be a dimwit or someone who doesn't understand my jokes.

Face and appearance: Prefer people who stand out of the crowd, but I like any haircolor and face could be more towards the cute direction.

And yes some spine! a bit shy is kind of cute but come on, I want to be reminded that she is around, not the attention-whore but in a fun way. And sarcasm please! I'm like the sarcasm-troll of my school so please someone who understands me!

 

[shwnbob]

A girl (with red hair) who is flipping crazy and likes dark humor. And she has to like video games!

 

[KaosuHamoni]

Beautiful eyes really do it for me. That, and a good personality. Typically, I like brunettes the most. Dont really care past that, along as she is reasonably pretty. And has nice eyes... >.>

 

[gmaverick019_v1legacy]

well im a man, and i feel fucking awful for it almost, but 100% of the time just about, i prefer skinny girls, idk what it is but you will get zero sexual attraction out of me if you are a "big girl" (although i have TONS of big girl friends, very close friends actually, so i'm not saying im against people being however they want to be)

oh and she needs to have a god damn sense of humor (especially with sarcasm) , if she doesn't, we wont get along for more than 5 seconds probably.

but yeah, if she meets those guidelines, and can maybe even dish out her own snazzy comebacks/comments once in a while, then im fine with it, honestly we dont have to have that much in common, because it gets boring then doing the SAME shit ALL the time with each other, since you will both say the same damn things and have the exact same damn views on everything (need to have some common interests obviously)

otherwise facewise you can be anywhere from a 5-10 and i'll probably date you, face/boobs/butt wise i dont care entirely. in fact i hate boobs above C's and i hate huge butts.

 

[gmaverick019_v1legacy]

Physically? The torso region. No, not breasts. No, not ass. No, not the groin region. I very much enjoy certain types of bellies, backs and what have you. Yes, it's a strange preference, but I really, really just like those things. Hell, I actually prefer small breasts with women (although I guess I generally appreciate that in men also), simply because they're not obscuring as much. Not that I generally get to choose anything like so, but yaknow.

I won't go into any mental attributes or such, because I find there's nothing I can really add to anything.

I told you. I'm not just unattractive in appearance - I'm monstrous. No amount of "women prefer personality/money over looks" is going to get away from that.

You should see the trollish ogres (which I guess is redundant, but anyhow) who get women when they have some green. Although I'm not sure anyone really wants a relationship with a woman who only goes after that. But hey.

Still, sounds to me like you have some self confidence issues. Trust me, unless you're some kind of a accident victim mauled beyond all human recognition (in which case I'm sincerely sorry for you), or have some other disfigurement (the same), your appearance will not be the make or break. Hell, it's not that for many of those unfortunate people either. So be yourself and don't let your opinion on yourself get on the way, and it's going to turn alright.

ill agree to this, highly, these past 6 months alone, on campus (we have a taco bell and subway and wendy's right down the street from my university, so you constantly see college people there)

but anyways, i have seen a good 9-10 couples (friends dont hold hands, so i know that is at least proof!) where the dude was easily 250+ a(and they weren't tall either, around 5'10 mostly) with a face you could use as a zitty bowling ball, yet they would be with a chick who could cause a boner just from 5 seconds of looking at her.

so yes, you would be highly suprised what kind of girls guys have fancy's for (they are human, just like us and our odd preferences)

 

[Amberella]

I have to say this:

I find everything about my boyfriend attractive. He has everything.

- Blue Eyes (love blue eyes)
- Blond Hair
- Confidence
- Adventurous
- Stubborn (it can be cute xD)
- Goal Oriented
- Resiliant
- Patient
- Nerdy
- Sense of Humour
- Outspoken
- Old-fashioned
- Intelligent
- Opinionated
- Affectionate
- Playful
- Responsible
- Facial hair (seriously, it's hot)
- His broad shoulders
- His manhood (like ohmygod...heavenly)
- His smile
- The face he makes when he's thinking
- His angry look (it does things to me)

That and he's a gamer. I find that he plays video games to be very attractive.

 

[latenightapplepie]

... being male I find women in general attractive (duh!)...

That's odd. Last I checked, I'm male and I don't find women attractive at all. There you go.

I find intelligence, a sense of humour, great abdominal muscles and a bright smile particularly attractive. There's plenty of other stuff, but I don't wish to make my reply into a bloated list.

 

[Ayrtonh]

Just to be completely honest: I am entirely surprised this forum has made it pretty far whilst being serious. I am going to add my weirdness to the forum now.

Now I am a male and I like women. (I know, that tired old cliché)XD

Body: I do not like women skinnier than me. I'm skinny but Jesus Christ! Why is it that everyone of my friends that are girls are like that 'I want to be a model type thing?' Anyway, before I get on a rant on that, I like my girls to not be really skinny so that I feel like I'm going to break them lol. I really prefer girls with smaller breasts. Weird that I cant explain this one. I just don't like big breasts I guess. I would also like the to be, oh i don't know, about nose high to me, I like to be able to put my arms around them and maybe pat them on the head when I hug them

Personality: I would like them to be nice and have decent intellectual skills, at least be able to play chess with me. I would want them to be "cute" in that way that makes me feel needed. Also I would like it if they were shy. Dunno why, it's just cute

Habits: You know, I really love to cook, that's why I would like a girl that likes to cook. That would be nice. Also I would like her to be the type that can be with someone without NEEDEING conversation, I'm not that great at it so I would like to be able to just sit with them. Also I would like it if they liked to watch video games or even play them a little. Finally they Must be interested in art, I'm going to be an artist and I would like her to see the beauty of the world, not the darkness.

Hair/Makeup: This sounds a bit weird but I don't like died hair or any of that make-up crap. I want her to have an auburn colored hair and to not feel it necessary to wear make-up. lastly I would like them to have freckles. I just like freckles 'kay?

Clothing: This is actually fairly important to me. I don't like the prissy prissy (short-skirts, messed shirts, any type of "Showy" Clothing ect...) look. I REALLY don't like the goth look, but the one thing I find incredibly attractive; Dresses. Nothing overly fancy, just something plain but nice. Unfortunately, I'll need a bit o'luck to find this one.

Voice: I don't know how to describe this one. I guess I'd like it to be a simple voice that isn't harsh nor high.

I want someone like this and I'm a hopeless romantic. Guess I need to get out more lol. Wish me luck. (Epic seen depicting me walking out on an adventure to find love with the sun making me look like an awesome silhouette.)

 

[Untamed_Skies]

I'm a guy who likes gals, and I've actually discovered I have high standards.

Physically I'm not overly picky, I like petite women, I don't mind average either. I do however have a problem when someone's appetite is big enough it get's labeled as a disease(Obesity). It just tells me they have self control problems which having no self control is a major no no for me. (fun family)

Above a perfectly trim body, all the bust whatever, I like a pretty face. More so when it can attract you away from the rest of their physical assets.

But honestly, looks don't get very far with me. I like personality more then I like anything, and my guess on it is because personality adds flavor too someone. I really like smart women, and I really dislike dumb women. (I've discovered I really don't like stupid people). Along with smarts I actually like ego to an extent, I don't like it when it's overbearing and ugly. But if a girl is nice and confident, knows how big of a catch she is, and knows what she wants and holds herself high then I like that a lot more then a girl who is meek and shy. I'm much more for the strong passionate type.

 

[Mortons4ck]

I like a girl with a nice smile, cute face, and a sharp wit.

Also, has to put up with my heterosexual life mate.

 

[scorptatious]

I like girls who have curves. Particularly curvy hips. They're perfect for child bearing.

Personality wise, I'd like a girl who is outgoing, a little yin to my yang so to say.

Height wise, either about the same as me or slightly shorter. I could probably work with a taller girl, but I don't really see that happening.

Finally, I'd like a girl who isn't afraid to say "no". There was this one girl I asked out back in High school, and she would always tell me that she'll ask her mom. She never actually did inform me of whether or not she would go, so as a result, nothing ever happened. It was most likely because she didn't want to directly reject me in fear of hurting my feelings. Why? She did something similar with this other guy who gave her flowers, and when he wasn't around, she told me and some friends that she wasn't interested in him and she didn't want to tell him that.

I can understand why she would probably do this, I'd feel pretty bad if I hurt someone else's feelings. But personally, I'd much prefer it if she actually straight up told me that she wasn't interested instead of leaving me hanging.

 

[Ploop]

I like the ones with the unique personalities, most girls i know are too alike so its always a breath of fresh air when u meet the kooky ones.

i dont like the quiet/shy ones anymore, last girl i befriended like that sent me love letters and stole my food, now she does that stalking thing...

 

[Athinira]

Sounds like she's more drunk than stupid, although intelligence is definitely not one of her defining traits.

Well, seems like i gave a wrong impression then. Lets just say that she is just as charming when she is sober, which is most of the time (she isn't a heavy drinker or party-girl in general, but i party like there is no tomorrow, so if she is partying every now and again chances are that I'll be there too).

But you're right, intelligence definitely isn't her defining traits, but she isn't outright "blonde stupid" which is important to me. Nothing is worse than a girl that constantly makes absolutely stupid decisions and then bitches about it afterwards (like picking High-heeled shoes for a party, and then complaining that their feets are hurting later). I like for a girl to be less intelligent to me though, because that often means you get some good fun when their brain faces a test of some sort which you've already figured out, but you refuse to tell her the answer instead relying on hints to try to make her figure it out herself. It's always fun to watch people do something that aren't very good at, but it's also a great feeling if you can make them figure it out without giving away the solution.

Thats why i like "slightly" hopeless girls, because they aren't completely hopeless, and it's cute whenever they get an "Ah-ha" moment and go "Oh, now i get it."

 

[MrJoyless]

Wrong Forum Bro....

also athletic chicks, all she needs is a good body and im good to go

 

[FuzzyRaccoon]

Ahhh, I really have a thing for blondes or redheads (rich brown-red, not orange). I get a kick out of em, but it's not a necessity. They've gotta be nerdy like me, and okay with the fact that I'm an insensitive douche who means well. Being nice to look at is good, but not really a necessity otherwise that'd be asking for too much.
xD.