What do you find unattractive or turns you off?

[Saltyk]

So there are probably about a hundred threads a week about what you find attractive (What you look for in a guy/girl, what's your fetish, what turns you on, etc), but I don't see any-or at least not many-about what turns you off.

So it's a pretty simple question: What do you find unattractive?

Personally, I can't stand smoking. The smell is just heinous. And it's not even just the smell, I find the habit unattractive. Case in point, I was on a date with a girl, and we stopped at a restaurant where you could smoke. We were sitting cross from each other, and I was leaning in until she lit up a cigarette. If you were watching, you could easily read my body language, as I leaned back into my seat. I went from interested to not at all.
There can be exceptions, like with most anything, but it definitely knocks a few points off my interest.

In addition, I generally find blondes less attractive. That's not to say I dislike blonde girls, but if you took the same girl and gave her blonde, brunette, red, or black hair, I'd likely find her less attractive with blonde hair. I'm not saying it would destroy my interest, its just a small preference. If that makes any sense...

So, what about you Escapists?

 

[Blackmagic1515]

Smoking is a big one. It's horrible and makes you stink.

My other main one is piercings. I can't stand the things. Earrings maybe, but facial and body piercings just look awful.

 

[Verlander]

Arrogance in most cases, and girls who are very unfit, like obese.

 

[Xannieros]

Yeah I'd have to agree, smoking is a huge turn off for me. I don't even want to be with people that smoke, smell is just awful. Same with blondes, most around where I live are the spoiled types.

Drinking, meh. Kind of a turn off but something I could live with.

 

[ZeZZZZevy]

Yea smoking is up there with me too.
The smell is outright terrible and ruins the mood

 

[Julianking93]

Smoking. Not only is it disgusting and makes everything smell terrible, I'm allergic to tobacco so I really can't be around smoke.

Other than that... really nothing other than a few shallow physical things but those are never rules really. Just things I generally find unappealing like different styles and such but that tends to change from time to time.

One could also say a highly conservative and uptight lifestyle or mindset is an immediate turn off for me as well but... not even that. I just don't like people who spout bullshit Jesus rants and say gay people are immoral in general. >.>

 

[emeraldrafael]

I find girls who are grossly obese or grossly thin to be unattractive. I'll still be friends, just, I know it wouldnt work out in a relationship. I like a girl to have a bit of thickness so she doesnt look like she's fragile, but not so much where I cant fit my arms around her.

I dont mind smoking, as long as they dont do it around me, and they do it out in the air. and as long as its not a chain smoker kinda deal.

I guess it would be a case by case thing. I just like ag irl with a good personality, and most other things i can get past.

 

[Socks and Shoes]

Slathering on makeup like paint.


Ugh.

 

[ZeroMachine]

Definitely smoking.

Smoking, and, although this may be a given, lying.

Had to deal with both at the end of the last one...

 

[Celestil]

Not too into blondes or redheads. but the biggest unattractive thing is if they cuss alot. girls cussing just doesnt sit right with me.

 

[ToxicOranges]

Definetly a few things...

Smoking - probably the most stupid thing humanity is refusing to let go of, and is so, so, so unattractive. You smoke ---> You are either stupid (You think its cool) or you're feeble (Seriously. Get a grip and give it up).

Obesity - Dont get me wrong, I'm OK with people that are overweight / whatever. But properly obese? Major turn off.

Arrogance - Look, just because you THINK you're the most attractive female/male/protozoan around you does not make this so, and is really, a horrible person to be with. That is, if they even lower themselves enough to speak to you.

That's about it. not a huge fan of religion, but so long as we can mutually agree / disagree its cool.

 

[Kenami]

Girls who smoke, aren't direct with feelings (I think I speak for everyone when I say its annoying when you ask whats wrong and the response you get is "nothing" followed by a glare for not following up with another "whats wrong really?" and this might be a weird one but girls who are late to things. For some reason I really can't stand it when people are late.

Also to add to Sock and Shoes post, Make Up. I simply don't understand girls who go nuts over it.

 

[Count Igor]

Smoking
Piercings
Obese
Far too skinny.
That's all I can think of..

 

[Saltyk]

Smoking is a big one. It's horrible and makes you stink.

My other main one is piercings. I can't stand the things. Earrings maybe, but facial and body piercings just look awful.

Not even the small little studs on the side of the nose? I like those. Then again, I usually like those on girls that I would find cute even without the stud. So, take that how you will.

Still, I can agree with the idea that too many piercings and/or body piercings are a turn off. For that matter, too much of anything. For example, a tattoo would be cool, but 20 would be pushing it.

 

[Sticky Squid]

Girls who are overly agressive.
If they are confident then fine but if they resort to screaming every time you disagree with them then that is just horrible.

 

[MazeMinion]

Girls who smear on tons and tons of makeup.

 

[Lord Beautiful]

Lack of fitness makes me floppy.

Belief in astrology or sociology can also make my member point due to gravity.

 

[Phlakes]

Smoking is a big one. It's horrible and makes you stink.

My other main one is piercings. I can't stand the things. Earrings maybe, but facial and body piercings just look awful.

Both of these and tattoos, and too much make-up.

 

[MisterM2402]

Smoking. Bleugh.
Excessive drinking (though I guess that might be good if you're looking for a one-night sorta thing hehe).
Obesity, especially a lack of will to do anything about it.
Belief in psychics, astrology, crystal energies, etc., though I guess that applies to both men AND women.
Probably a few more things but nothing major.

Edit: Oh yes, piercings too; ears are fine but others - especially nose studs - just look ugly.

 

[iLikeHippos]

It would be quite difficult to list all of the possible traits down to the last corn of ugliness, so I'll just state the major ones.

1) Negativity and cockiness; Personality Issues.
Because a girl saying she is smarter than you and sighs/rolling her eyes more often than she breathes air, is just so depressing...
More-so when they aren't actually smart and their lives are fucking awesome, just they don't know shit and live in ignorance.
2) Flabby legs/arms/tummy/general; Physical conditions.
Let's be honest here; If you can't be bothered to take care of you, why should I? Don't go anorectic (looking dead won't help your case), but at LEAST hit the gym.

Those are probably the only two major flaws I can find in a girl. Probably taken from personal experience.
Oh yes... Probably.