What do you find unattractive or turns you off?

[thejackyl]

Smoking: I can deal with it, as long as it isn't frequent, and they don't blow the smoke in my face.
Obesity: I don't mind if a girl has a little extra weight, but too much is never a good thing, imo
Drinking: as long as she isn't a "loose" drunk, than I don't mind. Basically would want her to go out with friends of hers and end up sleeping with one of her guy friends because she gets slutty when she drinks.
Slutty-ness: I understand everyone has their past, I don't really care about your past sex life as long as you're clean. I mean, I look for a relationship for more than just sex. I've broken up with a few girls because all they wanted was someone to have sex with, not actually have a relationship beyond that.
Makeup: If I wanted to date a realdoll... a little is good, don't go overboard.
Language: I prefer women who don't say "fuck" every sentence. Can I have a conversation without hearing certain words a few times? Also; Porn talk.... don't do it.

 

[Nightvalien]

smoking, religion in general,piercings, excessive make up, bitchness, mood swings, the list is a mile long.

 

[nickyv917]

Stupidity. I have a strong allergy to stupid people.

 

[Blatherscythe]

Body Odor. Please, please take showers, gentlemen. Regularly. Maybe more than you think you need to, because guys that smell are so, so very gross.

Don't try to cover it up with AXE. That only makes it worse.

Ah axe and perfume. Doesn't it just suck when you walk by someone who smells like they bathed in the stuff?

 

[Ambi]

What's the point of saying things people physically can't change or could only change via artificial methods, apart from being able to say "hurr hur hur dude I hate that too"?

I guess I could be seen as hypocritical in talking about other things that some people aren't predisposed towards and might feel insecure about, like intelligence or personality traits, but at least they're better off trying to be intelligent or caring than either feeling like they look shit all the time or trying to fix created physical imperfections with endless costly remedies.

Anyways, it's never one particular thing for me- instead just a general thing about personality and how we interact.
I suppose I don't like people without self-esteem. We're all equal, there's no point in moping around if you think you're not as good in some respect. STOP COMPARING YOURSELF TO OTHERS. Everybody is different in respects, so stop focusing on the little things. They are little.

I struggle with this, I admit. I hate it when friends who are like that complain about their little insecurities. I've been guilty of it myself before. All they do is pass the habit on to others, who in turn pass it on to other friends until everyone in the group is fretting over some (often imagined) imperfection. An example I assume plenty have encountered is some girl saying "I'm fat" around people the same size as her. Body dysmorphism is like a virus, spread by the beauty industry and people themselves. I hate it. I don't know whether to attempt to change myself or rebel against the beauty/fashion thing.

It's not just over physical things. I was one of those kids who never came to terms with the fact that I wasn't like some of the people in my grade and actually had to study and work harder to achieve good grades, and that it didn't mean I was stupid and that it wasn't worth trying at anything because the end product might be unoriginal or something.

I can't say I find insecurity in others unattractive, I'd actually prefer someone with a few insecurities because it makes me feel like I'm understood and I can relate to them better, but if they won't learn to deal with them and I have to constantly be consoling him on a regular basis when he's on his "man-period", then it just gets annoying and he'll just seem like a desperate attention-whore and it becomes unattractive.

 

[Singularly Datarific]

What's the point of saying things people physically can't change or could only change via artificial methods, apart from being able to say "hurr hur hur dude I hate that too"?

I guess I could be seen as hypocritical in talking about other things that some people aren't predisposed towards and might feel insecure about, like intelligence or personality traits, but at least they're better off trying to be intelligent or caring than either feeling like they look shit all the time or trying to fix created physical imperfections with endless costly remedies.

Anyways, it's never one particular thing for me- instead just a general thing about personality and how we interact.
I suppose I don't like people without self-esteem. We're all equal, there's no point in moping around if you think you're not as good in some respect. STOP COMPARING YOURSELF TO OTHERS. Everybody is different in respects, so stop focusing on the little things. They are little.

I struggle with this, I admit. I hate it when friends who are like that complain about their little insecurities. I've been guilty of it myself before. All they do is pass the habit on to others, who in turn pass it on to other friends until everyone in the group is fretting over some (often imagined) imperfection. An example I assume plenty have encountered is some girl saying "I'm fat" around people the same size as her. Body dysmorphism is like a virus, spread by the beauty industry and people themselves. I hate it. I don't know whether to attempt to change myself or rebel against the beauty/fashion thing.

It's not just over physical things. I was one of those kids who never came to terms with the fact that I wasn't like some of the people in my grade and actually had to study and work harder to achieve good grades, and that it didn't mean I was stupid and that it wasn't worth trying at anything because it might be unoriginal or something.

I can't say I find insecurity in others unattractive, I'd actually prefer someone with a few insecurities because it makes me feel like I'm understood and I can relate to them better, but if they won't learn to deal with them and I have to constantly be consoling him on a regular basis when he's on his "man-period", then it just gets annoying and he'll just seem like a desperate attention-whore and it becomes unattractive.

I suppose it is only human, anyways. Besides, self-criticism sure beats criticism of others...

 

[Lewieroo0]

i would have to agree with you on smoking. Personally i wouldn't be comfortable with my date if she was a smoker, especially the addictive type. It's just irritating and leaves off a nasty stench in the air.

Though one of my main turn offs would be personality wise, if my date has two of the following attitudes:

1. They have that stuck up know it all attitude, think along the lines of "You know like, whatevur" kind of bullshit (Probably the kind of attitude from movie characters such as the girls from Mean Girls *shudders*)

2. Girls who are RIDICULOUSLY shy, it's just such a pain when they act all quiet and sensitive around you, it really just brings such awkwardness to the situation.

Also i should probably add those who act like complete bogans (Aussie Slang - google it up for definition).

 

[SeriousSquirrel]

I can't stand cigarettes, the smell makes me want to through up. I don't care if she smokes pot, as long as it's in moderation.

This is terribly shallow, but: Fat. A little extra weight is fine, but I just couldn't get past a high level of fat.

I don't know if I could put up with a girl who's incredibly stupid, but that wouldn't be a complete deal breaker.

I know for a fact that I wouldn't be able to put up with someone who is straight up mean.

All I can really think of.

 

[Keepitclean]

A short example... compare girl at beginning and end of video. And even if you think she looks better at the start (cause in a way, I do too), you would realize that the vast majority of men probably prefer the later incarnation.

Are you saying she is or isn't wearing a lot at the end?
I personally think she looks better at the start but wasn't that the point of the video?

I don't really care either way about make up. If it makes you feel more confident about yourself go for it because confidence is attractive.

 

[DaJoW]

Another vote for smoking. Other than that, odd proportions (in the way of muscular arms and upper body but a proportionately weaker lower body the way male gymnasts often look), large tattoos and being too near either end of the skinny-obese spectrum. I don't mind women with some weight (my brothers girlfriend weighs near 100kg and looks good), but it also depends quite a bit on the person to me, some people look better when they're a bit heavier.

 

[jonyboy13]

Stupidity above everything else. I'm talking about you, you damn Facebook zombie.

 

[Saltyk]

You know, sometimes I'm amazed at how clueless some men are about the relationship between women and makeup. As much as I hate to break it to you, most of the women in the world you'd be quick to consider "attractive" have a lot more makeup than you might think -- done properly, it can look like you're only wearing a little when really, you're wearing a lot.

I would generally agree with that. A lot of guys seem to be rather ignorant as to how makeup works, especially foundation.

Also, I find it somewhat disappointing that makeup and fingernail polish is apparently evil to some, as I generally like to dress in a goth/punk kind of way with dark clothing, dark fingernails, and dark makeup. Although, I don't put on as much as what people would consider a stereotypical goth. So, no thick raccoon eyes and black lipstick, bit excessive for me, but I do use black nail polish.

I assume they mean 'trashy' looking make up, but who knows... I imagine some people dislike how I dress anyway.

If it makes you feel any better, I happen to have a weak spot for the goth/punk look. Still not a fan of obvious caked on Mimi make-up, but if she does it right, I do like it.

 

[sheic99]

Lack of fitness makes me floppy.

Belief in astrology or sociology can also make my member point due to gravity.

Wait, what?

 

[Tdc2182]

Definetly a few things...

Smoking - probably the most stupid thing humanity is refusing to let go of, and is so, so, so unattractive. You smoke ---> You are either stupid (You think its cool) or you're feeble (Seriously. Get a grip and give it up).

Cigars make me feel fancy and are a natural Afro-... aphro... aphrodisiac.

OT: Though yeah... smoking is kind of a turn off. Along with hygiene and stuff.

Though I do hate that certain sense of humor that most girls seem to share. It's like... It's like they make noises and stupid things that crack each other up... And some of their inside jokes are the culmination (really hope I used that word right) of just extremely unfunny things that will are not even close to being amusing.

I don't like it. Sorry to any teenage girls in this thread, but there are some stupid things you find funny.

Edit: Also- And I don't mean to offend any ladies- how some girls take absolutely no care of working out. My previous thing (you *****), could not run for more than about 30 yards. It was just so pathetic and embarrassing to watch.

 

[KelsieKatt]

"No, I will not wear pale makeup all the time, stand in your bedroom corner like a creep while you sleep or pretend to suck your blood.."

Pretending is for losers. Cool people drink real blood.

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Also, for the record, there's no blood drinking in Twilight, and Edward Cullen mostly just cries a lot about how he hates being a vampire, but doesn't bite people, ever, and gets super powers in return, and can't die in sunlight.

So... essentially he has nothing to do with vampires whatsoever and is an absolute moron. Also, his family acts like some kind of creepy fucking Stepford family, being all smiley and happy all the time.

 

[BrionJames]

People who don't know when to shut up. Arrogance. Redheads generally make me uneasy, I've known too many in my life that are absolutely unpredictable. Women who don't know when to let men be men, or rather like to insult it rather than appreciate the fact that we're different. Loud people.

 

[The_ModeRazor]

Not sufficiently pretty girls are a big turn off. Yes, I am a vain and shallow person. Kill me.