What do you find unattractive or turns you off?
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I have pretty much lost all interest in pursuing a relationship so basically my turn offs are everything. A girl would basically have to me my perfect idea of a woman to have me be with her but I never expect to find that because that would be delusional.
Yeah. I'm a pretty cool guy.
Yeah. I'm a pretty cool guy.
I make you uneasy, Brion? ;n ; </3
I guess my major turn off would be excessive aggression. Even if it's not directed towards me it makes me feel very uneasy and I hate the sort of people who just try to start conflict wherever they go in some misguided attempt to make up for their own insecurities.
Also; baldness. For all kinds of reasons, but mainly because my dad is bald. I do not want to be reminded of my father at any point in a relationship. Just... no.
I guess my major turn off would be excessive aggression. Even if it's not directed towards me it makes me feel very uneasy and I hate the sort of people who just try to start conflict wherever they go in some misguided attempt to make up for their own insecurities.
Also; baldness. For all kinds of reasons, but mainly because my dad is bald. I do not want to be reminded of my father at any point in a relationship. Just... no.
Anyone who is social, optimistic or has self esteem pisses me right the fuck off. Also, people who have had a good family life and love their families. Mummy's boys are a huge turn-off.
Edit: Oh yeah, also religion.
Edit: Oh yeah, also religion.
Overly emotional behavior. Deliberate stupidity. Socialist/hippie/collectivist/communist/egalitarian tendencies.
ok where to start ghetto attitude, girls who hide under 3 tonnes of makeup sreiously a little bit is ok and finnaly the forcefully religious ones
edit: proabaly more but i cant thnink of all of them
edit: proabaly more but i cant thnink of all of them
Arrogance, especially false arrogance. I find this to be one of the worst qualities a human can have. But I have to say that I'm guilty from time to time.
Being self-centered.
As mentioned, obesity as well as extreme skinnyness.
Being too tall. This is not about "I want to be taller than my girlfriend" -kind of thing. I'm a tall person and there's very few women who are taller than me. I just find a tall woman unattractive and being small cute.
Too passionate belief in religions, supernatural and pseudo-science. I'm tolerant of other views but I can't stand people who try to shove their views in to my face.
General lack of intelligence.
Too much makeup. Make up is meant to emphasize the facial features you feel are attractive, it's not supposed to create false features.
A obnoxious temper. I'm a very calm person, and while someone being different in terms of personality is fine, I can't stand people who for example let things get under their skin too easily.
Being self-centered.
As mentioned, obesity as well as extreme skinnyness.
Being too tall. This is not about "I want to be taller than my girlfriend" -kind of thing. I'm a tall person and there's very few women who are taller than me. I just find a tall woman unattractive and being small cute.
Too passionate belief in religions, supernatural and pseudo-science. I'm tolerant of other views but I can't stand people who try to shove their views in to my face.
General lack of intelligence.
Too much makeup. Make up is meant to emphasize the facial features you feel are attractive, it's not supposed to create false features.
A obnoxious temper. I'm a very calm person, and while someone being different in terms of personality is fine, I can't stand people who for example let things get under their skin too easily.
back boobs - those flabs of fat that just kinda ooze off the shoulderblades of some fat chicks. You know the ones - they've been on and off diets so much that their skin has been stretched to unknown proportions, until that middle ground is found around 250 where 90 of it is extra unused skin, leading to back boobs.
i just have to say i love your avataremeraldrafael said:
. i just started that game on the psp a few days ago, my first shin (megami?) tensei game, and i've been addicted.ANYWAY op: when girl's are too ditzy its just annoying. and ton's of facial piercings are a huge turn off. i don't mind maybe a lip ring or something but when they get there nose pierced, snike bites, or anything like that it's just, nty.
also when they try to hard to impress you, thats irks me.
capcha: difyindl press... wtf? lol
Girls that smoke, ugh, it tells me they don't truly have control over their lives if they can be swayed to use or want to use something that will shorten their lives and possibly kill themselves, and as others have said it smells nasty and is gross.
Girls that have plastic surgery, boob jobs, etc, etc. I want a girl that is all real. If I had feelings for a girl but then I found out she had a boob job, boom, my interest would be gone. A girl that gets work like that done, shows me that she doesn't have respect for herself and body, and will never accept herself for who she is. Other than that, it also tells me the girl is vain and most likely full of herself.
Looking like having no breasts or miniscule breasts aren't attractive for me. I'm not a breast guy but I still have standards in that department. If I'm looking at the girl by her profile, there should be pretty noticeable curve out.
A girl has to have curves, so girls that have flat butts are out. It's shallow, but if it doesn't look like I can grab her butt with both hands and be able to get a firm hold, then she isn't the girl for me. This is the main department for me when it comes to non-facial physical attraction.
On the facial, I will not be attracted to a girl if she doesn't have nice looking face. I'm the traditional guy that is just looking for a nice girl to get married and spend the rest of my life with, and I want a girl that I can actually look in the face.
Tattoos, it just doesn't look nice. Now if she just has one small one that is barely noticeable and it is of something cute, than I guess it would be okay. Nothing ugly or dark.
Piercings, only the ears are okay and only if it is traditional with just one little hole in each ear for normal earrings.
Weight issues: I'm considered overweight, 5ft 4ins, 185lbs. A girl that is heavier than me would be fine, as long as she carried it well on her body.
On the other end of that, a girl most have a decent enough amount of weight on her for her size. If I can see ribs, I am moving on to another girl. I don't want to date a skeleton.
Personality wise: I don't like a girl that is quick to anger, she must be easy going and understanding.
If the girl plays games or won't be straight forward with me if I show interest, I won't be around long because. In a non-bar setting, like school or at work, if I show interest, I give a week max for her to come forward with her decision(5 minutes tops in a bar). If she is already in a relationship, she should immediately say so.
Example: Once in college, their was a girl in one of my classes that I had an interest in. I threw out signals left and right. I intently listened to anything she had to say, and paid her many complements. Then a few weeks later, I decide to just jump in and ask if she would like to go out and do something sometime, not having to do with class, like going to get coffee at the student union and just talk or what not. Right then she told me that she had a boyfriend back home. I find it really stupid for a girl to let a guy that is obviously interested in her keep making signals for so long when she can't reciprocate them. She was a nice person, but it would have helped if she had been upfront from the start when I made the first signal, then I could have been just a normal friend and moved onto someone else.
Because of this, if the girl doesn't show any signs of interest within a week, I'm gone or at least the showing of interest in having a deep relationship, will go away.
Girls that have plastic surgery, boob jobs, etc, etc. I want a girl that is all real. If I had feelings for a girl but then I found out she had a boob job, boom, my interest would be gone. A girl that gets work like that done, shows me that she doesn't have respect for herself and body, and will never accept herself for who she is. Other than that, it also tells me the girl is vain and most likely full of herself.
Looking like having no breasts or miniscule breasts aren't attractive for me. I'm not a breast guy but I still have standards in that department. If I'm looking at the girl by her profile, there should be pretty noticeable curve out.
A girl has to have curves, so girls that have flat butts are out. It's shallow, but if it doesn't look like I can grab her butt with both hands and be able to get a firm hold, then she isn't the girl for me. This is the main department for me when it comes to non-facial physical attraction.
On the facial, I will not be attracted to a girl if she doesn't have nice looking face. I'm the traditional guy that is just looking for a nice girl to get married and spend the rest of my life with, and I want a girl that I can actually look in the face.
Tattoos, it just doesn't look nice. Now if she just has one small one that is barely noticeable and it is of something cute, than I guess it would be okay. Nothing ugly or dark.
Piercings, only the ears are okay and only if it is traditional with just one little hole in each ear for normal earrings.
Weight issues: I'm considered overweight, 5ft 4ins, 185lbs. A girl that is heavier than me would be fine, as long as she carried it well on her body.
On the other end of that, a girl most have a decent enough amount of weight on her for her size. If I can see ribs, I am moving on to another girl. I don't want to date a skeleton.
Personality wise: I don't like a girl that is quick to anger, she must be easy going and understanding.
If the girl plays games or won't be straight forward with me if I show interest, I won't be around long because. In a non-bar setting, like school or at work, if I show interest, I give a week max for her to come forward with her decision(5 minutes tops in a bar). If she is already in a relationship, she should immediately say so.
Example: Once in college, their was a girl in one of my classes that I had an interest in. I threw out signals left and right. I intently listened to anything she had to say, and paid her many complements. Then a few weeks later, I decide to just jump in and ask if she would like to go out and do something sometime, not having to do with class, like going to get coffee at the student union and just talk or what not. Right then she told me that she had a boyfriend back home. I find it really stupid for a girl to let a guy that is obviously interested in her keep making signals for so long when she can't reciprocate them. She was a nice person, but it would have helped if she had been upfront from the start when I made the first signal, then I could have been just a normal friend and moved onto someone else.
Because of this, if the girl doesn't show any signs of interest within a week, I'm gone or at least the showing of interest in having a deep relationship, will go away.
Drugs. Specifically an abuse of them.
I can be friends and acquaintances with people who use drugs, that's fine. As long as they don't abuse them. However I could never find someone attractive who uses drugs, even rarely. Personally I prefer the feeling of sobriety to anything else, "and yes, I have tested, I am not the type to condemn something which I myself haven't experienced." It simply is not a lifestyle which I mesh with. The same as some people can't stand people who listen to music nonstop, or people who don't go outside, well I can only stand people who skew their perception of reality on a daily basis in small doses if at all.
I can be friends and acquaintances with people who use drugs, that's fine. As long as they don't abuse them. However I could never find someone attractive who uses drugs, even rarely. Personally I prefer the feeling of sobriety to anything else, "and yes, I have tested, I am not the type to condemn something which I myself haven't experienced." It simply is not a lifestyle which I mesh with. The same as some people can't stand people who listen to music nonstop, or people who don't go outside, well I can only stand people who skew their perception of reality on a daily basis in small doses if at all.
Generally, girls who are too shy to speak up and don't really have confidence in themselves are a problem for me. Pretty much, they need to be aggressive to get me interested.
AKA
I need Tsundere...
Physically, over-huge breasts are a turn-off, I generally prefer well-proportioned girls.
for example, a short girl with huge breasts is a turn-off, but a taller-girl with the same measurements can be sexy... weird, i know!
AKA
I need Tsundere...
Physically, over-huge breasts are a turn-off, I generally prefer well-proportioned girls.
for example, a short girl with huge breasts is a turn-off, but a taller-girl with the same measurements can be sexy... weird, i know!
I had my first bad kisser this year. She'd just have her mouth open and stick her tongue in mine. Like this :-Op or something. All I felt was a pointy mouth and her teeth. Eeeeeeeek.Dags90 said:
