What do you find unattractive or turns you off?

[MASTACHIEFPWN]

girls cussing just doesnt sit right with me.

Seriously, it is the biggest turnoff out there for me. I really try to tone cussing down with average life, because it isn't necessary. But I sit near these douchebagish girls near lunch sometimes and all I hear is "AWW THUTS F*CKING DUMB" and crap similer to that... I seriously just want to punch them in the face when I hear that.

Another turn off I have intellegence. I don't mind if the girl isn't the smartest person out there, just as long as she can answer a math problem, and has some form of brain. Really dumb people- just no.

Finally, breasts. The size really doesn't matter to me, just as long as they're natural. Implants, NO! It shows a total lack of self confidence, another thing I cannot stand.

 

[General_Potatoes]

Smoking. Drinking is fine with me, but smoking is just gross.

 

[Womplord]

HOW CAN YOU NOT LIKE BLONDES?
I for one, love blonde's. My favourite is red hair but that's kind of rare.
Yeah, I don't like smoking.
I also don't like girls who are really happy all the time and can't stop talking. (I guess this means the very extraverted girls) I really just cannot stand those kind of people. And people that love their families and are religious. It seems that they think that they can judge people who are different but they never had anything happen to them that could actually make them more cynical.

 

[Tipsy Giant]

If a woman answers yes to one of these, i'm OFF

No Hobbies (outside of tv and gym)
Low intellect (can't have a deep conversation)
Is religious (in any sense other than morally)
Unhealthy (considerably over or under weight)
Bad taste in Music (Pop or only one genre of interest)

 

[thejboy88]

I don't like it when people interrupt others.

Let people finish speaking before you speak yourself.

It's just polite.

 

[Colour Scientist]

Guys who don't smoke or drink, who feel they are entitled act superior to those who don't. It's so boring, if you don't, fine, but shut up about it, it's not something to boast about.
Really insecure guys, I don't want to be with someone who I constantly have to reassure.
Short or really skinny guys aren't my thing either.

 

[Tipsy Giant]

--> Boys who are skinnier than me. I'm relatively fit, so if they're skinnier than me, it looks unhealthy to me.
--> Short guys. Which is unfortunate, because I'm 5'9", so I'm kinda tall for a girl, plus I like heels. But that's kind of the point: I want to be able to get dressed and go out with the guy without feeling like Godzilla.
--> Guys who dress poorly. Dressing well doesn't have to be designer clothes. But guys who really take no time into getting dressed before leaving their home (the low slung jeans with the underwear hanging out, the oversized sweatpants, the sweatpants-sweatshirt combo on a whole) means that I don't have to take time into getting to know them either.
--> Body odor. Just yuck.

I could mention some other things, but those are the real deal-breakers for me.

Oddly enough, smoking doesn't bother me. I think smoking is only really unattractive on girls (something about a pretty girl, with a cigarette in her mouth, and spitting every few minutes from the smoking, is not cute). Luckily for me, I like boys. I don't smoke myself, and I'm not a supporter of smoking either, but that's that person's choice. So long as it doesn't interfere with my relationship with you, I'm fine. One time I was dating a guy, and we were mid-cuddle, enjoying each other's company, when he suddenly needed to run outside for a cigarette. This counts as interference, and we soon stopped seeing each other afterwards.

Ah so this is where the tall women are hiding. Being a tall bloke dating short women sucks, from behind it looks like i'm crossing a child across the street when I hold their hand lol

Being 6'6 has it's troubles too. check the dents in every door frame i've walked through

 

[Saltyk]

HOW CAN YOU NOT LIKE BLONDES?

It's not that I don't LIKE blondes. It's just that given a choice, and all things being equal, a blonde would be my last choice. It's more of a preference.

 

[KaiRai]

Short hair on girls. It's such a turn off for me.

 

[EinTheCorgi]

Smoking is just disgusting Also I hate females who use chat speak in person. Same with girls who are just plain stupid, I know most guys like dumb girls because there good for a quick toss but me...not so much I want a lass I can talk to and have a good chat with.

though in truth im really picky so I have trouble finding girl :/

 

[DRSH1989]

chicken legs

 

[Amondren]

Smoking, Drugs, Using Makeup as face paint, body piercings (other then ear.), arrogance, spoiled. They are just big turn off's some more then others.

 

[derbt]

Personally? I don't date chauvinistic or misogynistic men. I can't stand them.

Also, sexist jokes are a massive turn-off. Guys can say 'it's just a joke!' all they like, but a joke like that and they're stuck in the friend zone before they have time to snap their fingers. I find it really unattractive, even if I know they're joking. Can I be friends with them? Of course! I know they were joking. But date them? Not interested.

 

[Harbinger_]

So there are probably about a hundred threads a week about what you find attractive (What you look for in a guy/girl, what's your fetish, what turns you on, etc), but I don't see any-or at least not many-about what turns you off.

So it's a pretty simple question: What do you find unattractive?

Personally, I can't stand smoking. The smell is just heinous. And it's not even just the smell, I find the habit unattractive. Case in point, I was on a date with a girl, and we stopped at a restaurant where you could smoke. We were sitting cross from each other, and I was leaning in until she lit up a cigarette. If you were watching, you could easily read my body language, as I leaned back into my seat. I went from interested to not at all.
There can be exceptions, like with most anything, but it definitely knocks a few points off my interest.

In addition, I generally find blondes less attractive. That's not to say I dislike blonde girls, but if you took the same girl and gave her blonde, brunette, red, or black hair, I'd likely find her less attractive with blonde hair. I'm not saying it would destroy my interest, its just a small preference. If that makes any sense...

So, what about you Escapists?

I find women with abnormally large breasts unattractive.
I find women with short hair unattractive.
I find women with severe weight problems unattractive. (Whether they be rib-viewing thin or really large.)
I find women that don't have similar interests unattractive.
I find women who are obsessed with fashion unattractive.
I find women who are very unintelligent unattractive.
I find women who don't use proper spelling unattractive.
I find women who think that I am unattractive unattractive.
I find women who are always happy/always depressed unattractive.
I find men unattractive.
I find women that do hard drugs unattractive.
I find elderly women unattractive.
I find underage people unattractive.

And the list goes on... trust me, I'm really picky.

 

[TriggerHappyAngel]

Extreme piercings, extreme furry and extreme smoking

 

[OhSoNegative]

Guys that insult their girlfriends. If he resorts to snide remarks and delights in putting me down, I have no qualms in telling him where to take that.

In addition, I prefer a healthy respect for one another's beliefs in a relationship. It just makes for more sensible interaction overall.

Guys that are shorter than me are also a bit of a turnoff. I kind of find that shorter guys (under 165cm) get touchy when you say anything about their height. Not something malicious, just, anything. >.>

Aside that stuff, I don't care what he weighs provided he isn't about to be crushed under his own mass. I don't drink, but I respect those that do. I guess that common sense stuff follows after that - no mass murderers, drug addicts, etc.

 

[GGZeta]

Bad hygiene and the playing of sports videogames.

 

[spartandude]

Smoking, drugs, and alcoholics (i dont mind the occasional drink but addicts are a big no)

 

[Griffolion]

Smoking, that's a massive deal breaker for me.

 

[Kenami]

Slathering on makeup like paint.
Ugh.

Also to add to Sock and Shoes post, Make Up. I simply don't understand girls who go nuts over it.

Also, lipstick, or nail paint. Get that shit off!

Actually, most makeup now that I think about it

Too much makeup (makeup should accentuate, nothing more)

Edit: oh and excessive makeup. Some girls can look really nice with lots of makeup though but mostly I prefer minimal to no makeup at all.

You know, sometimes I'm amazed at how clueless some men are about the relationship between women and makeup. As much as I hate to break it to you, most of the women in the world you'd be quick to consider "attractive" have a lot more makeup than you might think -- done properly, it can look like you're only wearing a little when really, you're wearing a lot.

A short example... compare girl at beginning and end of video. And even if you think she looks better at the start (cause in a way, I do too), you would realize that the vast majority of men probably prefer the later incarnation.

I don't mean to be rude in the slightest when I say this but men who prefer her after make up just....no. I really have no words for that. She was perfectly fine without make up and I feel a video like this proves all the post that are negative towards make up right.