What do you look for in a girl?

[Eldarion]

A woman has to look good. Simple as that. A man with an unattractive girl is a nobody. A guy who settles for something others wouldn't want for free is a loser. He's at the lowest rank of the social ladder right below the homeless junkies. He shows no promise, has little value and poses no threat, because he's a beggar that didn't get to choose. Men who are incapable of achieving remotely decent results in the most important area of their life and are willing to surrender and admitt it by allowing themselves to be seen with someone unappealing are one of the most pathetic sights in the world. In my opinion.

I think YOU are one of the most pathetic sights in the world. In my opinion. Based on YOUR opinion...

To be honest it was a bit of an exaggeration on my part, but did I strike a chord?

I get what your saying about settling for the first person you can get due to lack of confidence. A person should not be afraid to go after what they want, we either find a person attractive or we don't. Nothing wrong with a little superficiality. A person who just settles for the first partner they find lacks confidence, drive, ambition. He won't be competition for finding dates either. He probably won't be happy. But thats assuming that a guy has an unattractive girlfriend because he is pathetic, thats not necessarily true he may just really like a chick you don't find appealing.

I disagree with the general feel of your post however, you make it sound like anyone who isn't attractive or doesn't have an attractive partner is worthless. Thats certainly not true and its not fair to judge people based on one aspect of their life. However, seeing a guy take the first fish he gets because he has no faith in himself is kinda sad. You didn't need to be so abrasive about it.

 

[Bara_no_Hime]

Um...I either have large mannish hands or I'm...smaller than the average bear. I tend to clump my fingers together when I'm at that stage, and even then, I can only fit up to just a bit past the second bend of my fingers. But then I can't use my thumb.

**blinks**

I can't... do that to myself. Yikes. That sounds like a painful method of breaking my own wrist. Just imagine how embarrassing that trip to the emergency room would be.

When I say properly stimulated, I mean... like an hour or more. Also, being at the proper angle (ie, not self-service) is very much required.

And even then, this certainly isn't a... frequent activity. Special occasions only. Like I said, it's good, but it leaves one rather sore afterwards.

 

[Paksenarrion]

Um...I either have large mannish hands or I'm...smaller than the average bear. I tend to clump my fingers together when I'm at that stage, and even then, I can only fit up to just a bit past the second bend of my fingers. But then I can't use my thumb.

**blinks**

I can't... do that to myself. Yikes. That sounds like a painful method of breaking my own wrist. Just imagine how embarrassing that trip to the emergency room would be.

When I say properly stimulated, I mean... like an hour or more. Also, being at the proper angle (ie, not self-service) is very much required.

And even then, this certainly isn't a... frequent activity. Special occasions only. Like I said, it's good, but it leaves one rather sore afterwards.

Well, my arms are pretty long, and it's not like I jam it in there in one plunge. It takes me a while (when I have the time and privacy), and I take it fairly slow.

And it's not like I do it frequently. <_<;

Although, the first time, I was curious, and experimented a lot...

 

[Yokai]

Not hideous, and capable of making conversation about all kinds of topics. I'm better at listening than talking, so if all she can manage is transparent small talk we won't last long. Obviously it's a problem if she's put off by video games or general nerdiness. Shortish hair is a huge plus.

 

[Hader]

I call it as it happens. Any general standards I may hold are small and insignificant IMO, I really just go with the flow and see what I like and don't like in a girl. Always take it on a case by case basis. Strict standards only set up disappointment.

 

[briunj04]

As long as she can stand me and I can stand her. I think that's about as good as I can get.

 

[gamer_parent]

In short: Whenever an ugly person dates, someone get the short end of a stick.

clearly, ugly people have nothing to contribute to a relationship, AMIRITE?

 

[TheDarklite]

I look for someone who has a similar, or at least compatible personality. Good looks are a bonus but I am really not that shallow.

It's hard for me to find someone suitable because I have such an unusual personality myself. I am severely introverted (my personality type is INFJ... about 2% of the population... google it if interested) and find it hard to make or maintain relationships. People just get bored of me I suppose because I am not really that fun.

But yeah, what's inside matters more than what's outside.

 

[RedEyesBlackGamer]

She has to be able to put up with my terrible jokes because I make a lot of them. I can't turn them off.

 

[ThisIsSnake]

Compatible organs
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[Blindswordmaster]

I'm just looking for someone I can have fun with, someone I enjoy spending time with.

 

[Sir_Auron_the_Badass]

Someone open-minded, friendly, reasonably intelligent, has good sense of humor, and can respect my (or, as a bigger plus, also have) gaming and nerdy interests. It would also help if she was definitely more open about her sexuality instead of forcefully suppressing it. I don't really have much to go on for physical features, but if I had to choose any, I'd say long black/red hair, enticing gray/green eyes, and an ample bust (what can I say, I'm a boob guy) wouldn't hurt, though, again, not necessary.

 

[Nimcha]

I don't really look for anything but when I browse through my (however short) dating history I guess I like my girls intelligent and with a healthy sense of humour. Those are the most important things, besides being hot.

Oh and she must hate relationship drama at least as much as me.

 

[Canadamus Prime]

Intelligence, and at least a passing interest in the stuff I'm into.

 

[OliverTwist72]

Besides boobs and an ass because thats a given what else do you look for in a girl?

I was gonna say boobs

Umm how about letting me touch her boobs?