What do you look for in a girl?

[similar.squirrel]

Nice physical appearance. At the moment, that's the only requisite.

 

[garfoldsomeoneelse]

Approximately equal (greater also accepted) intelligence, good social skills, a distinct lack of clingy qualities or inhibiting insecurities. Must also be a 6.5 or higher and be at least as physically active as I am. Mind-gamers need not apply.

EDIT: Cannot be "straight edge" under any circumstances.

 

[somonels]

Signs of photoshopping.

 

[Sir_Auron_the_Badass]

The terrible thing is that I don't generally look for a partner based on physicality anymore. I'm always causing frustration amongst my friends because a "hot chick" can walk across the room and I'll just stare right past her. Call me oblivious or something.

I need there to be a personality connection before I can even register that I might be interested in this person. This means that there usually needs to be friendship first. And I don't like dating friends because I hate destroying friendships.

So yeah...I'm basically screwed unless I can change something.

Maybe I'll do it later. :3

Wow, other than that I take a bit more of a notice to "hot girls" you and I are in the exact same boat. Well, also that its my girl friends that don't want to date me than the other way around. Personally, I don't see how at least trying a relationship out with friends would hurt; if it doesn't work out early on, you don't have to keep that going and things can go back to normal, and if it does work, all the better because you already know a fair deal about your significant other already.

 

[Link_to_Future]

The terrible thing is that I don't generally look for a partner based on physicality anymore. I'm always causing frustration amongst my friends because a "hot chick" can walk across the room and I'll just stare right past her. Call me oblivious or something.

I need there to be a personality connection before I can even register that I might be interested in this person. This means that there usually needs to be friendship first. And I don't like dating friends because I hate destroying friendships.

So yeah...I'm basically screwed unless I can change something.

Maybe I'll do it later. :3

Wow, other than that I take a bit more of a notice to "hot girls" you and I are in the exact same boat. Well, also that its my girl friends that don't want to date me than the other way around. Personally, I don't see how at least trying a relationship out with friends would hurt; if it doesn't work out early on, you don't have to keep that going and things can go back to normal, and if it does work, all the better because you already know a fair deal about your significant other already.

It's a rough situation and a slippery slope.

The longest term relationship I've ever taken part in was with a very good friend of mine from high school. We were both young and fell in love pretty quickly. It felt natural since we had known each other since grade school.

The thing that neither of us realized was that people change as they get older. The person I am today is totally different from who I was in high school. The person she turned into...wasn't exactly a person I liked. She became self-centered and insecure. We drifted apart and ended up ending the relationship with a pretty earth shattering explosion.

The fallout ended up hitting me in ways that I did not expect. The vast majority of my friends from high school refuse to talk to me anymore because she went crying to them and told them I was a terrible person. I was able to salvage one or two friendships simply because I ended up talking to them about it before she converted them to her side.

It was rough for a while...I honestly felt alone in the world. I've since rebuilt my circle with people I trust a little bit more and that I actually like a lot better. However, I don't want to take a risk of that type again after seeing how the chips fell last time.

So yeah, that's how my personal stance on the subject came to be. Maybe it would be different for you if you were able to find that the relationship wasn't meant to be near the beginning and were able to break it off before stronger emotions colored people's judgments. However, I can also understand where your friends might be coming from on that. Things can go bad in a hurry and it's really hard to repair the damage in the aftermath.

TL;DR: Waaaaaaah my old gf started as a friend and turned out to be spiteful. Not letting that happen again. :'(

 

[AnkaraTheFallen]

Besides boobs and an ass because thats a given what else do you look for in a girl?

A strong, forceful personality.

Graceful - like a dancer, or a fencer.

Red hair (what can I say, it's a fetish).

Creativity is a plus.
Also being bisexual (or lesbian) so she's actually interested in me helps too. ^^;;

Edit: **reads other posts**

Damn, I missed a serious opportunity to make a sexual joke here. Silly me, answering seriously.

Let's see...

My Genitals

After much consideration, I've decided to reply with:

My hand, to the wrist.

A near runner up was: My sex toy collection.

Damn... beat me to it... exactly what I was going to say

 

[XHolySmokesX]

Attractive, cute face
healthy physique, not fat or anorexic(sp)
Intelligence, sense of humor, sexy attitude, knows her shit about the stuff i know about etc...

yeah that sounds about right

 

[Sir_Auron_the_Badass]

I have a rather active imagination; this is why I don't like horror movies.

As soon as I read "my hand, to the wrist", I immediately...well...I at first imagined you with hopefully small and slender hands, but then I looked down at mine...

Please tell me you have small and slender hands.

I'm torn between horror and shameful curiosity...

^^;;

I have long, slim fingers and a fairly narrow hand, yes.

Also, the only time I have attempted that particular move, the recipient in question was... very well stimulated before hand, no pun intended, and I worked up to it slowly.

2... 3.... 4..... and after four, all you really need to do is fold the thumb under and you're pretty much there. And the recipient is generally somewhere near delirium.

Actually, if a guy as a small enough hand, he can do it to a properly stimulated partner as well. It's very intense... and it usually leaves me pretty sore afterwards... but it's totally worth it.

I should perhaps mention that my spouse has fairly small hands as well. Actually, our hands are nearly the same length. I only mention it because I want to avoid giving you nightmares.

Um, wow, sounds really intense. I kinda hope I get the chance to do this with any future gfs (if I get any and that they're open to exploring their sexuality), though I have no idea how big my hands are by comparison.

 

[Sanglyon]

 

[Sexual Harassment Panda]

I only have time for people who laugh at life, not people who are victims of it. I'm in a good head space and I don't need serious people messing that up.

Is easy-going and fun enough of an answer?

 

[badgersprite]

A pulse.

I may even check her respiratory system if I feel it necessary.

 

[SckizoBoy]

"B-...but sessha is a boy, de gozaru!"

*sad LOL*

But I was going more for:

Spoiler: Not the best picture of her I could find but alluring nonetheless... shut up!

 

[Sacman]

The same thing I look for in an education system, Low Standards...

 

[DannyHale09]

I always go for a chipmunky smile like...
http://www.blogcdn.com/www.joystiq.com/media/2009/12/feliciaday2a.jpg
They are just so cute.
I'm just generally a sucker for adorable small people ^^

 

[kabooz18]

What I look for in a woman is companionship so she needs to be intelligent,
some common hobbies or interests but not too many since I want my alone time too,
also she needs a good sense of humour finding IT Crowd and Big Bang Theory funny at the least,
I don't like very thin girls but not too fat either I'd say an BMI up to 31 is ok,
muscular or fit is alright as long as she's not a bodybuilder or extreme sport type.
faintly wild sex (scratching is desirable but leather outfits are not^^)
also she absolutely has to like a good variety of food I don't like to eat one dish more than twice a month
also it would be preferable if she liked the chores I don't and she disliked the chores that I like (or we become rich and leave that part to the servants but I see that as unlikely)

 

[Aetera]

Appearance-wise? I'm a total sucker for punk-ish girls. Not emo. Not hipster. Punk. Although, really, just badass-ness in general. I have a huge weakness for badass, aggressive girls. I have massive crushes on Faith from Buffy and Shane from The L Word, for example. Girls like that. Hair color doesn't matter to me. I like shorter hair a bit more, but it isn't a big deal to me. I also like thinner, leaner girls, as opposed to curvier body types.

Personality-wise, I like more aggressive, dominant girls, like I said. I also love girls with a sense of humor, along with being preferably cynical and snarky.

 

[zhoominator]

Physically? Well, fairly indifferent of weight (as long as we ain't talking extremes) but I do happen to like ladies with accents. That's not a must though, that's just a bonus.

Somebody who makes me feel good, I guess. Somebody who can laugh and smile a lot. Somebody sincere, I'm very honest about who I am and I'm turned off by people who aren't. I'd prefer somebody not to be self centred as I like to be loved too. And a bonus would be somebody geeky, it can be geeky about anything. I just find these people more interesting.

That's assuming we're talking about potential girlfriends. I we're talking friends, then pretty much everything on the 2nd paragraph still holds but I'm not shallow enough to base friendships on looks. I think once you meet somebody you really like, you'll know it anyway.

 

[Agent Larkin]

A Pulse.

Though not always

 

[Wapox]

I LOVE a pretty face, I'm a sucker for a pretty face, and GOD those eyes!

Besides that?
Brains that follow me, with a silly sort of speech that is so endearing
Oh and she must be able to stand me for more than a few seconds... u know.. untill she gets to know me, then she can dislike me all she wants.. I'll still be looking at her