Hmmm, top of my list right now would be honesty. The truth hurts but I prefer it any day to the lies people weave. An open mind, quirky sense of humour, loyalty, enjoys a good debate, and a cute butt. Yeah I'm shallow... but I'm honest.
What do you look for in a girlfriend/boyfriend?
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Me? Wait, no. That sounds wrong...
A personality a lot like my own: Likes the same general music, likes videogames, etc. I look for a girl who shows' their unique-ness naturally and who's outgoing. I think I'd also like a girl who would force me out to do other things, ya know, outside (boo, hiss!) I think if I could find a girl who I could hold a conversation with for a decent to long time with, I'd be well off.
A personality a lot like my own: Likes the same general music, likes videogames, etc. I look for a girl who shows' their unique-ness naturally and who's outgoing. I think I'd also like a girl who would force me out to do other things, ya know, outside (boo, hiss!) I think if I could find a girl who I could hold a conversation with for a decent to long time with, I'd be well off.
Looks are fairly important, but not all-important. Personality is all-important. Even if we both know the relationship is only sex, I just can't bring myself to be with a girl who's a *****. A good sense of humor, but not that annoying, suck-up, laugh at everything you say. And, for an actual relationship, I need a girl who actually gives a shit about me, a girl I can talk to when I'm not feeling good and she'll try to make me feel better. If I'm in a serious relationship, and what I mean by that is we actually love each other, she needs to show me she loves me and not just say it (and no, I'm not talking about just by giving me sex). Sex is good, and I do think it's necessary to at least have sex sometimes but it's not completely necesary. Hell, I'd be more than satisfied with once or twice a week. The one problem I have with a lack of sex is that I'm paranoid, which means that when a serious relationship lacks even so much as just occasional sex, it makes me feel like she hates having sex with me or finds me disgusting. I also need to be able to trust my girlfriend, because my paranoia makes me notice every little suspicious thing. If she doesn't act sneaky, doesn't give me a reason to be suspicious, I'll know I can trust her.
So, to sum it all up: Looks are good but not extremely important, good personality, good sense of humor, I do need sex but just occasional sex is fine by me, shows me her love rather than just saying it, and trustworthy.
So, to sum it all up: Looks are good but not extremely important, good personality, good sense of humor, I do need sex but just occasional sex is fine by me, shows me her love rather than just saying it, and trustworthy.
1. Must like to laugh.
2. Must be able to tell the difference between me being genuinely upset and me telling one of my dark humor jokes.
3. Must like at least one of the things I'm ultra-nerdy about (I.E. Anime, Video Games, Acting, Heavy Metal, or Martial Arts.)
4. Good-looking (I know. I'm shallow. But damn it, I deserve a cute girlfriend. I have earned the right to be shallow in this one respect!)
Of course, these are just general rules. I have and do date women who don't meet ALL of them.
2. Must be able to tell the difference between me being genuinely upset and me telling one of my dark humor jokes.
3. Must like at least one of the things I'm ultra-nerdy about (I.E. Anime, Video Games, Acting, Heavy Metal, or Martial Arts.)
4. Good-looking (I know. I'm shallow. But damn it, I deserve a cute girlfriend. I have earned the right to be shallow in this one respect!)
Of course, these are just general rules. I have and do date women who don't meet ALL of them.
I look for girls who are:
-attractive
-and doesn't think video games are a waste of time.
I succeeded last year.
-attractive
-and doesn't think video games are a waste of time.
I succeeded last year.
Brown hair + Pony tail = Sweeeeet.Drazier said:
Aside from the aforementioned sweeeeeet hair characteristics, cute face/smile, etc. I also desire a woman with whom I could enjoy doing something physical with (in addition to sex), like rock climbing, or sports, martial arts (I could only dream), or hell, even just going running with.
I'd prefer a woman who isn't obsessed with getting hammered at parties. I find women more attractive when they can actually stand up straight, as opposed to stumbling around.
Someone I can relate to. I look for intelligence, integrity and strong sense of dignity and self respect. A good sense of humour is nice too.