Well, you did ask . . .
Let me preface this with a disclaimer. I would not have come by Stephanie Meyer on purpose. You could have probably safely stuck me in with the Twilight haters. I hadn't thought much about it. Another Harry Potter, I would have berated you gently. However, I do have a tenancy to pick up new books at random, and that was how I ended up with The Host, without really making the connection. In fact, I had finished The Host, before discovering that Meyer was behind Twilight. I was intrigued at that point, thinking there might be more than another yet another pop culture phenomena going on here.
I can't make the same claim on the subject of Vampires. I have been there, up to and including LARPing, so my credibility as an unbiased source can be enthusiastically discarded before proceeding. Anne Rice up to Memnoc was my childhood adoration and I do mean adoration. There really isn't a comparison between the two authors. Rice's Vampires are philosopher/historians, Meyer takes a very different approach. To put it mildly.
The Vampire as a literary symbol has had a quite interesting journey. It's humble origins as a patriarchal warning concerning the precious virginity of certain porcelain dolls, seems a perfect fit for the metaphor. At First. This meandering construction left us with such tidbits as having to invite the vampire to cross the threshold, the mesmerizing effect of vampire on the female, and one bite leading to eternal damnation. This passed quite easily into the medium of film, as the censors felt much better about vampires and dark cloaks, than actual rape scenes.
I love a metaphor that's come full circle, and Meyer has sternly turned this one around and given it a firm shove. Twilight's Vampires have gone from being patriarchal warnings, right to being female fantasies. Without passing go. And no, I'm not talking about a mere sexual fantasy here, I'm talking full bore ideal man territory here. In the beginning I was having trouble reconciling Edward as a character, until this vital point occurred. He's not a character. He's Stephanie's fantasy. Viewed in this light, Twilight becomes a brave and personal journey of the author. I'd wager that it's actually quite difficult to come clean on a fantasy of this kind of intricate impossibility. I also love Stephanie's little hints she leaves for me, from when Bella playfully refers to herself as a thirty-year-old teenager, to when she openly admits to not knowing quite what to do with her Paris character. Hanging a lantern, indeed.
Let's pause a moment here and talk about some of the origins here. There is clearly a Shakespeare influence here, plus a bit of Stephanie's one-uping. To merely have an single level of unrequited love, would be child's play for Meyer. Her leads both have two initial layers of attraction and repulsion. Edward has his love, conflicting directly with his desire to kill, but both attractive forces. Bella, has her love, conflicting directly with her attraction to Edward based on his predator's magnetism, both attractive forces. This is by know no means an easy reconciliation. You wouldn't want your relationship based on a predator/prey bond. On the repulsive side we have Edward's abstinence from human blood, plus his motivation to protect Bella from her desire to become a Vampire, loosing her immortal soul. On Bella's side, she's repulsed by two constructions, the first being her belief that Edward cannot possibly love her, and the second being her platonic loves for Jacob and her father, and desire to protect them from the world of the Vampires. So, at the center of the story, we have not the single misunderstanding that Romeo and Juliet had, but four. Nice. Of course, we had to reach quite into the realm of impossibility to get there, but hey, this is fantasy.
Stephanie's puts us squarely in the middle of Bella's mind with her tight first person perspective. Nothing else would have worked. This is why the movie fails miserably. Without Bella's commentary, Edward is just some abusive asshole. The conflict of self vs self is where the story happens. The question of will she or won't she has never been more fully explored. So here's me, excitedly looking forward to whatever concoction Stephanie comes up with next.