I understand how you feel. I was never all that far into raiding myself. I did it, but mostly I did it because the people I enjoyed hanging out with asked for my help, and since part of me did kinda wanna see new content, I helped them out. Frankly, some of the best moments I can remember from WoW came from Raids or Dungeons with guild-members. Goofy things happening, great moments of triumph, even memorable wipes where we're all too busy laughing to accept a resurrection spell so we all have to do the walk of shame back to the raid entrance. But we didn't care because we were still laughing.To be honest I don't understand the raid mentality in MMOs. Even when I played MMOs near full time I never got that deep into farming, end game stuff and game mechanics, I was just going around doing quests and having fun (and if the end game lacked anything I'd just make a new character and go through the whole thing again). So yeah, maybe the problem lies with people who play too much and therefore can't be satisfied with small updates, although there's nothing to be done there since it seems MMOs breed that kind of mentality into players anyway. It's also telling that I haven't played a pay to play MMO in years because of that.
I think part of the problem is that the mentality is not bred in in terms of the game, but in terms of the community. In almost every online game, high-end players are put on such a pedestal and their habits and tendencies are so imitated that it becomes no surprise that an elitist attitude springs up.
League of Legends is probably one of the worst places for this to me: Shortly after the World Championships were over, suddenly, because Faker can supposedly play Zed like a God, everyone's either playing Zed, or screaming for Zed nerfs. Doublelift gets a Pentakill on Vayne, here come the people who have NEVER touched Vayne before, but suddenly Vayne MUST be Freelo 'cause D-lift did it. Gotta emulate the pros, you know?
Because if you're not Gold Ranked you're utter trash. D-Lift says so. All the pros say so. Hell, you're not even all that good unless you're borderline-Challenger. You wanna take something OTHER than Exhaust as Support? pfft. Stupid noob scrub noob Bronze 5 logic, noob. Doesn't make a difference if you forget to use it or you don't find it all that useful personally or you're going with a 'traditional' Support champion! PROS USE EXHAUST! YOU NEED TO USE IT NAO!
I feel like Raiding and MMOs are sort of the same way. The top ten guilds in the world or on a given server beat something in a week so to feel good about yourself you MUST beat it! NOW NOW NOW! Quick before they nerf it or someone might check your achievements and see that you're beat it AFTER Garrosh got nerfed to do .00005% less damage on one ability! Shock and horror! You're not HARDCORE if that happens! After all: EVERYONE must be hardcore, otherwise why even play?!
...granted I'm exaggerating but it seems like it's just that silly sometimes. At the end of the day it's not always the game that teaches you to have such an attitude. It's usually the playerbase. The game doesn't really demand that you have a certain level of gear to clear an instance, or at least it didn't before. As long as you could get ten people together? go nuts. I remember scattered reports of some guilds who would beat relatively recent content in green and blue items because it was not only an extra challenge, but to show people that if you can act like a team and you know the fight, you CAN get over that hurdle because it's not always about gear.
Largely it seems like the attitude comes from the players refusing to say "you know what? I can't beat content in a day. It'll probably take me a few months to see the end of this raid. And that's okay. I'm not a professional player, and that's also okay." As well as the higher-skilled players refusing to say: "you know what? These guys aren't as coordinated as my usual raid team is. We probably won't clear this entire thing, but that's okay. They're trying and they've downed some bosses. That's okay by me."
I salute you, sir. I think that's a great attitude to have. It's always been kinda that simple for me: am I having fun? Well yeah, people I raid with and hang out with are fun, I like questing and PvP, so sure. I'll pay and support you.Kalezian said:I would pay a monthly fee mainly to support the developers.
For example, if I wasn't having to save my money right now for christmas and such, I would totally re-subscribe to Anarchy Online because I like the AO dev team at Funcom.