Gethsemani said:
Corey Schaff said:
If women didn't have to compete, Make-up wouldn't exist <_<.
Nailed it.
Also, what's with all the evo psych nonsense in the OP? Logic dictates that if women are the "sheltered ones" and men are outgoing, competitive and risk taking that would mean that there would be more women then men, since the men would suffer more fatal and crippling injuries that would eliminate from the procreation race. And in extension the surviving men would not have to compete since there'd be more women then men.
That was why polygamy happened. Also when you look at humans thousands of years ago it was very common for men to die out while hunting, and other men to impregnate the women left behind.
That obviously doesn't happen nowadays, which is why generally polygamy is frowned upon.
Everyone here agrees that women are just as competitive as men, just in different ways. Well male competition involved killing each other, or not dying while taking down prey. Women fucking each other over rarely involved outright murder.
Lil devils x said:
I'm sorry.. this idea is ridiculous. Anyone claiming that women are not openly competitive is just showing they do not know much about women. Females are just as competitive in everything they do. Females strive to be the best just as much as men do. Females are extremely competitive and compete for just about everything, and not just among other females, but females also compete with men as well. Hell when I think about my middle school, high school and college days, I was pretty damn mean. Of course I would never date anyone that one of my friends dated because I am extremely loyal to my friends, however, someone who was not my friend was shitty to me.. well I stole their boyfriends even when I had no interest in their boyfriends. I would not want to keep their boyfriends because i felt they had" contaminated them". ( Yes I know this was completely ridiculous and terrible but yes, I was not the only female who took boyfriends just to spite a girl who pissed you off). The worst part was how easy it is to do. I never had a situation where I was unable to take their boyfriend...so I would get them to break up with them, parade around with them a bit in front of the chic who pissed me off then dump them. Yes, I know that makes me a terrible person. Yes, I have since grown out of such pettiness and cruelty but that doesn't change the damage done to those involved, however, I may have done them a favor if their so called boyfriend was that easy to steal from them in the first place, they would be better off knowing than not knowing. Females are just as competitive as males, just go about showing it in different ways. Hell, girls will date a guy just to piss his friend off as well so they are competing with both male and females even among heterosexual relationships.
Also, I disagree that females have not been competitive from the beginning.Even though men compete to impregnate women, women have also competed for the most desirable males from the beginning as well.
Your high school shenanigans are a perfect example of pre-civilised human competition among females. Ultimately women who were bitches behind closed doors and actively sabotaged others' chances at attracting a mate were at an advantage of passing on their own genes.
http://www.independent.co.uk/news/science/mean-girls-scientists-say-women-have-evolved-to-be-indirectly-aggressive-8908954.html
And I really have to ask about your matriachal society.
Where I find a huge flaw in matriarchal societies is that they're too, well, peaceful. Patriarchal societies have a leg up on them because there is reward for success in warfare, and in most there is a drive to innovate that I don't see to the same extent in matriarchal societies. Consigning such a shit job to be in the same rung as sanitation basically means that nobody wants to do it. What I'm saying is you're never going to get an "Alexandra the Great" from a matriarchal society.
The only exception I see here would be Vietnam a couple thousand years ago, they were quite militant but even they were crushed under China, and tbh there's still historical debate over whether it was a firm matriarchal society, or if it was a patriarchal society where women were entitled to job and landowning privileges.