Sturmdolch said:
Beats me, but a lot of people like it. I personally hate it, and the entire sub-culture it's spawned of weeaboo Japanophiles that would probably get made fun of if they ever went to Japan. But it's preference, that's all. I'll laugh at you for liking it, but you might laugh at me for liking Harry Potter and Tron.
God bless you sir for continuing to hold up a constant stereotyped belief brought about by the loud majority of the anime viewing culture.
Believe it or not, there are a good number of us who just watch it because it's JUST another form of television.
The problem is that like any other 'not considered popular by the main stream entertainment outlets' is that it has an entry barrier. There's not a variety of shows/movies out there GUARANTEED to garner interest, except MAYBE for some Miyazaki films and a couple by Mamoru Hosoda. Because everyone has different tastes, it's hard for people to find shows for others to watch.
The worst thing that you and the OP can do is continue to stick with your belief that there's nothing special to it and therefore, it is not worth treating as an entertainment medium like television or movies.
THAT is where 'your' guys problem lies. If you found the right show, you'd be open to seeing more just like any live action show/movie genre.
Last and most definitely NOT least, please do not base your hatred of an entertainment medium ON ITS FANS ALONE. If I hated say, Halo: Reach purely on its fanbase alone, I wouldn't be able to enjoy a good time gaming with friends of mine over said game. It's just a prejudiced way of thinking.
...But don't think you're not allowed to hate the fans of course. Hate them all you want, they're what gives a bad perception of the medium. Narutards and Death Note fangirls specifically come to mind.