SlugLady28 said:
Hi, I'm doing some research on feminism, femininity, females today, etc, and i'm hoping to get some opinions from people:
What, in your opinion, is "the perfect female" and/or, "the perfect female role model"?
Sorry to do this, but I believe perfection is nothing more than an unattainable myth that hinders greatness. That isn't a cop-out, and it applies directly to what you've asked.
If this is a study relating to "feminism," then we should tell both Ann Coulter and Gloria Steinem where to shove it. "Strong" female characteristics can only refer to people who happen to be women or who happen to be in situations due partly or wholly to their being female and choosing to deal with the adversity. There is no characteristically "female" way to be strong in the view of most modern feminists since a major goal is breaking down gender binaries and roles. The same can be applied to "perfect."
As for "perfect female role model," there isn't one, and if there was then they would do more harm than good by defining "the proper way to be" a young girl very narrowly and concretely. The only ideal role models would be ones that show that they can process the pressures put on them by society, subvert the ones that they don't agree with and embrace the ones they do. Also, not worshiping at the altar of materialism, insipidity and whoredom wouldn't hurt, either. I mean, is there such a thing as a Freaks and Geeks or My So Called Life today, or is it all really Jersey Shore and One Tree Hill?