What is your emotional flashpoint?
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Whenever I see people dismissing human life of any worth, I get pretty heated. The sheer amount of narcissism, cognitive dissonance, cynical delusion, and arrogance these privileged introverts (and yes, they're ALWAYS privileged introverts) makes me pretty mad. Bonus points if they're an objectivist or misanthrope.
Seeing bigotry of any form also rubs me the wrong way. I'm talking about so called "acceptable targets", such as pedophiles (NOT THE SAME THING AS CHILD RAPE!), necrophilies or those that practice bestiality (though if you believe animals are equal to humans I understand the last one)
Atheists who lost their belief due to some personal tragedy. You THINK you're rejecting an unjust God, but you're really just highlighting how selfish you are. People have suffered MUCH WORSE than you have, both today and throughout history. But their tragedies are okay, since it doesn't affect YOU, does it? Once you have to experience loss, though, suddenly you're crying out against this creators obvious hate of you. If there is a God, the fact that he lets self-centered people like you suffer proves he must be just.
For the record, I'm an atheist who reluctantly came to this conclusion after my beliefs lost one too many intellectual all arguments. Of course, I didn't WANT to lose faith, because I actually had concern for the millions of people who have been oppressed and lived terrible lives. Religion was the only hope they had, and having to accept it was a lost cause was a very depressing experience. When some narcissistic asshole so easily gives up on this one hope for humanity because their gravy train came to end, you bet I'm gonna be passed.
Blatant hypocrisy like this also bugs me.
Seeing bigotry of any form also rubs me the wrong way. I'm talking about so called "acceptable targets", such as pedophiles (NOT THE SAME THING AS CHILD RAPE!), necrophilies or those that practice bestiality (though if you believe animals are equal to humans I understand the last one)
Atheists who lost their belief due to some personal tragedy. You THINK you're rejecting an unjust God, but you're really just highlighting how selfish you are. People have suffered MUCH WORSE than you have, both today and throughout history. But their tragedies are okay, since it doesn't affect YOU, does it? Once you have to experience loss, though, suddenly you're crying out against this creators obvious hate of you. If there is a God, the fact that he lets self-centered people like you suffer proves he must be just.
For the record, I'm an atheist who reluctantly came to this conclusion after my beliefs lost one too many intellectual all arguments. Of course, I didn't WANT to lose faith, because I actually had concern for the millions of people who have been oppressed and lived terrible lives. Religion was the only hope they had, and having to accept it was a lost cause was a very depressing experience. When some narcissistic asshole so easily gives up on this one hope for humanity because their gravy train came to end, you bet I'm gonna be passed.
No one cares that this annoys you, either, yet you felt compelled to make this comment. It's relevant in this discussions cards next, true, but so is newlyweds celebrating on Facebook.Ratties said:
Blatant hypocrisy like this also bugs me.
Wanton cruelty, in any shape or form, to animals or people. Cruelty to dogs in particular gets my blood boiling, as I've always been a dog person and our family has had dogs since I was a baby. I wont even tolerate jokes about it and whenever I accidentally read something about dog poisoners or other such human viciousness, it completely ruins my day. There's nothing that shows a person's true monster as what they do to those who are helpless to resist. I get the feeling that I could watch all manner of atrocities be committed on people who do that kind of shit, so I guess I'm technically a hypocrite for thinking their human rights should be revoked.
To a lesser extent, I hate people who boost their own ego by belittling others, whether it is at school, work, or even in bed.
To a lesser extent, I hate people who boost their own ego by belittling others, whether it is at school, work, or even in bed.
That my emotional flashpoint. People who need to shit on others beliefs to feel better abut themselves. If you hear someone quoting scripture, why not just ignore them?Tom Milner said:
But evil done in the name of ANYTHING and EVERYTHING else is hunky-dory in your books? Again, you're singling out a group of people to shit on due to a specific trait. Also, your idea of "evil" is subjective. Pro-lifers value human life at any stage of development, and therefore see pro-choice as murder.someonehairy-ish said:
Gnomes and Pseudoscience ARE the devil, I will give you that.
I was talking to a guy in my class the other day, and he randomly mentioned how he and his friends would do the women manipulation thing. I thought it was kind of funny cause he's a short, annoying bastard, and I thought "No way this dude's getting laid."Norithics said:
I don't really have any emotional flashpoints, seeing as I'm an apathetic bastard. Case in point: Eric Snowden and the NSA leaks. When news hit that the US was spying on its citizens all I could come up with was a "Oh, I thought we all knew that. Whatever, next website!" I didn't care in the least bit about it and saw it as something we already knew. Then there are the people saying how we should be thankful to Snowden for being so brave to do what he did for us. Didn't care and still don't care about what he did. In fact, every time I see some news story about him now, I always say to myself that he might get shot.
Then before that was the Xbox One debacle. All I got from the presentation was that there was gonna be a Halo t.v. series streaming on it. I loved that one of my favorite game series was finally getting a television show. Then E3 came and the information on its DRM came to light. When that happened, I saw all these posts that pretty much amounted to "Xbone is shit, you shit for liking it" everywhere, yet I didn't care. None of the DRM policies really struck a nerve with me, not eve the always on kinect camera. All I cared about was that if I decided to get it, I would need around $600 by november.
I tend to steer clear of any debate about any relevant controversy on the net, seeing as it essentially boils down to shit flinging from all sides.
Then before that was the Xbox One debacle. All I got from the presentation was that there was gonna be a Halo t.v. series streaming on it. I loved that one of my favorite game series was finally getting a television show. Then E3 came and the information on its DRM came to light. When that happened, I saw all these posts that pretty much amounted to "Xbone is shit, you shit for liking it" everywhere, yet I didn't care. None of the DRM policies really struck a nerve with me, not eve the always on kinect camera. All I cared about was that if I decided to get it, I would need around $600 by november.
I tend to steer clear of any debate about any relevant controversy on the net, seeing as it essentially boils down to shit flinging from all sides.
Let's see, there's bullying, anti-abortion, racism, sexism, censorship, bullying, "alpha-males" aka acting like a sexist douche because you're a guy and when guys are saying it to guys it's okay (except it still isn't), animal cruelty coming from PETA...y'know, let's just say "everything." I'll get mad at the Home Shopping Channel if they sell a product I find stupid enough.
Yes, I know I said bullying twice. That's a big one.
Yes, I know I said bullying twice. That's a big one.
I'll preface what I say as not trying to come off as hostile to people in this thread because while it's not my intention to target anyone here (or more likely the posting population as a whole in this thread) the specific opinion I have might lead to that misunderstanding.
I hate egocentric people that will look down on others for having views that are not theirs. I do not mean the people in this thread, and the OP was very good about keeping that thing out of here when he urged people to not try and ridicule those who share opinions they don't agree with. I mean the kind of people that will have a different opinion and straight up call you stupid for not having their opinion. Not saying that that view isn't smart, not saying that the reasoning behind having that view is flawed, but blanket writing people off as stupid because they disagree with said view. The people in this thread are expressing their opinions, and if that opinion is that X thing is stupid that's fine. I'm sure they have real reasons that are valid and that is a good solid basis. But if someone were to come along and tell them that holding that view just makes them stupid or worthless in some way, because that person disagrees with them, we have a problem.
I like to think that I'm a respectful guy when it comes to arguing, and I guess that's part of why this sort of thing pisses me off. I don't get super angry, cause there is not much that you can say on the internet that will really make me anything more than a little frustrated. But it's one of the few things that gets to me.
I hate egocentric people that will look down on others for having views that are not theirs. I do not mean the people in this thread, and the OP was very good about keeping that thing out of here when he urged people to not try and ridicule those who share opinions they don't agree with. I mean the kind of people that will have a different opinion and straight up call you stupid for not having their opinion. Not saying that that view isn't smart, not saying that the reasoning behind having that view is flawed, but blanket writing people off as stupid because they disagree with said view. The people in this thread are expressing their opinions, and if that opinion is that X thing is stupid that's fine. I'm sure they have real reasons that are valid and that is a good solid basis. But if someone were to come along and tell them that holding that view just makes them stupid or worthless in some way, because that person disagrees with them, we have a problem.
I like to think that I'm a respectful guy when it comes to arguing, and I guess that's part of why this sort of thing pisses me off. I don't get super angry, cause there is not much that you can say on the internet that will really make me anything more than a little frustrated. But it's one of the few things that gets to me.
Pro-life arguments drive me nuts.
I don't like being talked about as if I'm some sort of walking incubator.
I also hate the "well, maybe you shouldn't have opened your legs" comments that often follow.
Also, the strategic use of the word "mother". As in, when a women becomes pregnant, even in the beginning no matter what the circumstance, she is always referred to as 'the mother' by pro-lifers in abortion debates rather than a woman or even a girl/child in some cases.
I could go on for years but anyway, pro-life arguments piss me off.
I don't like being talked about as if I'm some sort of walking incubator.
I also hate the "well, maybe you shouldn't have opened your legs" comments that often follow.
Also, the strategic use of the word "mother". As in, when a women becomes pregnant, even in the beginning no matter what the circumstance, she is always referred to as 'the mother' by pro-lifers in abortion debates rather than a woman or even a girl/child in some cases.
I could go on for years but anyway, pro-life arguments piss me off.
Oh, and I kinda forgot to mention gay bashing, especially when it's done with completely irrelevant or false arguments.
"It's unnatural!"
- No, it's not. Even animals do it. And even if it were, it'd be on a long list of things most people do on a daily basis that are a step up from living in caves or on a tree.
"It's a sin!"
- "He who is without sin among you, let him be the first to throw a stone", and all that. And according to the Bible, there are no innocents. And no religion should impose its values on those who do not follow it.
"If we allow gay marriage, where does it end? What if someone wants to marry a dog?!"
- Here's a lovely quote: "If you can't tell the difference between a relationship formed by consenting adults and bestiality, I recommend you never get a dog."
"I just hate people who are different!"
- Well, at least now you're being honest.
"It's unnatural!"
- No, it's not. Even animals do it. And even if it were, it'd be on a long list of things most people do on a daily basis that are a step up from living in caves or on a tree.
"It's a sin!"
- "He who is without sin among you, let him be the first to throw a stone", and all that. And according to the Bible, there are no innocents. And no religion should impose its values on those who do not follow it.
"If we allow gay marriage, where does it end? What if someone wants to marry a dog?!"
- Here's a lovely quote: "If you can't tell the difference between a relationship formed by consenting adults and bestiality, I recommend you never get a dog."
"I just hate people who are different!"
- Well, at least now you're being honest.
Yeah animal cruelty is mine too. I get angry at humans doing intentionally malicious things to other humans, but not to the same degree.the December King said:
I'm absolutely rubbish with anything sad happening to animals (cruelty or otherwise). I avoid movies if they have dogs in them. No good can come of it.
The rough thing about that for me is, as a rule, I love horror movies. But, the usual barometer for how 'serious' the situation in such movies is, is for an animal to get killed before the protagonists start to get offed. And depending on how that is treated, will often decide whether I like the movie.Bellvedere said:
Also, often people tell me that animals torture each other all of the time. And to them I say, aren't we 'supposed' to be better than that? Not that I believe we are better. But it is often the rhetoric used.
People attributing the good or bad deeds of people to their God or the Devil. For example when someone does something very heroic or noteworthy, people around where I live will like to say a phrase "That was God working through you." No lady, sorry, you don't get to coopt my actions to support your invisible person in the sky.
On the flipside, when they say things like "The Devil made them do it" and are serious. One example was I saw a poster online, in regards to the guy who had the 3 girls in his basement for a decade. She said that "The Devil kept them locked up for a decade, and God kept them safe!" Really? Oh well if it was the Devil responsible, then I guess we can let that guy go then huh? Also, if God kept them safe, why didn't he keep the multiple miscarriages safe when the guy punched them in the stomach?
It's unfounded, superstitious nonsense, that detracts from humanities achievements and tragedies, and it really annoys me to hear it.
On the flipside, when they say things like "The Devil made them do it" and are serious. One example was I saw a poster online, in regards to the guy who had the 3 girls in his basement for a decade. She said that "The Devil kept them locked up for a decade, and God kept them safe!" Really? Oh well if it was the Devil responsible, then I guess we can let that guy go then huh? Also, if God kept them safe, why didn't he keep the multiple miscarriages safe when the guy punched them in the stomach?
It's unfounded, superstitious nonsense, that detracts from humanities achievements and tragedies, and it really annoys me to hear it.
It used to be things like rape; explicitly, child rape.
Nowadays, the child would have to be physically in front of me to care.
Animal cruelty was another one. Simply seeing a photo used to make me click.
Nowadays, I'd have to physically be placed in front of someone being cruel to animals for me to care.
Now that I think about it, there's nothing. No 'news' warrants any sort of emotional response from me.
Nowadays, the child would have to be physically in front of me to care.
Animal cruelty was another one. Simply seeing a photo used to make me click.
Nowadays, I'd have to physically be placed in front of someone being cruel to animals for me to care.
Now that I think about it, there's nothing. No 'news' warrants any sort of emotional response from me.
I know that scene, for sure - fortunately,there was an alternate filmed of the alien being born from an oxen that died from other reasons, so it was just a birth from a giant hunk of meat.Dunhart said:
I have two biggies: false equivalencies and automatic contrarians. They're somewhat related/interwoven in that a lot of false equivalencies are generated by automatic contrarians.
An automatic contrarian is someone who flocks to a minority opinion for no reason other than (a sometimes stated but typically implied) exhaustion with the majority opinion. They don't have logical, rational, sensible, defensible reasons for their views. They simply want to go against the grain in order to appear exceptional. They want to be special snowflakes with radical ideas that stand out from the background. In a nutshell: their narcissistic desire for attention overrides their capacity for analytic thought. They'd rather be seen/heard and wrong than ignored and right.
False equivalencies occur whenever two things that are clearly different get lumped together for the sake of simplicity and/or personal gain. This often happens when someone has no leg to stand on in an argument and so he/she resorts to willfully ignoring obvious disparities between two opposing viewpoints in an attempt to reduce the debate to utter meaninglessness. It's a lazy, idiotic practice designed to obfuscate, derail, and destroy intelligent communication. Some examples: "Sony and Microsoft are the same because they both want your money"; "Republicans and Democrats are the same because they both take money, have scandals, etc."; "evolution and creationism are the same because they're both theories".
An automatic contrarian is someone who flocks to a minority opinion for no reason other than (a sometimes stated but typically implied) exhaustion with the majority opinion. They don't have logical, rational, sensible, defensible reasons for their views. They simply want to go against the grain in order to appear exceptional. They want to be special snowflakes with radical ideas that stand out from the background. In a nutshell: their narcissistic desire for attention overrides their capacity for analytic thought. They'd rather be seen/heard and wrong than ignored and right.
False equivalencies occur whenever two things that are clearly different get lumped together for the sake of simplicity and/or personal gain. This often happens when someone has no leg to stand on in an argument and so he/she resorts to willfully ignoring obvious disparities between two opposing viewpoints in an attempt to reduce the debate to utter meaninglessness. It's a lazy, idiotic practice designed to obfuscate, derail, and destroy intelligent communication. Some examples: "Sony and Microsoft are the same because they both want your money"; "Republicans and Democrats are the same because they both take money, have scandals, etc."; "evolution and creationism are the same because they're both theories".
I am very passionate about feminism. Few things get me more pissed off than sexism and the anti-woman legislation Republicans keep proposing. Needless to say, I have to ignore a lot of Youtube comments and threads on this site, for the sake of my sanity
Draco Malfoy.
I get so mad, SO MAD, when Harry's trying to get shit done and Malfoys getting all up in his grill. Fuck you Draco Malfoy!
On a more serious note, a friend said the other day that she thought her country was one of the best in the world. This didn't so much anger me as make me completely baffled. In what way does one define one country as better than another? Is she saying that her people are just inherently superior to everyone else? As I say, I'm not annoyed, but at the same time I've had this on my mind for days and I just can't rationalise it. I blame the nationalistic education system myself.
So yeah, I suppose petty nationalism is a flashpoint for me.
I get so mad, SO MAD, when Harry's trying to get shit done and Malfoys getting all up in his grill. Fuck you Draco Malfoy!
On a more serious note, a friend said the other day that she thought her country was one of the best in the world. This didn't so much anger me as make me completely baffled. In what way does one define one country as better than another? Is she saying that her people are just inherently superior to everyone else? As I say, I'm not annoyed, but at the same time I've had this on my mind for days and I just can't rationalise it. I blame the nationalistic education system myself.
So yeah, I suppose petty nationalism is a flashpoint for me.
I flash instantly when:
-People think Finland and it's government (My country) functions the same way as other governments, even though our political base, legal system and hars privacy laws (even police can not get to our private data (medical, financial)) without permission and informing the target (unless it is police investigation when they need to arrest before they can dig into that!)
-People who think Finland's culture is "European".
-When people think that A-sexuals just need to have sex in order to "get cured". Or that "A-sexuals do not exist" or are pretending.
-Religious people try to convert me or want to "pray" for me.
-People make fun of music without understanding music (By this I mean theory of music and orchestra construction)
-People think they know the answer to help or cure my severe neurological pain condition. With the most non-medical bullshit.
-When people make fun of my situation that I am in because of my sickness.
-Ignorant people who refuse to even acknowledge any other opinion (Sorry Americans you been guilty of this most by my experience)
-People think Finland and it's government (My country) functions the same way as other governments, even though our political base, legal system and hars privacy laws (even police can not get to our private data (medical, financial)) without permission and informing the target (unless it is police investigation when they need to arrest before they can dig into that!)
-People who think Finland's culture is "European".
-When people think that A-sexuals just need to have sex in order to "get cured". Or that "A-sexuals do not exist" or are pretending.
-Religious people try to convert me or want to "pray" for me.
-People make fun of music without understanding music (By this I mean theory of music and orchestra construction)
-People think they know the answer to help or cure my severe neurological pain condition. With the most non-medical bullshit.
-When people make fun of my situation that I am in because of my sickness.
-Ignorant people who refuse to even acknowledge any other opinion (Sorry Americans you been guilty of this most by my experience)