In reality, I'm an all around big dude that people get a bit intimidated by, and yet once you get to know me i'm a freaking teddybear. I'm gruff, swear all the time, have awkward social skills, have a morbid sense of humor, love Star Wars and Firefly, and am fiercely loyal to my crew. But people can't get over the size thing, they just stare and look scared of me. Also, outside of work, I almost always wear either my combat boots, my short-sleeved, buttondown white shirt, or a pair of camo cargo shorts. Or all three.
Here? Not 100% sure, but hopefully whatever my style is, it's positive.