What is your weak spot / greatest flaw?
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I think for alot of people here it's their sarcasm.
OT: I lie. I steal. I drink too much. I'm awkward to talk to. I've taken more pills then pac-man. My back is terrible. My legs are plucky. I have too much hair. I need to lose weight. I sweat alot in summer. I have no girlfriend. I have no boyfriend. My voice shifts alot. I'm going deaf. I'm often too nervous. I'm often frustrated. I'm allergic to cats. I'm masochistic. I have trouble concentrating. I can't sleep easily. I rely on escapes. My mind races alot. I hated middle school. I hated high school. I don't have a future plan. I need new shoes.
And i'm bad at closure.
OT: I lie. I steal. I drink too much. I'm awkward to talk to. I've taken more pills then pac-man. My back is terrible. My legs are plucky. I have too much hair. I need to lose weight. I sweat alot in summer. I have no girlfriend. I have no boyfriend. My voice shifts alot. I'm going deaf. I'm often too nervous. I'm often frustrated. I'm allergic to cats. I'm masochistic. I have trouble concentrating. I can't sleep easily. I rely on escapes. My mind races alot. I hated middle school. I hated high school. I don't have a future plan. I need new shoes.
And i'm bad at closure.
I find a lot of social situations rather stressful, and any kind of social failure or faux pas on my part drains me completely and leaves me withdrawn and listless for days. I tend to dwell on the shame of past failures. Going without a certain amount of alone time to recharge from stress (including social situations) tends to leave me angry and depressed, especially if I'm trying to avoid being passive-aggressive. Others' negative opinions of me affects me a lot, even on the supposedly "anonymous" internet, and the very few times in my life people have been afraid of me induced the most horrible feelings I've ever felt.
But that's "greatest flaw," I guess. My weak spot would be cats.
But that's "greatest flaw," I guess. My weak spot would be cats.
Drinking and breaking the ice with people. I'm trying not to drink anymore which really doesn't make socializing with people any easier.
Especially when my ideal weekend would be getting day drunk and playing videogames.
Well, it would be balling all kinds of beautiful women but back to that socializing bit.
I can actually turn it on and be mister-fucking-personality when I NEED to be, but that's effort. I'm also good at reading people and knowing who my audience is and what girls are receptive to me, but I've been hurt in the past and I'm starting to realize that the internet has all the desired primal aspects of women that men want. And the grocery store has lube. And I think I'm fine with that.
To be fair I've dated all the crazies in LA, and they make 'em REALLY crazy in LA.
Especially when my ideal weekend would be getting day drunk and playing videogames.
Well, it would be balling all kinds of beautiful women but back to that socializing bit.
I can actually turn it on and be mister-fucking-personality when I NEED to be, but that's effort. I'm also good at reading people and knowing who my audience is and what girls are receptive to me, but I've been hurt in the past and I'm starting to realize that the internet has all the desired primal aspects of women that men want. And the grocery store has lube. And I think I'm fine with that.
To be fair I've dated all the crazies in LA, and they make 'em REALLY crazy in LA.
I LOVE TOO MUCH! DANCE WITH ME! DANCE THE DANCE OF LIFE!
But seriously, milk. Fuckin' milk. Gives me a cough that just won't go the fuck away. Oddly enough, I can have some things that are made with milk. Some kinds of chocolate, but not cheese... it's weird.
But seriously, milk. Fuckin' milk. Gives me a cough that just won't go the fuck away. Oddly enough, I can have some things that are made with milk. Some kinds of chocolate, but not cheese... it's weird.
I consider myself significantly more intelligent than those around me. I find conversations with the average individual painful, and the majority of presented "opinions" make my teeth hurt. It seems to me, that educated opinions have fled modern culture, and what is left is some mash-up of major entertainment networks and conspiracy theorist. To this end, I generally dismiss the value of the individual, and place significantly more worth in the whole of a group.
I also identify as a Machiavellian minded sociopath, high functioning of course
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I also identify as a Machiavellian minded sociopath, high functioning of course
.Probably good ol' Sloth. I'm umbrella-ing several issues: attention span, memory, and motivation issues. If my brain was functioning at optimal capacity instead of emergency lighting I'd be a total badass. I've got interest and even aptitude in lots of varied things but...not so much into the doing things thing.
I simply lack the will power, determination and confidence. If I had more of those I would had carry on my 3D modelling work and I would of know how to draw manga style stuff.
If I were to single out the one thing that gets to me more than anything else, the one thing that brings me down, it would be to watch someone else harmed, hurt, killed and not be able to do anything to stop it. That I would say is my biggest weakness above anything else. That to me, is the single worst thing that anyone can endure, and I would much rather it be me than have to watch someone else have it happen to them and be helpless to stop it. I feel I can take it happening to me, but not happening to someone else.
In terms of personality flaws, I am sure there are plenty more but these I think are my worst:
1)I am terribly impatient. Everyone always told me " patience was a virtue" but I can only see it as " why is everyone wasting so much time?!"
2)I get extremely irritated by certain personality types, such as certain anime fans, overly emotional people, materialistic people, people who like boy bands, and a few others. I find I lack empathy for them and have found I can be quite rude to them and often downright mean. I am " brutally honest" so I do not pretend to be polite. It is fine they like what they do, but when I tell them I don't want to hear about it, and they keep going on and on it triggers a very bad response from me. I honestly loathe them so much at times I try very hard and find it difficult to control my violent tendencies in their presence, so it is better I remove myself from them before I smack them. My fight or flight defense mechanism is to fight rather than flee, and for some strange reason these personalities seem to trigger that. In order to prevent that, I get myself away from them as quickly as possible, and as long as they don't prevent me from excusing myself from them, they will be fine.
3)My fight or flight mechanism itself. I am usually a very laid back happy person. Some even say I am the happiest person they know. The problem is my defense mechanism itself. If someone grabs my arm, or gets in my face, corners me, or makes me feel trapped I do not yell, scream, argue, or anything like that. My reflex is to punch them, and I " snap" and can beat the crap out of them without even realizing I am doing it. This has caused many problems when I was younger and I found it terribly embarrassing. It caused me to hit my 4th grade teacher when she grabbed my arm, It caused me to get kicked from the cheer squad when I broke another cheerleaders nose when she tried to pull my socks up, and caused me great embarrassment growing up. It is so unlike my personality, and I have to try really hard to remove myself from situations to prevent it from happening. I am glad though it has been many years since it has happened, but since I am aware of it, I have to work very hard to make sure it doesn't get triggered.
4)People have told me one of my biggest flaws is that I am " Ms. Perfect." I usually succeed at everything I do, when I do things I do well, and people tend to dislike people like that. I have won all the competitions and contests I enter, so sometimes, I have intentionally messed up so others could be better than me at things because I don't want them to feel like that towards me. That doesn't really make it better though, and my boyfriend called me out on it when he could tell I was throwing board games just so he would win and that made him even more angry about it because he knew I was intentionally doing it. He won't even play me at games anymore unless we are on the same team. When I play games, I almost always win. Board games, video games, even in many sports. People tend to really hate people like that, so I have to try to not win sometimes just so I won't be viewed that way.
5)I am selfish with chocolate. If it is the last piece of dark chocolate with pecans and walnuts, don't think I am going to let you have it. Anything else is fine, but not the chocolate.
In terms of personality flaws, I am sure there are plenty more but these I think are my worst:
1)I am terribly impatient. Everyone always told me " patience was a virtue" but I can only see it as " why is everyone wasting so much time?!"
2)I get extremely irritated by certain personality types, such as certain anime fans, overly emotional people, materialistic people, people who like boy bands, and a few others. I find I lack empathy for them and have found I can be quite rude to them and often downright mean. I am " brutally honest" so I do not pretend to be polite. It is fine they like what they do, but when I tell them I don't want to hear about it, and they keep going on and on it triggers a very bad response from me. I honestly loathe them so much at times I try very hard and find it difficult to control my violent tendencies in their presence, so it is better I remove myself from them before I smack them. My fight or flight defense mechanism is to fight rather than flee, and for some strange reason these personalities seem to trigger that. In order to prevent that, I get myself away from them as quickly as possible, and as long as they don't prevent me from excusing myself from them, they will be fine.
3)My fight or flight mechanism itself. I am usually a very laid back happy person. Some even say I am the happiest person they know. The problem is my defense mechanism itself. If someone grabs my arm, or gets in my face, corners me, or makes me feel trapped I do not yell, scream, argue, or anything like that. My reflex is to punch them, and I " snap" and can beat the crap out of them without even realizing I am doing it. This has caused many problems when I was younger and I found it terribly embarrassing. It caused me to hit my 4th grade teacher when she grabbed my arm, It caused me to get kicked from the cheer squad when I broke another cheerleaders nose when she tried to pull my socks up, and caused me great embarrassment growing up. It is so unlike my personality, and I have to try really hard to remove myself from situations to prevent it from happening. I am glad though it has been many years since it has happened, but since I am aware of it, I have to work very hard to make sure it doesn't get triggered.
4)People have told me one of my biggest flaws is that I am " Ms. Perfect." I usually succeed at everything I do, when I do things I do well, and people tend to dislike people like that. I have won all the competitions and contests I enter, so sometimes, I have intentionally messed up so others could be better than me at things because I don't want them to feel like that towards me. That doesn't really make it better though, and my boyfriend called me out on it when he could tell I was throwing board games just so he would win and that made him even more angry about it because he knew I was intentionally doing it. He won't even play me at games anymore unless we are on the same team. When I play games, I almost always win. Board games, video games, even in many sports. People tend to really hate people like that, so I have to try to not win sometimes just so I won't be viewed that way.
5)I am selfish with chocolate. If it is the last piece of dark chocolate with pecans and walnuts, don't think I am going to let you have it. Anything else is fine, but not the chocolate.
Funny you should say that.Daystar Clarion said:
I personally find testicles to be extremely, if not absolutely hilarious.
However, someone just mentioned that they should NOT be squeezed, which somewhat amazes me.
Says some dick doctor ('urologist') when asked on the subject of a Chinese man dying after having his balls fiercely squeezed by some man-eating witch:
Yes, the testicles are exquisitely sensitive to touch and there is a huge release of adrenalin when there is excessive force applied to these organs.
Testicular pain is referred to the lower abdomen, mesenteric plexus, and causes men to stop abruptly what they are doing, lie on the ground, close their eyes and bend their knees.
A heart attack could certainly result from severe testicular pain from squeezing.
1. I hyper-analyse everything. Though I'm an INTP, so that's to be expected. That perceptive/analytical thought loop just doesn't stop. So I go overthinking not only systems, but other peoples' behaviour, which leads to:
2. I'm very inhibited around people IRL. I can't relax, because I'm sensitive to any perceived slight.
3. I find it hard to motivate myself. Partly because I second-guess everything. There's a decision process going on inside but it's overly cautious.
2. I'm very inhibited around people IRL. I can't relax, because I'm sensitive to any perceived slight.
3. I find it hard to motivate myself. Partly because I second-guess everything. There's a decision process going on inside but it's overly cautious.
Biggest flaw is that I hold a grudge forever against strangers and people I kind of know, that did me wrong. You know I don't care how much time has gone by, I still want to kick the shit out of them. Kind of give my friends a pass because they are my friends after all. Can't control it around people I don't give a shit about. Literally one of the worst things you can do to stress yourself out. Even though this happened 6 years, I don't care. yeah me and this guy got into a fist fight, if he tried to apologize for it, I wouldn't accept it.
my utter undervaluation of money, I'd rather be poor than working, which I expect to bite me in the ass real hard later down the line.
there are just so much more interesting things in life than jobs!
there are just so much more interesting things in life than jobs!