What kind of sex life do you have?

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wrightguy0

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My romantic life is a sea of longing and loneliness coupled with social awkwardness that makes it very hard to change, though apparently people tend to fall for me a lot.....which would be nice if i could return their feelings, but when it's not right it's not right, ain't nothing i can do to change that.

I really just want someone who i can have mutual feelings for, and to have some form of relationship before getting into the sex.
 

Wolf-AUS

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IpunchFaces said:
I respect that last part man. I'm not a virgin, however, I have done the same thing to a girl I picked up in a club once. We got back to mine and I noticed she was super uncomfortable, so I asked her and even though she said no I knew she was lying, the poor girl was so wide eyed. So I told her that this isn't the way she wants this to happen, I saw the same look of relief. It kinda scared me, it was like she thought I was some kind of predator :/ I let her stay in my bed and drove her home in the morning.

I think that's completely cool man. Also, for the nerves, I know what you're talking about. Now, I'm not suggesting you get spastic drunk (I do, but that's my thing :p ), but a beer or two can settle the nerves to the point where if you're with someone you genuinely like that should be able to overcome that barrier, and once you get past it the first time, I promise you, your confidence increases and you won't hit that wall again, for better or worse.

In saying that though, don't let society or anyone else pressure you into thinking you have to prove something by having sex, it's can be a very intimate, personal and glorious thing. But it's your business, not the rest of the world's. :)
 

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My sex life huh? I'll get back to you on that when I actually get one.
wrightguy0 said:
My romantic life is a sea of longing and loneliness coupled with social awkwardness that makes it very hard to change, though apparently people tend to fall for me a lot.....which would be nice if i could return their feelings, but when it's not right it's not right, ain't nothing i can do to change that.

I really just want someone who i can have mutual feelings for, and to have some form of relationship before getting into the sex.
Pretty much everything that this guy said...minus people falling for me.
 

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RadioactiveMicrobe said:
ZamielTheHunter said:
RadioactiveMicrobe said:
I have a girlfriend, she comes up with every possible excuse to not participate in any physical intimacy.

But she's more than willing to flirt with strangers online, and cyber with other strangers.

I really hate my girlfriend.
That's really unfortunate, I hate to be down on someone I don't know, but if she can't respect your wishes or perhaps doesn't agree with you on the morality of what she's doing it might be best to look for someone else who actually lines up with your life views.
Well, she's essentially the only female cares that I exist. And I'm quite sure she knows that. So right now, it's a lose-lose.

My advice dude, if you really do hate her, you need to do one of two things. You need to either A: seriously talk to her about your relationship and set up some ground rules to make you both happy, maybe make some compromises or B: Dump her. It may sting like Hell, but it's like ripping off a band aid. It'll hurt like Hell but you'll be better off in the long run. If you're staying with her because you think she's the only woman you care about, you're seriously limiting yourself. It's better to be alone than be miserable and be with someone. Trust me, you'll find someone else. It may be hard, but as the old saying goes "if it's easy, it's probably not worth doing"
 

MidnightSt

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hard to define...
I'm generally the faithful type, and I had a girlfirend I loved quite much (and I still do), and she did love me too (but she doesn't anymore) and our sex life was pretty... not regular, but frequent, even if little ...mundane (because she quickly got used to my dominancy caused primarily by how attractive she's to me so I couldn't really restrain myself, so she became pretty passive)... but she broke up with me a while ago, saying she still cares about me a lot, but being in a relationship with me hurts her (makes sense, kind of), but sex with me was good (no wonder, I'd like it too, being in her place), and she's no type for one night stands or making new relationships quickly, so we kind of agreed we'll be friends and have sex, BUT...

...lately she has virtually no time at all, expects something different than me (her: imagine something porn-like; me: imagine something including feelings too, as I still love her), so it's kind of strange... despite that, I don't want, can't imagine, and even if I wanted and could imagine have no opportunity to, have sex with someone else...

so suddenly it's kind of infrequent (VERY MUCH infrequent, even for her standards, as I know them) and strange... to put it short and in facebook terms: It's complicated... :/
 

Benpasko

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Virgin by choice. I'm not religious or anything, I just can't get motivated to commit to a girl like that. Also, I'm really good at masturbating.
 

darth nader

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Got a 6 month old son who only seems to sleep when the wife sleeps, so infer from there.

Wait...does porn count? Lots and LOTS of porn??
 

BrionJames

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been in a relationship for almost 5 years now. Sex used to be fun but now it just seems like another thing we go through the motions with. Guess I'm just bored.
 

tstilwell

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Wow...just going off the first page, I am surprised (although perhaps I shouldn't be) at how many people are alone or in non-committed relationships. Is that just a trend with our generation?

I am coming up on my 6th wedding anniversary and I have been with my wife for almost 10 years. I couldn't be happier! I won't go into specific details but we have sex often and leave some room for experimentation as we both become comfortable with it. For those of you who are currently alone, hang in there. As long as you are willing to share of yourself and delight in another person, you will find your match. Don't give up on the concept of long-term relationships or even [::gasp:: dare I say it] marriage. I wouldn't trade it for anything in the world.
 

Shadowcreed

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I came here to read about ppl not having a sex life so I could feel better xD
Thanks Escapist - It's always good to know that you're not alone xD.
 

Blow_Pop

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Close to non existent much as I'd like to change that. Minus the other day and the Sunday before it is non existent. After my job ends it will go back to being non existent. Yet I still have people living vicariously through my sex life.....It confuses me.
 

Musette

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My sex life is exactly how I want it to be; nonexistent. Never felt the desire to pursue it, so I just dump all my time into my music/studies instead.
 

bigwon

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paid for a couple escorts, gotta say...besides the whole paying money thing for it was pretty darned nice!