What the hell is your problem?

[GreyWolf257]

Oh jeez, do I really want to do this? Even with anonymity I feel hesitant...ah screw it, this is the first time I've said this in a forum that has nothing to do with the subject:

I'm totally a closet voreaphile, and I love it. Most people fap to women with big breasts, I fap to them getting swallowed whole. Why? I don't know, and I'm not sure I want to. I just do.

I never knew that was a thing. Oh well, "The more you know!"

By the way, welcome to the Escapist! We don't judge you here(at least not most of us), so just feel free to say anything you want on this and any other thread (as long as it isn't "trollish" or made in an attempt to offend anyone).

 

[Dr. wonderful]

I like tentacle hentai, I suppose that's odd.

Not at all.

 

[Razavn]

Oh jeez, do I really want to do this? Even with anonymity I feel hesitant...ah screw it, this is the first time I've said this in a forum that has nothing to do with the subject:

I'm totally a closet voreaphile, and I love it. Most people fap to women with big breasts, I fap to them getting swallowed whole. Why? I don't know, and I'm not sure I want to. I just do.

Don't worry...no angry mob is coming to chase you with pitchforks...your parents standing behind you on the other hand...

Anyways...I have read a few "vore" stories and the like but just couldn't get into them...guess they aren't my cup of tea.

 

[Death on Trapezoids]

holey smokes, this is a long post. longest I have seen yet.

I, I am an introvert. And some of my family insist on making regular visits.
I think, "why, why would I spend more than a few days of my year talking to an socializing with people I barely know, have no common grounds with, and generally cannot relate to?"
It's just like, WTF, y'know?

"Because they are family" is what someone would probably answer. I'll go the extra mile by saying you can't automatically assume that you don't have common grounds with someone, the only way to know for sure is to spend time with that person and find out. The reason you probably don't feel you can relate to them is BECAUSE you hardly know them. Your self-rationalization for your behavior is irrational.

Furthermore, introvert does NOT mean someone who is a loner (or at least it doesn't in Carl Jung's definition of the word). That's one of the biggest misconceptions ever and you can't dismiss loners (who may have some psychological issues) as simply "acting the way they do because they're introverts". Introverts are people who lose energy as they interact with people (and often need to be alone to "recharge") whilst extroverts are people who gain energy as they interact with people. Plenty of extroverts can be anti-social, plenty of introverts can be the center of the party (introverts are often the people who are extremely talkative RIGHT as the party starts and fade over the course of the evening). Don't use "well I'm introverted" as an excuse not to socialize; human beings are social creatures by nature.

That is quite interesting...I guess I am an anti-social introvert as I can only go to parties for about 1hr. until I feel like leaving....it doesn't even matter to me if the party/dance would go all night...I just want my sis. to bring me back home so I can read/play v. games/do homework.

Much better! It can be useful to know your energy tends to work and choose activities that favor it. For example, have you ever been to a "lounge" type bar? They're very different from high-energy parties. Very soothing and relaxing atmosphere. If you don't like the high-energy parties I'd recommend you check them out. There are tons of social activities that cater to more introverted people.

It's also helpful to understand how you feel. Like for me, I'm extroverted, so I initially don't really feel like involving myself in any activity (already tired), but I know that once it gets going, I'm going to have fun so I force myself to go anyways. I wouldn't be able to predict how feel but I've heard from some of my friends just need some time alone to "recharge" before going back out again.

I am not old enough yet to go to any type of bar (not for 5 years at least and I have a liver condition anyways so at most I would be going just to see what it is. I tend to not want to go to activities anyways but if I do go, I want to leave after an hour as I can't stand it anymore....I really don't like it...I really can't explain it either.

That's a bit concerning. It's not normal (even for timid folks) to dislike ANY activity in general. Have you talked to about this? Does this happen to ANY given activity? Do you notice any sort of pattern (like only physical activities)? Have you tried a broad spectrum of stuff?

Well I am in Boy Scouts and college (though I dislike Boy Scouts) but I would much rather sit home and read than to go out with friends or something...and no I haven't spoken to a shrink as I don't believe it to be a serious problem. I don't have very many friends but that is due to the fact that I don't talk to many people....not anything inherently wrong (I hope)

Also I am 16, in college, and I have never had a girlfriend as I am too shy to ask one out...oh and the fact that they are all older than me may have something to due with it...I am going to wait until I am a junior before I ask the incoming freshmen out...

Oh and I have a thing about ellipses...

Holy shit, college at 16? That's pretty fucking impressive, although I'm sure that's left you feeling disconnected from others, or made it difficult to relate to people. As for girls, it's 100% normal to be shy around girls. Once you grow more mature and confident that will change (NOBODY starts out as confident, it's a skill people develop albeit at different rates).

Honestly, if you feel good then you're fine. Generally, if you feel strong emotions or vastly abnormal behavior, then it's a good time to seek professional psychologists. Otherwise, you can just ask friends, family or people around you about stuff like not liking any activity after 1 hour. Maybe they can shed light. (When it comes to general behavior/social stuff, I find that there's tremendous power in simply asking people).

Wow, what a long conversation my post has spawned. This is pretty interesting. anyway, I guess you make a point, but as I said in the original post, I don't mind spending time with them, I just don't want to spend an excessive amount of my time. Also, you mistook me when I said introvert. I had your definition in mind. I guess I was just tired after the entire christmas fiasco (I had about 4 christmases, don't ask)

 

[President Moocow]

holey smokes, this is a long post. longest I have seen yet.

I, I am an introvert. And some of my family insist on making regular visits.
I think, "why, why would I spend more than a few days of my year talking to an socializing with people I barely know, have no common grounds with, and generally cannot relate to?"
It's just like, WTF, y'know?

"Because they are family" is what someone would probably answer. I'll go the extra mile by saying you can't automatically assume that you don't have common grounds with someone, the only way to know for sure is to spend time with that person and find out. The reason you probably don't feel you can relate to them is BECAUSE you hardly know them. Your self-rationalization for your behavior is irrational.

Furthermore, introvert does NOT mean someone who is a loner (or at least it doesn't in Carl Jung's definition of the word). That's one of the biggest misconceptions ever and you can't dismiss loners (who may have some psychological issues) as simply "acting the way they do because they're introverts". Introverts are people who lose energy as they interact with people (and often need to be alone to "recharge") whilst extroverts are people who gain energy as they interact with people. Plenty of extroverts can be anti-social, plenty of introverts can be the center of the party (introverts are often the people who are extremely talkative RIGHT as the party starts and fade over the course of the evening). Don't use "well I'm introverted" as an excuse not to socialize; human beings are social creatures by nature.

That is quite interesting...I guess I am an anti-social introvert as I can only go to parties for about 1hr. until I feel like leaving....it doesn't even matter to me if the party/dance would go all night...I just want my sis. to bring me back home so I can read/play v. games/do homework.

Much better! It can be useful to know your energy tends to work and choose activities that favor it. For example, have you ever been to a "lounge" type bar? They're very different from high-energy parties. Very soothing and relaxing atmosphere. If you don't like the high-energy parties I'd recommend you check them out. There are tons of social activities that cater to more introverted people.

It's also helpful to understand how you feel. Like for me, I'm extroverted, so I initially don't really feel like involving myself in any activity (already tired), but I know that once it gets going, I'm going to have fun so I force myself to go anyways. I wouldn't be able to predict how feel but I've heard from some of my friends just need some time alone to "recharge" before going back out again.

I am not old enough yet to go to any type of bar (not for 5 years at least and I have a liver condition anyways so at most I would be going just to see what it is. I tend to not want to go to activities anyways but if I do go, I want to leave after an hour as I can't stand it anymore....I really don't like it...I really can't explain it either.

That's a bit concerning. It's not normal (even for timid folks) to dislike ANY activity in general. Have you talked to about this? Does this happen to ANY given activity? Do you notice any sort of pattern (like only physical activities)? Have you tried a broad spectrum of stuff?

Well I am in Boy Scouts and college (though I dislike Boy Scouts) but I would much rather sit home and read than to go out with friends or something...and no I haven't spoken to a shrink as I don't believe it to be a serious problem. I don't have very many friends but that is due to the fact that I don't talk to many people....not anything inherently wrong (I hope)

Also I am 16, in college, and I have never had a girlfriend as I am too shy to ask one out...oh and the fact that they are all older than me may have something to due with it...I am going to wait until I am a junior before I ask the incoming freshmen out...

Oh and I have a thing about ellipses...

Holy shit, college at 16? That's pretty fucking impressive, although I'm sure that's left you feeling disconnected from others, or made it difficult to relate to people. As for girls, it's 100% normal to be shy around girls. Once you grow more mature and confident that will change (NOBODY starts out as confident, it's a skill people develop albeit at different rates).

Honestly, if you feel good then you're fine. Generally, if you feel strong emotions or vastly abnormal behavior, then it's a good time to seek professional psychologists. Otherwise, you can just ask friends, family or people around you about stuff like not liking any activity after 1 hour. Maybe they can shed light. (When it comes to general behavior/social stuff, I find that there's tremendous power in simply asking people).

Wow, what a long conversation my post has spawned. This is pretty interesting. anyway, I guess you make a point, but as I said in the original post, I don't mind spending time with them, I just don't want to spend an excessive amount of my time. Also, you mistook me when I said introvert. I had your definition in mind. I guess I was just tired after the entire christmas fiasco (I had about 4 christmases, don't ask)

Really, well my bad. I just see so often introversion equated with with "lack of social life". You're actually pretty lucky tbh. I certainly wish I had 4 Christmases, I so rarely get to see my extended family. Ironically, you'd probably prefer the scenario I'm in. Limited family celebrations, living far away from relatives who only visit once every few years.

 

[Death on Trapezoids]

holey smokes, this is a long post. longest I have seen yet.

I, I am an introvert. And some of my family insist on making regular visits.
I think, "why, why would I spend more than a few days of my year talking to an socializing with people I barely know, have no common grounds with, and generally cannot relate to?"
It's just like, WTF, y'know?

EDIT: and I just can't stand religous fanatics. Not regular religious people, but the people who are like "Katrina and the bad economy are god's punishment for tolerating gays, and I will totally push for creationist stuff to be put in science text books, and you will burn in hell for all of eternity because you do not believe". I mean, I understand that you have the right to believe what you want to, but when you attempt to force that on others and remove their choice of belief, that's just wrong.

Your opinion on religion is the same as mine...one thing though...why do you have anything against teaching intelligent design in schools along with evolution? They are both theories and neither has been proved so presenting both with their corresponding arguments would be better for students than saying that one is a "law" even though they are just unconfirmed hypothesis/theories. It would allow students to make up their own mind as opposed to forcing the material down the student's throat.

Edit: I suppose I shouldn't have triple posted....I hope I don't get in trouble for that.

I hope I don't get in trouble for double posting, but razavan doesn't have a probation label yet, so...
I guess I never looked at it that way. I guess I'm just afraid taht the extremists would use the opening to completely aport the other side of the arguement from the text book, but I guess the same could said of what the textbooks have been saying for years. Thanks for the point of view.

 

[arcainia]

Oh jeez, do I really want to do this? Even with anonymity I feel hesitant...ah screw it, this is the first time I've said this in a forum that has nothing to do with the subject:

I'm totally a closet voreaphile, and I love it. Most people fap to women with big breasts, I fap to them getting swallowed whole. Why? I don't know, and I'm not sure I want to. I just do.

I never knew that was a thing. Oh well, "The more you know!"

By the way, welcome to the Escapist! We don't judge you here(at least not most of us), so just feel free to say anything you want on this and any other thread (as long as it isn't "trollish" or made in an attempt to offend anyone).

I'm so tempted to Google what that means...but I think I'm better off not knowing.

Well uh, I suppose my love for animated and drawn gay porn is my biggest wtf. Though with the people I hang out with it hardly feels like it's out of the norm.

 

[Death on Trapezoids]

holey smokes, this is a long post. longest I have seen yet.

I, I am an introvert. And some of my family insist on making regular visits.
I think, "why, why would I spend more than a few days of my year talking to an socializing with people I barely know, have no common grounds with, and generally cannot relate to?"
It's just like, WTF, y'know?

"Because they are family" is what someone would probably answer. I'll go the extra mile by saying you can't automatically assume that you don't have common grounds with someone, the only way to know for sure is to spend time with that person and find out. The reason you probably don't feel you can relate to them is BECAUSE you hardly know them. Your self-rationalization for your behavior is irrational.

Furthermore, introvert does NOT mean someone who is a loner (or at least it doesn't in Carl Jung's definition of the word). That's one of the biggest misconceptions ever and you can't dismiss loners (who may have some psychological issues) as simply "acting the way they do because they're introverts". Introverts are people who lose energy as they interact with people (and often need to be alone to "recharge") whilst extroverts are people who gain energy as they interact with people. Plenty of extroverts can be anti-social, plenty of introverts can be the center of the party (introverts are often the people who are extremely talkative RIGHT as the party starts and fade over the course of the evening). Don't use "well I'm introverted" as an excuse not to socialize; human beings are social creatures by nature.

That is quite interesting...I guess I am an anti-social introvert as I can only go to parties for about 1hr. until I feel like leaving....it doesn't even matter to me if the party/dance would go all night...I just want my sis. to bring me back home so I can read/play v. games/do homework.

Much better! It can be useful to know your energy tends to work and choose activities that favor it. For example, have you ever been to a "lounge" type bar? They're very different from high-energy parties. Very soothing and relaxing atmosphere. If you don't like the high-energy parties I'd recommend you check them out. There are tons of social activities that cater to more introverted people.

It's also helpful to understand how you feel. Like for me, I'm extroverted, so I initially don't really feel like involving myself in any activity (already tired), but I know that once it gets going, I'm going to have fun so I force myself to go anyways. I wouldn't be able to predict how feel but I've heard from some of my friends just need some time alone to "recharge" before going back out again.

I am not old enough yet to go to any type of bar (not for 5 years at least and I have a liver condition anyways so at most I would be going just to see what it is. I tend to not want to go to activities anyways but if I do go, I want to leave after an hour as I can't stand it anymore....I really don't like it...I really can't explain it either.

That's a bit concerning. It's not normal (even for timid folks) to dislike ANY activity in general. Have you talked to about this? Does this happen to ANY given activity? Do you notice any sort of pattern (like only physical activities)? Have you tried a broad spectrum of stuff?

Well I am in Boy Scouts and college (though I dislike Boy Scouts) but I would much rather sit home and read than to go out with friends or something...and no I haven't spoken to a shrink as I don't believe it to be a serious problem. I don't have very many friends but that is due to the fact that I don't talk to many people....not anything inherently wrong (I hope)

Also I am 16, in college, and I have never had a girlfriend as I am too shy to ask one out...oh and the fact that they are all older than me may have something to due with it...I am going to wait until I am a junior before I ask the incoming freshmen out...

Oh and I have a thing about ellipses...

Holy shit, college at 16? That's pretty fucking impressive, although I'm sure that's left you feeling disconnected from others, or made it difficult to relate to people. As for girls, it's 100% normal to be shy around girls. Once you grow more mature and confident that will change (NOBODY starts out as confident, it's a skill people develop albeit at different rates).

Honestly, if you feel good then you're fine. Generally, if you feel strong emotions or vastly abnormal behavior, then it's a good time to seek professional psychologists. Otherwise, you can just ask friends, family or people around you about stuff like not liking any activity after 1 hour. Maybe they can shed light. (When it comes to general behavior/social stuff, I find that there's tremendous power in simply asking people).

Wow, what a long conversation my post has spawned. This is pretty interesting. anyway, I guess you make a point, but as I said in the original post, I don't mind spending time with them, I just don't want to spend an excessive amount of my time. Also, you mistook me when I said introvert. I had your definition in mind. I guess I was just tired after the entire christmas fiasco (I had about 4 christmases, don't ask)

Really, well my bad. I just see so often introversion equated with with "lack of social life". You're actually pretty lucky tbh. I certainly wish I had 4 Christmases, I so rarely get to see my extended family. Ironically, you'd probably prefer the scenario I'm in. Limited family celebrations, living far away from relatives who only visit once every few years.

Like I said, I don't mind spending time with them, and probably wouldn't want to sever ties to that point. But 4, geez, it's a lot, you know? Also, if I had no social life, I would probably have to (or had to have been) home schooled. Like you said, humans are (often cruel) social creatures. If I were to have no social life, I probably wouldn't be on this site, would I? Also, in the workplace and at shcools, the socially prominent tend to single out loners, who have no friends to defend them, and verbally abuse them in order to establish/renew their prominent status.

 

[ShrooM_DoughKiD]

I have literally no emotional response to gory images, disgusting acts, or anything that isn't directly related to my friends or myself.

About every fifteen minutes or so, I have the desire to eat human flesh.

I have a problem connecting with people, and being alone with people I don't know. It rather sucks.

This, and I have to have atleast one bottle of Vodka at hand all the time, I have no idea whats brough this is, but its a habit that is here and I guess I just have to get used to it

 

[Razavn]

holey smokes, this is a long post. longest I have seen yet.

I, I am an introvert. And some of my family insist on making regular visits.
I think, "why, why would I spend more than a few days of my year talking to an socializing with people I barely know, have no common grounds with, and generally cannot relate to?"
It's just like, WTF, y'know?

EDIT: and I just can't stand religous fanatics. Not regular religious people, but the people who are like "Katrina and the bad economy are god's punishment for tolerating gays, and I will totally push for creationist stuff to be put in science text books, and you will burn in hell for all of eternity because you do not believe". I mean, I understand that you have the right to believe what you want to, but when you attempt to force that on others and remove their choice of belief, that's just wrong.

Your opinion on religion is the same as mine...one thing though...why do you have anything against teaching intelligent design in schools along with evolution? They are both theories and neither has been proved so presenting both with their corresponding arguments would be better for students than saying that one is a "law" even though they are just unconfirmed hypothesis/theories. It would allow students to make up their own mind as opposed to forcing the material down the student's throat.

Edit: I suppose I shouldn't have triple posted....I hope I don't get in trouble for that.

I hope I don't get in trouble for double posting, but razavan doesn't have a probation label yet, so...
I guess I never looked at it that way. I guess I'm just afraid taht the extremists would use the opening to completely aport the other side of the arguement from the text book, but I guess the same could said of what the textbooks have been saying for years. Thanks for the point of view.

You are welcome, in fact one of my favorite quotes (I don't remember where it is from) is, "everything in moderation" too much or too little of anything in never good...water is a decent example of this...

 

[dthvirus]

I listen to Hare Hare Yukai thrice daily.

 

[Razavn]

I listen to Hare Hare Yukai thrice daily.

Could you please explain...judging by the nature of this thread I am not sure I should google it at home with my parents nearby?

 

[Noone From Nowhere]

My problem is that I have a problem with people who think that the fact that I don't have a problem with other people's freedom of choice is some kind of problem.

I'm also not rich or famous yet. I guess that is a legitimate problem, then.

 

[PhunkyPhazon]

Don't worry...no angry mob is coming to chase you with pitchforks...your parents standing behind you on the other hand...

Anyways...I have read a few "vore" stories and the like but just couldn't get into them...guess they aren't my cup of tea.

Well I wouldn't exactly expect anyone to get into it, which is kind of the cool part of it for me. After all, how many people can say they have such a rare fetish?

Have I mentioned how weird it feels to be discussing this as PhunkyPhazon and not with the screenname I typically use on an all-vore forum? Not that I exactly expect anyone here to care, it just feels weird.

 

[Insanum]

Due to the fact that people know me, Im just going to say i am terrified of spiders, Needles & geese.

 

[Kortney]

i am terrified of spiders, Needles & geese.

:O

Add Dinosaurs to that list, and that is exactly my problem!

 

[Booze Zombie]

Not at all.

You'd be amazed how many people have quoted me and gone "no, no, it's quite normal".

 

[Vanguard_Ex]

I'm insanely jealous and I hate my girlfriend talking to a lot of other guys.

 

[Xom]

Fetishes like M-preg, amputation, vore, snuff and fattening fill me not with the sense of disgust as they would normally with people who dislike them, but with a sense of righteous anger. Sometimes, thoughts of those trouble my mind for hours, sometimes days, gnawing away at me.
I am pretty much straight, but enjoy yaoi, as long as the characters are feminine enough.
Giant breasts are unattractive to me.
I frequently instigate flame wars and manipulate forum members against those I dislike on the internet. I'm pretty good at it when they don't see it coming, and no one suspects it was my pebble that started the landslide.
Sometimes I internet stalk people who I have problems with.
People who flaunt they opinions and preach them piss me off. Sometimes I use my internet anonymity to knock them down a few pegs, even if I agree with them.
Reading The Bible truly and honestly disturbed me more than House of Leaves.

I don't talk about these things with others very often.

 

[Razavn]

i am terrified of spiders, Needles & geese.

:O

Add Dinosaurs to that list, and that is exactly my problem!

I can understand the spiders and needles...but why geese?

Fetishes like M-preg, amputation, vore, snuff and fattening fill me not with the sense of disgust as they would normally with people who dislike them, but with a sense of righteous anger. Sometimes, thoughts of those trouble my mind for hours, sometimes days, gnawing away at me.
I am pretty much straight, but enjoy yaoi, as long as the characters are feminine enough.
Giant breasts are unattractive to me.
I frequently instigate flame wars and manipulate forum members against those I dislike on the internet. I'm pretty good at it when they don't see it coming, and no one suspects it was my pebble that started the landslide.
Sometimes I internet stalk people who I have problems with.
People who flaunt they opinions and preach them piss me off. Sometimes I use my internet anonymity to knock them down a few pegs, even if I agree with them.
Reading The Bible truly and honestly disturbed me more than House of Leaves.

I don't talk about these things with others very often.

I agree with you on the giant breasts thing

Also why does it fill you with righteous anger about those fetishes?

You probably shouldn't admit that you enjoy manipulating forum members on this site...the mods might get angry and I doubt internet anonymity (spelling?) can help you if the mods decide to do something...