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Rawne1980

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Probably the same reason I don't dance with random women when i'm in a club.

I've got a woman of my own, it's likely some women have men of their own and don't want to dance with some other bloke.

Fact is some women don't go out to meet a bloke, they go out to have a good night with their friends. Hard as it may be for your ego bud, they just aren't interested.

Saying that though the main reason I go to clubs is to get incredibly drunk and me and the lads try and dance like we did when we were 18. It's fun on the night but it aches like a ***** in the morning.

And thats also why we stick to pubs mainly now. We may still be able to act young and have decent bodies but those very same bodies are aging faster than our mentalities.
 

illas

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At the risk of generalizing:

- Almost every woman has insecurities about her appearance.
- Sometimes, they make an dress up and make an effort to hide/disguise the things they don't like.
- They then go out with the sole intention of getting (positive) attention, from men and other women.
- This makes them feel a little better about their appearance.

A woman blanking you is very rarely personal. Superficial, perhaps, but not particularly egotistical assuming they politely decline your advances.
 

PissOffRoth

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thaluikhain said:
"Wrong with them"? Um, people are allowed to go to clubs and not have to dance with guys, you know.
Well of course they're allowed to. He's asking why they would want to.
 

Dumbfish1

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OT: Seriously though, calm down. Not all girls go to clubs to dance with guys, some just like socialising, they might have boyfriends, or have been peer pressured into it.

Or all the more likely they're just not into you or your friends.
 

lettucethesallad

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I can only speak for myself here, but the 2 hours of getting ready before going out are really fun. Looking good makes you feel good, it's a confidence booster. Hell, when I'm sick, I go put on makeup and something nice to wear and I feel better.

And maybe these girls aren't out to pick up men? Maybe they're waiting for their friend to come back from the bathroom. Maybe they've just been dancing for a while and are having a breather. Maybe they're just not all that into you.
 

Aurora Firestorm

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Hokay, first off, every male in this thread start lurking. :p I'm joking, but in the end, ask a lady to answer a question about ladies.

Why sit in the corner? Honestly, as someone who doesn't do that, I can't give you too much of an answer. But, my theory is, go down this list and pick one:

1. They don't want to hang out with men. Seriously, they are not necessarily there to dance with guys, pick up guys, or even interact with guys. I would be thrilled to go to a dance with my lady-friends, and if we're together, I'm not going to suddenly dump them for some guy to dance with. I'm going to stay and interact.

2. They're self-conscious, maybe. They may like the club environment but don't know how to dance, or don't feel comfortable dancing, and they're just getting into things. Maybe they feel out of place. Maybe they just don't want to try it right now. Whatever it is, they have their own speed, so let them move at it.

3. They're picky. I.e. they will dance with a guy, but not you and/or your friends. They're looking maybe for a specific type, and it's not you.

This is mostly anecdata -- well, "what would my reasoning be," rather. So, if you want to find girls at a club, maybe you should look for the ones who are already participating, rather than angsting about the ones who aren't.
 

conflictofinterests

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I don't go to clubs. I have better things to do, like hang out with my boyfriend and play videogames. I'm not sure the type of women you're talking to or want to date are the kind that go to the places you're going.
 

Zeriah

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As a guy who goes to clubs every now and again but doesn't dance much unless I'm feeling extra confident, let me tell you why I go there - My friends.

They Like going to clubs, they like dancing and at least half the times they go out they go to clubs (the other half being bars/pubs/parties which I will almost always go to). Usually I'll pass when they ask me because I don't dig the atmosphere at those places but sometimes I'll be like what the hell, I want to hang out with my friends.

I don't really like dancing at clubs (it's different at parties and such, much more close knit of people and far less of them), I am kind of self conscious and can never really let go and groove in those kind of places (though I do sometimes if I'm having a really good time or if a girl asks me, obviously). So yeah maybe that's the reason? Either that or she is super picky/has a boyfriend and he isn't there.

I can't say much for the whole sitting alone in a corner thing though, if I'm not dancing I'll be sitting at a table talking to my friends and other acquaintances.

As for the dressing yourself up thing, it is a pretty standard practice from what I gather - regardless of the situation.
 

Michael Logan

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You are probably doing it wrong, in nightclubs you arnt supposed to talk to girls, you should just start dancing with them.
 

Broady Brio

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Happened to me before.

As stated somewhere above me, sometimes, girls are only interested in the 'girl's night out'. Nothing you can do there. Unless you look like their celebrity of dreams.
 

Flight

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Maybe they do that because they don't want to be asked to dance, and simply enjoy people-watching and hanging out. Personally, when I go out, I do so because I enjoy it, and having strangers coming up to me when I'm just there to have fun with my friends just serves to detract from that. Also, those women might enjoy dressing up and looking good because that's what they like, not because they want to attract anyone or please anybody else.
 

F'Angus

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They're just waiting on the side so when you guys are all on the dance floor you're surrounded and they can move in for the kill. FACT