what to do in a family talk

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Kibz

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just by reading the subject, you guys might be thinking, 'Who needs an advice on that?' but this talk is a lot more serious. I have parents and an older sister who is a senior. We, being me, my sis, and my mother, cant stand our father. He smokes, lies, lazy, and a a-hole. (I'm serious) When he gets back from work, he does nothing but just eating and laying on the couch watching TV. Some of you may think thats normal but forgive me, i think thats just wrong and lazy. We havent talked to each other for like three months, and today, my father sent a text message to my mom inviting us to dinner. We all thought it was ridiculus. Im not kidding. He just tries to do everything that will be best for him but not for everyone else. My mother got so angry that she is thinking of a divorce. I thought that wouldn't be so bad... but is it the right thing? Is it the right thing to do in a family that is about to collaspe? We are supposed to talk today, so i think i need some help. What am i supposed to say? I cant keep my cool down so easliy so i'm afraid that i might hurt everyone. Me, i think divorcing is the right way to stop this shit. I haven't really made a plan but i think you can help me. thxs
 

Troublesome Lagomorph

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Don't pass judgement on him. Listen to what he has to say, then observe what he does for I'd say... a month afterwards. If he doesn't change, then maybe divorce is what will have to happen. But give him a chance.
Also: consider this: Divorce might just piss him off and make him a bigger a-hole. My family is exactly like this, except that my dad rents apartments for himself behind our backs, nearly opened a store without telling us and has occasional violent outburts.
 

Kibz

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thxs... but i think we gave him enough chances. We did tell him the way of living his life is wrong, but he wouldnt listen...