Do your own video games count? Because the one I'm pitching in a few weeks has Fallyn, a street-urchin pyromancer arsonists with a wise-cracking attitude and a ***LOAD of firepower (ignore the pun). Hopefully in about 2 years you can all fall in love with her too.
But for video games that have ALREADY come out, Kameo was pretty awesome in Kameo: Elements of Power. She fought her way through leigions of enemies to save her relatives, now that's commitment. That and the fact that she takes a level in badass about 3 hours before the end of the game and not only stops the scheming antagonist in her tracks, but takes on an entire FLEET OF AIRSHIPS by herself, only after having destroyed a MAGMA CASTLE protected by a gigantic GOLEM (forgive the caps). Sexy, smart, dedicated, and badass, Kameo would be awesome to date.
As a runner-up, does Willow count since she was in the Buffy game? Because that would be AWESOME. There's nothing like knowing that your smart sexy girlfriend is strong enough to destroy the world if you die. The fact that she's a lesbian doesn't matter, she proved in the show that she has spells to switch people's genders, and hey, I'm willing to change for people

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