What's The Etiquette of Taking Pictures of Strangers?

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KissingSunlight

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I've mentioned a few times in the past that I work in a tourist area. Which means that people are taking pictures around me all the time. Every once in a while, I see someone aiming a phone or camera at me and take a picture. If I was wearing a colorful costume or work uniform, I could understand why that would happen. However, I work at a small business with no dress code policy. So, I feel that they are violating my privacy. Even though, I am in a public space. I do find it creepy when people do that. I know with new technology comes new rules. Am I wrong to feel that people who take pictures of me without asking are being jerks? What is the etiquette of taking pictures of strangers?
 

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I guess it depends... Are you taking a photo of the landscape, in which people happen to be in? Or, are you going to take a picture of a specific person/group of people?

If the latter, then a simple "Hi, do you mind if I take your picture?" should suffice. They may oblige and even pose for you. If not, then find someone else to photograph.
 

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If it's the tourist attraction you're in that they want a picture of (and it's public), it's fair game. It would not be bad form if they are taking a picture of that awesome fountain and you happen to be in the background.

If it is YOU that they want a picture of, etiquette would dictate that they ask for permission before snapping a picture. It would be bad form to take a picture of a person without asking.

It's unfortunate if that makes you uncomfortable but public spaces are just that...public. You do not have the same rights to privacy as you do in your home or private space. Obviously there are still laws that give you some privacy (they wouldn't be able to slide themselves under a girl's skirt for a picture for example) but ultimately public space is fair game.
 

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My advice is simply don't. Its creepy, intrusive, probably illegal to some degree especially if kids are involved, and it'll get you in way more trouble than its worth.
 

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No you're not wrong to feel that way. Taking pictures of strangers (not something else that a few people happen to be walking through at the time) without their permission is a huge breach in etiquette. I would be tempted to confront them and tell them to delete it.
 

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Who the hell cares about the feelings of strangers? If it's fine by the law then it's fine by me.

Yeah, until it's not. Like even if someone is a creep and you have the right to sink to their level, it would be better if neither were creeps. In this particular privacy issue I lean on examining the consequences of the material getting spread everywhere (like the law does).

Easy for me to be lenient: My bare torso and my buttocks are on YouTube. In the same video too.
 

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Let's just say there's a reason tourists tend to be considered rude.

Yeah, bad etiquette not asking first when a stranger is the focal point.
 

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KissingSunlight said:
I've mentioned a few times in the past that I work in a tourist area. Which means that people are taking pictures around me all the time. Every once in a while, I see someone aiming a phone or camera at me and take a picture. If I was wearing a colorful costume or work uniform, I could understand why that would happen. However, I work at a small business with no dress code policy. So, I feel that they are violating my privacy. Even though, I am in a public space. I do find it creepy when people do that. I know with new technology comes new rules. Am I wrong to feel that people who take pictures of me without asking are being jerks? What is the etiquette of taking pictures of strangers?
Depending on where you live, you don't really have a 'right to privacy' in a public space.

That being said, yeah I think it's pretty rude to take someone's picture without asking them, unless they are clearly desiring to have their picture taken (like the people who dress up in Times Square, and even then you're supposed to tip them). I wouldn't necessarily run in ready to fight if someone took my picture without asking, but I would probably tell them "if you'd like to take my picture that's fine, but I'd appreciate if you'd ask me first".
 

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Don't professional photographers do that from time to time?

Anyways. In public all bets are off. Unless they walk up sticking a camera in your face.Also, it is entirely possible, and this is usually the case, that you were just in the way. They were nost likely taking a picture past you.
 

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I personally don't understand the issue. The test that I would apply is that of a reasonable expectation of privacy.

If I was at home, for example, I would consider it reasonable to expect no one will be trying to watch me through my window. Therefore, I would object to a stranger taking a photo of me.

If I was wandering down the street, I wouldn't have any expectation of privacy and don't understand why a photo of me in that situation could be considered rude.

That said, however, I am aware that many people don't think like that so I wouldn't take photos of people in public so as to not offend them, regardless of whether I understand or not.
 

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If they happen to be taking photos and you just so happen to be in the background then I don't think there's anything wrong with it, but if they're explicitly taking a photo of you without even asking then that's extremely weird. It's probably not illegal, but you should really ask first, because it tends make people uncomfortable to be the target of a random photo since you can't help but wonder why they are photographing strangers.
 

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I think it really depends. If they aren't taking a picture of the stranger but instead something they're standing next to/inside of/near then it's fair game.

However, if they're actually taking pictures of that stranger then from what I've come to understand the etiquette is to either ask for permission first or don't take the picture at all.
 

KissingSunlight

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Lodgey said:
I personally don't understand the issue. The test that I would apply is that of a reasonable expectation of privacy.

If I was at home, for example, I would consider it reasonable to expect no one will be trying to watch me through my window. Therefore, I would object to a stranger taking a photo of me.

If I was wandering down the street, I wouldn't have any expectation of privacy and don't understand why a photo of me in that situation could be considered rude.

That said, however, I am aware that many people don't think like that so I wouldn't take photos of people in public so as to not offend them, regardless of whether I understand or not.
If someone comes up to you at work at take a picture of you without asking permission and then walk away, how would you feel about that?
 

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KissingSunlight said:
Lodgey said:
I personally don't understand the issue. The test that I would apply is that of a reasonable expectation of privacy.

If I was at home, for example, I would consider it reasonable to expect no one will be trying to watch me through my window. Therefore, I would object to a stranger taking a photo of me.

If I was wandering down the street, I wouldn't have any expectation of privacy and don't understand why a photo of me in that situation could be considered rude.

That said, however, I am aware that many people don't think like that so I wouldn't take photos of people in public so as to not offend them, regardless of whether I understand or not.
If someone comes up to you at work at take a picture of you without asking permission and then walk away, how would you feel about that?
It would certainly feel unusual as it isn't something I would ever expect to happen but I honestly believe my feelings about it would end there.
 

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KissingSunlight said:
Lodgey said:
I personally don't understand the issue. The test that I would apply is that of a reasonable expectation of privacy.

If I was at home, for example, I would consider it reasonable to expect no one will be trying to watch me through my window. Therefore, I would object to a stranger taking a photo of me.

If I was wandering down the street, I wouldn't have any expectation of privacy and don't understand why a photo of me in that situation could be considered rude.

That said, however, I am aware that many people don't think like that so I wouldn't take photos of people in public so as to not offend them, regardless of whether I understand or not.
If someone comes up to you at work at take a picture of you without asking permission and then walk away, how would you feel about that?
It would certainly feel unusual as it isn't something I would ever expect to happen but I honestly believe my feelings about it would end there.
 

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Eh. Are these picture of you or pictures you happen to be in? The former is creepy. The latter is to be expected, like if you're a security guard in front of a monument.
 

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In a world where your online activities are monitored, what you buy, who you see and what you believe are constantly questioned by authorities using back door mechanisms... Well, let's just say I'm not worried about randoms taking my picture in a crowd these days as much as some government workers going over my personal affairs.

As a photographer, I do not put my lens solely focused on one person in a public space purposely unless that's what I'm being paid to do for a fashion shoot. I'm looking at the general look of the street, the foreground of the bike-racks or something else. People captured in the frame are generally part of a wide shot and I've frequently been approached about what I'm taking photos of. Only once, upon explanation of what I was doing, did they insist on looking and deleting things off my camera (I don't let others touch my cameras). I will delete a picture if someone's belligerent.

As much as it may seem to be pointed directly at you, generally you're not the biggest part of the photo. If the lens looks short on the camera, your face will be smaller in the final product. If you're in the public world, the expectation is that people will see you. People are already recording you without your consent automatically on the street.
Lodgey said:
I personally don't understand the issue. The test that I would apply is that of a reasonable expectation of privacy.

If I was at home, for example, I would consider it reasonable to expect no one will be trying to watch me through my window. Therefore, I would object to a stranger taking a photo of me.

If I was wandering down the street, I wouldn't have any expectation of privacy and don't understand why a photo of me in that situation could be considered rude.

That said, however, I am aware that many people don't think like that so I wouldn't take photos of people in public so as to not offend them, regardless of whether I understand or not.
The more intimate the space in someone's life you're in, the more explicit the permission needs to be. The OP's example of being in a high tourist area where the camera to people ratio is going to be extremely high, the odds of personal image privacy is just going to be low no matter his reservations. Its bad form to go up to someone working and taking their photo because you 'like the shop' in a close up regardless of where you work. I'm sure that he's been a part of thousands of photos at this point where he was just a part of the stall at the bottom of the picture.

He's within his rights to tell someone going for his face that he does not approve and to ask them to delete it. His expectation of privacy is much lower in those conditions than say in his backyard with his neighbor's kids playing with his son or something. If a random was taking photos there, I think the law would come down pretty quickly.

As someone hired to do both photography and videography on a regular basis, I have to take the public sphere into consideration constantly. People on the street are less likely to be bothered than say people sitting and drinking coffee at Starbucks outside. Vancouver is a pretty film aware city so you get both people who are appreciative of your work, who politely get out of your way and those who make an issue of it. Taking it calmly in my stride, having access to other people who can get rid of misconceptions is my way of managing it. At no time should you get bellicose about it because it reflects badly on your peers who will be down that street after you.
 

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tippy2k2 said:
If it's the tourist attraction you're in that they want a picture of (and it's public), it's fair game. It would not be bad form if they are taking a picture of that awesome fountain and you happen to be in the background.

If it is YOU that they want a picture of, etiquette would dictate that they ask for permission before snapping a picture. It would be bad form to take a picture of a person without asking.

It's unfortunate if that makes you uncomfortable but public spaces are just that...public. You do not have the same rights to privacy as you do in your home or private space. Obviously there are still laws that give you some privacy (they wouldn't be able to slide themselves under a girl's skirt for a picture for example) but ultimately public space is fair game.
What Tippy said, with one addition.

Often photographers and journalists will take pictures of people in public unawares. Telling them beforehand would change the photo, since people tend to either pose or get self-conscious if they know you're about to take a photo of them.

In that case the etiquette is to go up and ask them after the fact for permission to use the photo and delete it if they say no.

I only know this because I've had a couple such people come up and ask me that.
 

KissingSunlight

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I want to thank you for all the responses so far.

The incident that inspired me to start this thread. A young guy was jumping side to side and taking a few steps forward and back. That caught my attention. So, I looked out to see what was going on. The first moment we were in clear view of each other. He raised a phone squarely in my direction and touched the screen. I went outside to confront him and asked him to delete the picture. He denied taking a picture of me, claiming he was taking a picture of a sign above me. Later on, I stood where he was with my phone. There was no way he could have gotten a picture of the sign. However, where I was standing at the time, I was perfectly framed in the shot. When he walked away far enough, he yelled back, "I hope your kind will die off." I didn't think my request was enough to justify someone having genocidal thoughts. I guess I am somewhat comforted by the thought that this person was being an obnoxious jerk.