I refuse to feel bad about my allies having the upper hand in an armed conflict. Would I rather those I am not allied with have that technology? Of course not.
Every revolution in warfare has been brought about by one side introducing a weapon or tactic that allows them to strike at the enemy with little fear of retaliation. First it was the spear, then it was the bow, then it was the shield, then it was trained dogs, then it was armour, then it was the horse, then it was the pike and formations, then it was the fort, then it was siege equipment, then it was the longbow, then it was the matchlock, then the cannon, then rifling, then scopes, then bolt action, then repeaters, then automatics, then trench warfare, then artillery, then armoured vehicles, then bombers, then fighters, then submarines, then rockets, then jet fighters, then smart bombs, then drones.
Every invention has been about either putting the wielders spear point further from the wielder and closer to the enemy or introducing a barrier between the enemy's spear point and the wielder's person. The next evolution here will likely be a form of cyber warfare to identify where the drone pilots or command centers are located so their own drones can strike there. What will happen after that? Perhaps EMP devices... who knows?
This is how warfare evolves, it always had and it will continue to do so for the foreseeable future. As long as a human is still pulling the trigger then I am fine with it, no matter how far away from the tip of his spear he happens to be. When the trigger is being pulled by something OTHER than a human then - and only then - have we got a serious problem.