What's the problem with Nudity and Swearing?

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TheRightToArmBears said:
If swearing was ok then there would be no point in swearing.
By that logic, the entire world is pointless.

Money is pointless.
Food is pointless.
Water is pointless.

Did..

Did you even listen to Mr Fry? :D
 

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Some people can be quite prudish.
And I am one of those prudes! Not necessarily an anti-nude, anti-bad-word Nazi though. I just like it to be used either contextually correctly or, as a sweet little extra.

Like in Clerks, the swearing works because of the style of that movie anyway. It makes the movie seem real (although weird to have so many chest/face level security cameras) In Dead to Rights: Retribution though, the swearing just seems to indicate that the people writing the script had no idea how to make a 'bad ass cop on the edge' character without having every other word he uses rhyming with the Pokemon 'muk'. As for the thugs he kills; they're bad guys and as we all know, bad people never cease with the swearing

As for nudity, that's a bit more tricky. Personally, I prefer near nudity as it leave more to the imagination. Nothing ruins a nude-shot for example, like plate-sized nipples or...you know what, I'll keep quite (as the nipple thing probably already earned me a probation). Remember the original Mass Effect? You didn't see much but you saw enough to know that nudity was happening. It had the look and feel of a tender love scene which would arguably requires subtlety. You knew, however, exactly what Shepard and his Assari consort (or whoever you banged) were doing without seeing so much as a nipple.

Soft-Core porn on the other hand is hilarious. The fact that the people are naked is just the pie-in-the-face mainly because you know there is nothing at all happening down there.

I've lost my train of thought so sorry about the rambling text wall.In short: bad words and nudity =/= bad. Too much of it however, does.
I agree completely about the nudity. Too much of any good thing is bad.

Cake is fantastic. I love eating cake, it tastes great. But too much of it is a BAD thing. Same with swearing. Don't use it all the time, but feel free to use it expressing anger or to give a description to something.
 

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Well our view of swearing comes from when those words were really offensive. People say fuck, damn, hell, or shit all the time now and they don't really mean as much today beyond being curse words. But back when this whole view was formed, saying fuck or ***** in regular conversation was the modern day equivalent of saying ****** or ****** (the homophobic slur, not the name for a bundle of twigs). Curse words held some power back then that they rarely do nowadays. I have nothing against swearing, but there are times and places for it. When you're in pain there should be nothing wrong with letting out a nice "FUCK!" to let everyone know how you feel (horrible, thanks for asking). Swearing can also be used for humor, as a well placed swear can really spice up a joke.

As for nudity, its probably because in our culture (at least in America, can't speak for other nations) sex is at its least a very private thing and at its worse a neccessary evil that should be avoid for as long as possible. Doesn't make much sense, as sex is a beautiful thing and really shouldn't be classified as being the same as violence in terms of vulgarity. Where does nudity fit into this? Nudity is generally equated with sex (in America!) so thus its a big no-no to be nude most of the time. But, rather than causing people to not get so excited when some skin is shown, it has the opposite effect; since it only paritially represses peoples natural sexual urges thus causing people to react more when presented with nudity. I'd have to agree that if nudity was so taboo and everyone was doing it then it wouldn't be such a big deal to most people. The only problem is that if nudity were to become more common, the view of a naked body wouldn't cause as much arousal. Make of that what you will. Plus, wearing clothing has its uses. In colder climes, going nude in the middle of winter is just plain stupid. It can also be useful when weather conditions are somewhat harmful. I guess that I believe the gentalia should be kept under wraps but anything else should be let out when wanted (and when its smart to do so).
 

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SextusMaximus said:
TheRightToArmBears said:
If swearing was ok then there would be no point in swearing.
By that logic, the entire world is pointless.

Money is pointless.
Food is pointless.
Water is pointless.
Nope.

The point (or one of the big points) of swearing is that it's shocking if done right. Of course, if swearing ceases to be shocking then it's fairly useless.

It goes without saying that money, food and water aren't made to be shocking.
 

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SextusMaximus said:
C) Isn't it hypocritical that one part of society are saying that the human body is a beautiful thing, while another part are ranting about how disgusting it it?
No, because 'society' is not one giant monolithic blob.
 

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I'll give you an example why nudity and swearing is not necessarily bad, but immature; Spartacus. That show could've been very good if it didn't throw tits and fucks at you every damn second.

Contrary to popular belief, words have meaning. And so does swearing and cursing. If you're pissed off and you need to vent, by all means, curse a blue streak. But just swearing for the hell of it (I'm looking at you Spartacus) is stupid, unnecessary and immature.

As for nudity: The average naked person is ugly.

EDIT: Also, most nudity on TV or in movies is rarely used in proper context (not for kids atleast). Most of the time, it's used for either erotisism, shock value or comedy. If it's for comedy I dont mind kids seeing it.
 

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A taboo is derived from context, and context is defined by societal constraint. Society is constantly shaped by history, and history remembers its taboos.

Take the taboo of swearing - it's the usage of words that may offend another person given proper context. Society constrains the words we use so that they may have more than one meaning, and so that they may have stronger meanings given context. These constraints are shaped historically by common conflicts, both internal and external. These conflicts are managed, perpetuated, and maintained by religious or governmental persuasion.

In the case of modern "Western" society, much of our culture is defined by the rise and spread of Christianity. The defining characteristic of the Christian philosophy is to "treat other people as you would have them treat you." Somewhere along the way, people figured out that they don't like having swears used against them, and philosophically were bound to view them as taboo to protect the common trust. No one at the time was able to disagree with this sentiment, as the governmental force of the time consisted of "we'll kill you if you get uppity," so the taboo stood.

It wasn't until the second half of the 20th century that we realized our society is shaped by the people that choose to participate therein, rather than the people that society empowers to protect our culture. I consider myself extremely privileged to be able to swear as I see appropriate, view pornography, and even change my body as I see fit. In recompense for this great honor, I show respect to those we've empowered by not telling them what fucking moronic little asswipes they are.

When it comes to nudity, it's a context thing. I know that nudity isn't equivalent to sex, but the first thought that comes into my head when I see a naked person is either "aw dude, gross" or "I hope she doesn't mind me staring as much as I am." This is because I am culturally and biologically stimulated by the bare figure of other humans (specifically physically attractive ladies.) I believe in our ability to tear down these taboos, but the only way to get rid of them is to remove the base instincts at work.
This sums up my thoughts pretty well.
 

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Why I am against nudity:
- It is cold without clothes
- it is tradition
- it is polite, if people don't want to see you naked, you just wear clothes. If they want to see you naked you can still take them off.
 

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SextusMaximus said:
ThreeWords said:
SextusMaximus said:
ThreeWords said:
SextusMaximus said:
BTW Nudity IS NOT EQUAL TO Sex - which probably isn't that bad either [provided it's not sodomy]
I agree in general, except for this exert. Why, if sex is allowable, is gay sex somehow worse?
Zenn3k said:
SextusMaximus said:
(BTW Nudity IS NOT EQUAL TO Sex - which probably isn't that bad either [provided it's not sodomy])

What are your views / arguments?
Hey, whats wrong with sodomy?!

And this doesn't have to be able gay sex either, ask my ex girlfriend.
Wait, not gay Sex, I meant extreme sex, E.G. Rapes and the Copraphilia, etc.
You have a point, but you're using the wrong words. Be more careful next time...
Sodomy is extreme and violent sex, my word was fine, but some major groups have skewed the word in order to make it seem like something else. I'm pretty sure most dictionaries have it down as extreme sex. (or something to those words)
Really? I've always used it, and seen it used to describe anal sex. Laws on the books against Sodomy were put there primarily to criminalize male-male sex. Though men and women can do it as well, it's usually seen as perverted. But primarily, the meaning is Anal sex, no matter what definitions have been grafted on to it later.
 

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Dyme said:
Why I am against nudity:
- It is cold without clothes
- it is tradition
- it is polite, if people don't want to see you naked, you just wear clothes. If they want to see you naked you can still take them off.
1) I'm not saying people have to be naked, I'm saying people should be allowed to be.
2) Tradition isn't an argument.
3) No, you're not allowed to take them off.
 

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Hateren47 said:
ThreeWords said:
SextusMaximus said:
BTW Nudity IS NOT EQUAL TO Sex - which probably isn't that bad either [provided it's not sodomy]
I agree in general, except for this exert. Why, if sex is allowable, is gay sex somehow worse?
Sodomy is not only gay sex.

Definition of SODOMY (from Merriam-Webster Online)
: anal or oral copulation with a member of the same or opposite sex; also : copulation with an animal.
Oral sex is cunnilingus if you are doing it to a woman, fellatio if you are doing it to a man. sex with an animal is bestiality. Sodomy is a specific act.
 

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LadyRhian said:
SextusMaximus said:
ThreeWords said:
SextusMaximus said:
ThreeWords said:
SextusMaximus said:
BTW Nudity IS NOT EQUAL TO Sex - which probably isn't that bad either [provided it's not sodomy]
I agree in general, except for this exert. Why, if sex is allowable, is gay sex somehow worse?
Zenn3k said:
SextusMaximus said:
(BTW Nudity IS NOT EQUAL TO Sex - which probably isn't that bad either [provided it's not sodomy])

What are your views / arguments?
Hey, whats wrong with sodomy?!

And this doesn't have to be able gay sex either, ask my ex girlfriend.
Wait, not gay Sex, I meant extreme sex, E.G. Rapes and the Copraphilia, etc.
You have a point, but you're using the wrong words. Be more careful next time...
Sodomy is extreme and violent sex, my word was fine, but some major groups have skewed the word in order to make it seem like something else. I'm pretty sure most dictionaries have it down as extreme sex. (or something to those words)
Really? I've always used it, and seen it used to describe anal sex. Laws on the books against Sodomy were put there primarily to criminalize male-male sex. Though men and women can do it as well, it's usually seen as perverted. But primarily, the meaning is Anal sex, no matter what definitions have been grafted on to it later.
Unnatural is what is described. I generally assumed that to mean extreme or grotusque in the manner used. Not to mention if it is used to describe anal sex, that allows to be used for Homosexuals and Heterosexuals. Not just one.
 

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Danny Ocean said:
SextusMaximus said:
C) Isn't it hypocritical that one part of society are saying that the human body is a beautiful thing, while another part are ranting about how disgusting it it?
No, because 'society' is not one giant monolithic blob.
You completely skewed my point. You know what I was saying.
 

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SextusMaximus said:
LadyRhian said:
SextusMaximus said:
ThreeWords said:
SextusMaximus said:
ThreeWords said:
SextusMaximus said:
BTW Nudity IS NOT EQUAL TO Sex - which probably isn't that bad either [provided it's not sodomy]
I agree in general, except for this exert. Why, if sex is allowable, is gay sex somehow worse?
Zenn3k said:
SextusMaximus said:
(BTW Nudity IS NOT EQUAL TO Sex - which probably isn't that bad either [provided it's not sodomy])

What are your views / arguments?
Hey, whats wrong with sodomy?!

And this doesn't have to be able gay sex either, ask my ex girlfriend.
Wait, not gay Sex, I meant extreme sex, E.G. Rapes and the Copraphilia, etc.
You have a point, but you're using the wrong words. Be more careful next time...
Sodomy is extreme and violent sex, my word was fine, but some major groups have skewed the word in order to make it seem like something else. I'm pretty sure most dictionaries have it down as extreme sex. (or something to those words)
Really? I've always used it, and seen it used to describe anal sex. Laws on the books against Sodomy were put there primarily to criminalize male-male sex. Though men and women can do it as well, it's usually seen as perverted. But primarily, the meaning is Anal sex, no matter what definitions have been grafted on to it later.
Unnatural is what is described. I generally assumed that to mean extreme or grotusque in the manner used. Not to mention if it is used to describe anal sex, that allows to be used for Homosexuals and Heterosexuals. Not just one.
Of course it does. But it was used to criminalize male-male sex. Especially in the south. Men and women were rarely prosecuted for such (presumably because it was done in the privacy of one's home, and procreative sex was considered to be the norm where man and women were concerned.)

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sodomy_laws_in_the_United_States
 

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SextusMaximus said:
Danny Ocean said:
SextusMaximus said:
C) Isn't it hypocritical that one part of society are saying that the human body is a beautiful thing, while another part are ranting about how disgusting it it?
No, because 'society' is not one giant monolithic blob.
You completely skewed my point. You know what I was saying.
Apparently not. Perhaps you should explain this one in other terms.
 

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Nothing at all is wrong with either of them; why society has a problem with them? I don't know.

Hell, even my mom used to be all uptight about cursing. A typical conversation about cussing with my mom usually looks like this:

Me: *Insert random swear here. For the sake of it, why don't we agree that it's 'Fuck'.*

Mom: David, why the hell are you swearing? I didn't raise you like that Goddammit!

Me: *Laughing at the irony*

As for nudity... Well, I'm a big fan (some of the time).
 

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LadyRhian said:
SextusMaximus said:
LadyRhian said:
SextusMaximus said:
ThreeWords said:
SextusMaximus said:
ThreeWords said:
SextusMaximus said:
BTW Nudity IS NOT EQUAL TO Sex - which probably isn't that bad either [provided it's not sodomy]
I agree in general, except for this exert. Why, if sex is allowable, is gay sex somehow worse?
Zenn3k said:
SextusMaximus said:
(BTW Nudity IS NOT EQUAL TO Sex - which probably isn't that bad either [provided it's not sodomy])

What are your views / arguments?
Hey, whats wrong with sodomy?!

And this doesn't have to be able gay sex either, ask my ex girlfriend.
Wait, not gay Sex, I meant extreme sex, E.G. Rapes and the Copraphilia, etc.
You have a point, but you're using the wrong words. Be more careful next time...
Sodomy is extreme and violent sex, my word was fine, but some major groups have skewed the word in order to make it seem like something else. I'm pretty sure most dictionaries have it down as extreme sex. (or something to those words)
Really? I've always used it, and seen it used to describe anal sex. Laws on the books against Sodomy were put there primarily to criminalize male-male sex. Though men and women can do it as well, it's usually seen as perverted. But primarily, the meaning is Anal sex, no matter what definitions have been grafted on to it later.
Unnatural is what is described. I generally assumed that to mean extreme or grotusque in the manner used. Not to mention if it is used to describe anal sex, that allows to be used for Homosexuals and Heterosexuals. Not just one.
Of course it does. But it was used to criminalize male-male sex. Especially in the south. Men and women were rarely prosecuted for such (presumably because it was done in the privacy of one's home, and procreative sex was considered to be the norm where man and women were concerned.)

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sodomy_laws_in_the_United_States
Sodomy laws. Not sodomy.