Shadowstar38 said:
When people who dont listen to metal think of what metal is, they think of this...
This is pleasing to my ears, but the vocalist doesnt sound like, you know, actual singing. And of course, hyper violent and all that shit.
They dont know about all the other types of bands out there. Its more of a pre-consived notion than anything else.
...which is kind of the point, as Dethklok is actually Comedy Metal. It's a partially fictitious band fictitiously made up of Black Metal dudes who ended up with a combined wealth greater than Switzerland's economy; and factually made up of the voice actors of "Metalocalypse" and some regular collaborators.
The character the singer is singing as is Nathan Explosion, a typical Black Metal vocalist who's lucky to have a peanut for a brain. Considering this, it would make perfect sense that he'd glorify ultraviolence because it's, well, brutal. And no true Dethklok fan (in-universe) would abide the thought of a Dethklok song not being brutal.
The best kind of Metal to show to detractors is Power Metal, provided you can get them to read the lyrics at the same time. Most people think shredding and pounding unilaterally leads to singing about demons and scantily-clad succubi and, well, generally everything that ends up in a typical Cradle of Filth song. Bands like Helloween, on the other end, are typically steeped in Tolkien-based hero worship and maintain a largely positive outlook on things. The same goes for Italian Metal (i.e. Rhapsody), where ending up with an operatic finish about some sort of epic clash between a single wizard against an entire army is fairly commonplace.
There's plenty of Metal subgenres that absolutely don't wallow in doom and gloom, but they naturally don't get much circulation. The mainstream media tends to give more attention to anything that's borderline Screamo or that makes Trent Reznor's melodramas look like a half-hour spent watching the Teletubbies.
As for the OP: who gives a damn, honestly? Keep liking what you like and let anyone stupid enough to condemn your tastes prattle on. Opinions are pretty hard to modify, and trying to get someone who's convinced Metal is all about eating babies in the name of Satan to think otherwise is a lost cause.
I've been there, man. An atheist who likes Metal? LE GASP! Thine soul is twice damned, young man!