What's your flirt tactic?
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I always walk up to girls I like and ask them 1 (and only 1) question about their lives. Most girl will just start talking and they dont't stop for about 2 hours. I just sit back and pretend to be listening. At the end of the night, they thank me for being such a great listener and they usually want to see me again.
Best Tactic EVARR.
Best Tactic EVARR.
Lock eyes, from across the room.
Down my drink, while the rhythms boom.
Take your hand and skip the names, no need here for the silly games.
Make our way through the smoke and crowd.
The club is the sky and I'm on your cloud.
AND I JIZZ IN MAH PAAAAAANTS!
(damnit I thought I'd get further in the song this time >_>)
Down my drink, while the rhythms boom.
Take your hand and skip the names, no need here for the silly games.
Make our way through the smoke and crowd.
The club is the sky and I'm on your cloud.
AND I JIZZ IN MAH PAAAAAANTS!
(damnit I thought I'd get further in the song this time >_>)
This is the best advice I have seen here. Very wise, my man, very wise!Killertje said:
I can tell you this, my ex wasn't the best looking guy in the world being overweight and whatnot BUT he looked very attractive because he was confident and comfortable with himself. In my eyes he became even more attractive the more time I spent with him (before we were even dating) because he knew what he wanted and didn't feel sorry for himself for being overweight and all that.
I came to this thread expecting to be the only person that fails miserably at flirting (which is why I don't). Nice to see I'm not.
There should be tips for the less talkative, introverted people as well. "Be funny" is hard to do when you don't like talking to begin with. Or your topic of interest (that you can talk about) doesn't interest the majority of people. The Pac man thing comes to mind.
Also, what to do if one doesn't like going to clubs or drinking? There has to be more than one person who dislike going to such socially-intensive places.
Just because one is introverted does not make one "a lone freak". We just have to do things differently. What to do, I'm still trying to figure that out.
Also, what to do if one doesn't like going to clubs or drinking? There has to be more than one person who dislike going to such socially-intensive places.
Just because one is introverted does not make one "a lone freak". We just have to do things differently. What to do, I'm still trying to figure that out.
I don't really flirt at all anymore. When I would, it was just being nice to them, ask them questions, and being honest with them--oh, and compliment them a lot, but with an almost amazed tone. Flirting usually wasn't to be with someone, but to get a friendship going that would hopefully lead to something more. After a while of getting to know each other, they'd often fall for me, or me for them. The downside of all of this was that, when it happened [liking each other], one would have to agree or disagree, and it would make the friendship awkward for me, and we'd eventually stop talking. Meh.
I have no need to flirt anymore, but with the person I'm with.
I have no need to flirt anymore, but with the person I'm with.
I'm a stand-up comedian, and if you have bits of your routine which deal with commonly discussed subjects, you can just bust out stand-up jokes in conversation. It makes you seem hilarious and you can easily segue from there either a: into other stand-up jokes or b: into the fact that stand-up is a hobby of yours. At least, that's my tactic at parties.
i walk straight up and say
"Hey babe you wanna be my dog? i can be your tree and you can pee on me"
"Hey babe you wanna be my dog? i can be your tree and you can pee on me"
Ideally. In reality, panic, mutter something and run away. I'm not good at these kind of things.
Start conversation about mutual friend/interest/whatever, then 'can I get you a drink' etc... You know, in an non-creepy, not overt way. In fact, I don't any more. I am engaged and I would get murdered if I went around doing that.
Hmm...pulse2 said:
I usually "pick up" girls on the dance floor.
Not to brag (well, maybe a little) but I'm one of the best dancers in my country so when I want to attract females, I simply go to the center of the floor and start dancing. seeing how I'm usually the best dancer in the club, 10 minutes later, there's bound to be at least 2 or 3 girls nearby. I especially like when I manage to catch one of them staring at my ass in the same horny way that a guy stares at a hot girl's ass. It's so cute when they blush and nervously turn their heads away to pretend as if they weren't looking
If i want to attract a specific girl, I start to dance near her, sometimes making subtle eye contact. If she responds, I get a little closer, smile at her, start dancing in a way that indicates that I want to dance with her. If she's shy (usually I go for ones that aren't but it happens), I take initiative and "go for the kill"
I tend not to go for girls that are stiff and can't dance so dance floors are my main area of flirt.
I tend to accidentally flrt with guys who are my friends by making lots of dirty joke and generaly teasing them, but then get really shy around guys I like. Well that is until I tell myself to man up and be natural. I admit it does need a little work I really need to get past the awkward stage and learn how to man up and go for it but I feel that I'm not awful at flirting.