What's Your Idea of a Good Date?

[SckizoBoy]

I am in complete disagreement.
I prefer to write it like I say it.

I'm sure we're all capable of saying twenty-fifth of September, twenty-thirteen... aren't we?! =_= *shrug*

OT: She's taking it like a ***** while I strangle her!

Ehm... to be fair, it depends on the context of the date. If it's a first date, then a good one is generally when I get to let loose a little of my crazy without completely scaring him/her off. If we've already been out for a while, then we'll just do whatever the hell we want and display our credentials for institutionalisation without a care in the world. Or, if the mood takes us, we'll do something utterly sedate. *shrug* Context, I guess...

Best date I went on started with watching a two hour play with only three actors just yapping to each other about theoretical physics and the Second World War. And it ended with smoking weed while talking environmental chemistry. There was a high quantity of fine wine and bit of reasonable steak in between. Eh...

 

[Cowabungaa]

There is laughter, there are smiles, fun is had and there is love both given and received.

And honestly, what we do exactly isn't that important to me. As long as I'm near my partner and especially the last three things are satisfied, I'm more than happy.

 

[Tahaneira]

Spending time in physical proximity with my partner.

Yeah, I've been doing the long distance thing. Manageable, but not entirely pleasant, so in all honesty my standards are pretty low. My girlfriend and I get to see each other every few months, so we usually just go out to dinner, maybe see a movie... various things. Since we don't get to see each other often, it's actually much better to just do some low-key, everyday things together as opposed to trying to put together some big, elaborate evening that'll be hell to organize and might fall apart anyways.

But as I said, I'm somewhat biased on this. Things may change when we get to living in close proximity to each other.

 

[stormeris]

No idea, never been on one.


Im so alone.

 

[Blow_Pop]

Date: Probably going to a park and acting like children or playing European Football even though I'm not very good at it anymore. Or staying at one person's home for home cooked meal(or take out) and movies/video games.

Romantic evening: Fairly similar for date. Only with candles! Because candles make everything romantic according to the movies right?

 

[thejackyl]

The activity of a date isn't as important to me as what happens on a date. If that doesn't make sense: Dinner, movie, bowling, bar hopping, whatever THAT part isn't important. What is important is how I connect with the person by the end of the night.

Personally I would rather go to a quiet activity on a first date so I can get to know the person. If there's no real chemistry, than okay, I might not have a girlfriend, but I'll probably have a new friend, and new friends means more opportunities to meet new people, which could lead to meeting another potential partner.

As for a date after I'm in an established relationship, I like to do things that we can't do at home, so unlike a LOT of gamers I would rather go out and go bowling, or to the bar, or ANYTHING than stay in and play video games, which I'm not saying that wouldn't be a good date.

 

[HoneyVision]

LONG

STIMULATING

SATISFYING

PLEASURABLE

CLIMACTIC




....but it really depends on the game you're playing doesn't it?

 

[HoneyVision]

When she ****** my ********* and then we ******* for hours. I ******* her **** ******* *** and then ****** all over her ******. Then cuddling.

My scenario:

When she brings my tea and and then we sip for hours. I bring her tea and then spill it all over her dress. Then cuddling.

Utter bliss.

 

[Images]

Wandering. That's the best. A day out kicks a fancy dinner's ass. You walk round somewhere, check out some quirky stores, look at some art, grab a bite to eat somewhere casual but nice, then make out in a park.

Winning.

 

[Evil Smurf]

Laughter, smiles, enough booze to get an elephant drunk and somewhere to crash for the night ;D

 

[FPLOON]

No idea, never been on one.


Im so alone.

This in a nutshell...

Anyway... Anything that feels like we're friends testing the waters in our relationship...
I'll supply the "special" porno known as "Batman XXX"...
And then... The rest is left to chance... (I don't know... I ain't no "romantic"...)


(On a unrelated note: I finally got a captcha question RIGHT! EVERYTHING'S COMING UP- "captcha error"? *sulks in the corner* So alone...)

 

[SuperSuperSuperGuy]

I have no clue. I don't spend much time with other people, let alone date; I've never gone out with anyone before. Whenever I do hang out with friends, it feels awkward and not all that satisfying.

That being said, I always enjoy a good discussion, especially if I get to teach someone about something. Perhaps a date which consists of a conversation and maybe some lunch would be best. Nothing big or dramatic. Just a small little casual thing. Maybe converse over a cartoon or anime or something, too. I dunno.

Or we could spend a couple hours just wandering about. I like wandering, though I generally like to wander about on my own. It's easier that way, and it give me time to simply think to myself.

 

[lacktheknack]

When she ****** my ********* and then we ******* for hours. I ******* her **** ******* *** and then ****** all over her ******. Then cuddling.

If I fill in these blanks:

beats
score
play
slam
air
hockey
puck
it explodes
table

...that's a good date.

 

[Bara_no_Hime]

What is your idea of a fun romantic evening?

Step 1) Get baby sitter who will take the kid overnight.
Step 2) Hotel Room - preferably one with a in-room hot-tub.
Step 3) Dinner at a nice restaurant.
Step 4) Watch a movie on my laptop in bed together.
Step 5) Several hours of love-making in a King-sized bed with no worries about the kid.

Alternatively:

Steps 1 and 2 as noted above.
Step 3) Go to nightclub.
Step 4) Dance with spouse and random others while getting tipsy (and watching everyone else get drunk.
Step 5) See where the evening goes
Step 6) ???
Step 7) Naked Hot-tubbing.

 

[Little Woodsman]

Everyone involved has a good time, and would like to do it again at some point.
If it is a 'sussing out if I want to be further romantically involved with this person/maybe life partner this person' kind of date it should also lead to you coming closer to a yea/nay conclusion on that point.

My last girlfriend & I always had great 'home' dates--I'd pick up groceries & bring my kid & we'd go to her place. We'd do something fun with the kids, have dinner (usually made together sometimes made just by me) & turn the kids over to the sitter (who's apartment was just across the hall from my gf's) & pursue some activities of a more adult nature. On the few occasions when we tried to go out somewhere (with or w/o the kids) it was always a disaster.

 

[Abomination]

My birthday or Christmas are pretty good dates.

I haven't dated in years. The last one I had was the best one in how I never dated again after it and I'm glad I didn't.

 

[Blindswordmaster]

My idea of a great date depends on how far you are into the relationship. I usually like to get coffee and talk on a first date. You know, gives you both a chance to feel each other out and get to know each other. If you're already in a relationship, then just go out and do something you both enjoy.