On no issue are the genders exactly equal. On feminism for example women dominate, not because men are stupid or insensitive, but because feminism is more central to women's lives. So by this analogy women are the "real feminists". This is a widely held belief, and results in male feminists not being treated as seriously as female feminists.Phasmal said:No gender are the `real gamers`. People who play games are.
Of course anyone can be a gamer. An alien, coming down to earth in 2014, who plays video games could be defined as a "gamer". That's an empirical reality, but there's a big difference in cultural history between an alien who plays earth video games and an earthling who is much more deeply invested in it.
What games *mean* to someone matters a lot. This differs by individual, but it also differs by gender, and by species in the case of the alien. Someone whose first game is Farmville and plays it to have some virtual interactions with friends is an extremely *different* gamer from one who has played thousands of video games from dozens of different sub-genres.
There are very serious very committed female gamers, just like there are very serious very committed male feminists. But the reason the stereotype of the "male gamer" and the "female feminist" exists is because those genders dominate those experiences.
An alien could also be a feminist, but you would most likely agree that it would be difficult for the alien to be taken seriously AS a feminist, due to a lack of cultural experience with humanity if nothing else.
Being inclusive is good. But being so committed to inclusivity that we ignore distinctions and differences between people is blindness masquerading as morality.
Female gamers have nothing to prove, just like male feminists have nothing to prove. But human logic dictates that in the absence of total knowledge stereotypes will be used to guide our ways of seeing the world. Therefore there is a bias toward respecting male gamers and female feminists. This is nothing either gender needs to apologize for, but the situation should be recognized both for what it is and for the reality that produced it.