Sung-Hwan said:
Theoretically, it's possible to make a politely phrased, perfectly agreeable, value neutral claim about how you feel more at home around fans like yourself, than with younger, or more casual fans, but that's so far from the attributes of "elitism" that people treat as inappropriate, that it's not worth talking about.
When you "hate" the "ignorant fans" who don't know as much about some obscure piece of entertainment as you do, you are definitely embodying the worst aspects of elitism.
NO. These are not ignorant people, just people who happen to have other priorities in life. There are plenty of things that I call myself a fan of, where "fan" means "I have watched it, liked it, dropped in it's forum threads a few times, read a fanfiction or two, moved on". Elitists are the people who think that it makes me the part of some unwashed mob, some shallow, brainless nuisance, that I spent the rest of my week studying for my exams, rather than memorizing all the obscure trivia of the show.
And I'm on the other side of the fence quite often, too. As a Visual Novel fan I see people drooling over Katawa Shoujo and recommending it everywhere because it's literally the only VN that they have read, I see debates between anime fans who have formed their analysis of the "style" based on five shows from the same specific genre and subgenre and those who watched hundreds, I see gamers complain about how there are only bland generic shooters nowadays.
And when correct them, or side with the more veteran side, or step aside and conclude that I can't meaningfully talk with these people, I sometimes get called an elitist. You know why these calls are wrong? Because even when I correct, ignore, or pick sides, I'm not assuming that the other side is "ignorant" filthy untermenschen, and I certainly don't "hate" them for it, I just assume that the guy with the shallow views on gaming culture might also be a connoisseur of sci-fi literature, and the writer of pro-quality Harry Potter fanfiction, that the guy who hasn't heard about many VNs before might be a skilled political analyst, or that the one who is unclear about the extents of anime styles is far better at putting together PC hardware than me.
Yes, it sucks when you are not on the same level of enthusiasm as other people arund you, but ultimately it's YOUR job to seek out those who are, instead of just lashing out at everyone around you for being too ignorant about your personal obsession.