ShadowsofHope said:
Polarity27 said:
trooper6 said:
Why all the hate? Sexism, Rockism, anti-Pop bias, and hipsterism.
That in a nutshell, especially the first item.
It's frustrating, because I think the amount of vitriol from adults directed to a teenage girl is disgusting. I can't remember her response to the death threats and misogynist slurs on Twitter, but I do remember that I thought it was pretty mature and sensible.
She makes pop music for tweens. It's not my kind of music, but I'm not her targeted audience, either. I think, if her attitude is that this is her moment and she's going to enjoy it while it lasts and ignore the haters, that it's a healthy response to the reception she's gotten and it may inspire some confidence in the young girls that are fans of her. I can't really see the harm.
(OTOH, there are some heavily autotuned songs that I absolutely adore ("Love Lockdown", for example), so I can't even see that as Teh Enemy.)
I'm not seeing the "Sexism" (simply saying "misogynist slurs" doesn't cut it anymore, both terms for men and women are so overused now - examples?) in that explanation, to be honest. Also, "Twilight Mom's" ring a bell? Mature aged women fawning at a teenage guy.. huh, no creep factor there, eh?
OT: I don't hate her, I just think her talent could use a massive amount of work, or stop using the auto-tuning so that we can
really see her supposed talent at work. Otherwise, I pay less attention to the music industry than most other industries and star-machines, so.. *Shrug*. Rarely crosses my mind.
The comments made about her on Youtube and also on Twitter, while they did include generic comments like "I hate you" or "You have no talent" or "I hope you commit suicide," they also were dominated by comments that targeted her on a gender basis. They included things like: You are a slut, You are a whore, I hope you get raped and murdered, I hope you get an eating disorder so you can look pretty.
These are sexist and misogynist comments. But also, the attacking of her is part of a larger stucture of sexism in our society that devalues things that women (especially girls) like while not similarly devaluing that men (especially boys) like. I regularly read and hear comments like: "You know Twilight Sucks because so many women like it" "you know Justin Bieber sucks because so many girls like him." "American Idol sucks...and only teenage girls like it." If men are acknowledged at all as part of these audiences, they are accused of being gay, adding homophobia to sexism.
Here are just three of the gazillion comments on the internet to this effect:
"Why Your Girlfriend has such bad Taste in Music"
http://www.quanology.org/why-your-girlfriend-has-such-bad-taste-in-music/
"Opinion: Women have worse taste in music than men"
http://boards.ign.com/teh_vestibule/b5296/178143320/p1
"Why Do Women Have Such Bad Taste in Music?"
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20071119033406AAGmKdp
Similar commentary are pervasive. And this is not new. It is a longstanding part of sexist discourse to discredit artists heavily associated with female audiences, related to a longstanding homophobic discourse discrediting male artists by associating them with femininity or homosexuality.
For example, the Composer Liszt was discredited by pointing out that he couldn't be a good composer because he had massive female audiences. Schubert was discredited by claiming his music was feminine. The crooners of the twenties like Gene Austin and Rudy Vallee were attacked viciously for their female audiences and for being effeminate. Same with twenties film heartthrob Rudolph Valentino. Frank Sinatra's early Columbia years when he had a heavy female audience is a time when he is dismissed, while his later Capital years when he cultivated a majority male audience is a time when he gets great praise for genius by critics (who are mostly male, by the way). This also happens with the Beatles (the albums associated with female audieces are dismissed, their albums with more heavily male audiences are praised), Elvis, and countless other artists. Justin Timberlake as part of N*Sync (with its perception of mainly a female audience) is roundly attacked, but now that he is doing "Dick in a Box" for the dudes, he's got cred back...cred for dudes.
You bring up Twilight...and much of the Twilight commentary is also sexist. It goes on about how Twilight is crap an only women could like it...you know, because women are stupid/sheep/have no taste/etc.
When I was 13 or so, I remember all the things my fellow 13 year old boys liked. Mostly metal...and metal with half naked women rolling around on cars. But nobody mocked any of that.
There are larger issues at stake. It is about the ease with which anything too closely associated with women and femininity is demonized as less than. And this manifested with adult men telling a 13 years old girl that she should be raped and she's a whore, causing her to cry and be freaked out because she did a karaoke song for fun and put it up on the internet.
ShadowsOfHope, you day you don't see the sexism. Right, I checked your profile, you are 19 year old guy. We live in a system with structural inequalities. These inequalities are based on numerous things: gender, sexuality, race, age, region, class, etc. The one of the ways that system is able to continue existing by making itself invisible. It is hard for people to see sexism, not because it doesn't exist, but because being subtle allows it to continuing to exist. Also it is hard for good people to accept that they are getting unfair advantage at the expense of other people. So, especially as a man, it is easier to imagine that men and women are treated equally and have equal chances and opportunity. If makes us feel a lot better to think that we are getting called on in class so much because we are smarter and better rather than that study after study shows that teachers (male and female) call on male students more than female students rather even when the same number of men and women raise their hands. I notice in your profile that you like psychology. There have been a lot of studies dealing with unconscious bias. We live in a culture that has decades of sexism, classism, regionalism, racism, nationalism, homophobia, etc all accrued and pervading everything. And that leads to a lot of unconscious bias. So maybe those people were telling a 13 year old girl she should be raped because they don't like autotune weren't being consciously sexist, but it this isn't about my trying to tell you you are a bad person. This is pointing out that you don't have Akon getting a bunch of comments saying she should be raped and that he's a whore because he used autotune or because someone doesn't like his songs.
There are larger structural societal issues. If we remain blind to them, we can't help bring about positive change for society. The terrible ganging up on Rebecca Black is simultaneously a real horrible thing to do to a 13 year old girl and also part of a larger structure of sexism and misogyny that we all live in, and that hurts everybody--men and women.