Why are Australians so ungrateful?

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aezakmi42

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Personally, I think that if everyday, boring old acknowledgements are less emphatic, then it magnifies the emphasis when genuine praise is given. For example, I can't stand this trend of describing everything as 'awesome', because it has deflated the meaning of the word to the point where it is bland and everyday. But if you usually only say 'thanks' or 'cheers', when somebody makes the effort to say a proper 'thank you' you know they mean it.

As to why Australians are prone to rationing out the praise, I really couldn't say. I have found, though, that us Australians naturally tend to be modest and reserved amongst ourselves, we don't go in for flowery ceremonies and carefully-observed rituals anywhere near as much as, for example, Arabic culture. If it works fine as-is, we reason, why go and put frills all over it? We also tend to be quite cynical; flowery, exaggerated praise almost always reads as insincerity or even sarcasm. Culturally, we resent and dislike 'fancyness', and crass displays of wealth. Perhaps flowery manners smack of 'upper-class': if there is one thing Australians hate, it is the idea of genuflection toward a 'higher class'.
 

aezakmi42

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Goddamn it, I went and wrote an essay, now I look like a right ponce. Ah well. On the subject, Australians have always admired their coarse, straightforward 'top bloke' self-image, maybe that's why we don't like fancy manners so much.
 

Gavmando

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Meh. It's just language. Just because I say cheers, doesnt mean i'm any less thankful. As long as the feeling and intention is there, does it really matter what the words are?

A rose by any other name and all that crap.

I personally like that we have a bazillion different words for thank you. And we even make up new ones when we feel like it! :D
 

Bloodeye

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Im Australian and ta and cheers is about right but I can't remember the last time I heard someone say 'you beauty'. Of course, that could just be because Im too lazy to actually go out and watch sports live.
 

Skreeee

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How is having different levels of thanks as far as language is concerned indicative of being ungrateful? If anything, to me, having more socially acceptable ways to say thanks without it seeming far too heartfelt (and therefore patronizing and annoying) or too uncaring of other people feelings/sacrfices seems like it would make the people of a culture MORE conscious of showing just how grateful they are to others.
 

CrashBang

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Ta, cheers and you beauty are all common phrases used in Britain as well.
And I always though Australians were extremely friendly, judging from one of Ross Noble's stand up DVDs where he talks about going to Australia with his wife (who's australian) and how this shop owner says "have a great day" instead of just "have a nice day". It's not much to go on but it's enough lol
 

Joshimodo

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I've never found Australians ungrateful. Ta and cheers are used throughout Britain too, as CrashBang said.

Australians would be up there in my top 5 list of friendliest people, to be honest.
 

Arkhangelsk

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Different cultures. For example, I live in Sweden, and there are huge cultural difference between us and Austrians (I was on vacation there not too long ago). If you go into a bus in Sweden, people are more keen on sitting alone. We are not used to, and don't in fact like, talking to strangers. In Austria, people will come and sit next to you, and ask how you are doing. They're social and polite, on the border that it's uncomfortable. Or maybe I'm just Swedish. Just feels uncomfortable to talk normally to strangers. Gives me a creepy feeling, like if they're going to follow me into an empty alley.
 

El Poncho

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Inarticulate_Underachiever said:
I dunno, you're all bitter because you lost The Ashes?
Ha how did I know someone was gonna bring it up sooner or later:p

I'm not sure about Australia, all I know is that if I don't say scones in an Australian accent when in Melbourne, I ain't gettin' a scone.
 

leet_chris

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MaxTheReaper said:
You started out as a penal colony, correct?
In prison, saying "thanks" is like wearing a sign that says "all shivs welcome."
no you mean "make me your *****" or " ill drop the soap when your ready"