Why are men attracted to lesbians?

[Risingblade]

Probably because you don't have to look at a penis while trying to "enjoy" the film.

 

[Terramax]

You're seeing the act of sex, but without another guy in the picture, instead replaced by another woman, hopefully equally as hot.

 

[FrozenCones]

Do lesbians "bang" eachother?

I thought they just, you know, scissor....

 

[HellbirdIV]

Yeah I'm throwing my wieght it behind basic consensus:

It just looks hot. There's no particular logic or reason to it. I find girls attractive. I find girls engaged in sexual or romantic situations appealing to look at or fantasize about. Put two - or more - girls together, doing the aforementioned, and it's just that - more of the same, and the same is good.

It seems kind of like an odd question to me though. I mean, I could ask... I guess...

Why are people into eating bananas?

I'm a people and I've never really enjoyed eating bananas. Can someone explain the appeal?

 

[terrangray]

Because love is beautiful and women are beautiful. So watching two beautiful women in love expressing that love in a beautiful way tugs at mens heart strings.
Because deep down men too have emotions and are attracted to love

 

[Evil Smurf]

Possibly because lesbians wouldn't actually be interested in them IRL.

Or they are afraid of naked guys.

Are you personally afraid of naked guys?

If you were on a bus, and you looked up and everyone else on the bus was a naked guy and they were all staring at you and not saying anything, would you be scared?

Spoiler: Also, the women you see in lesbian porn are most often straight.

Er, that doesn't necessarily follow. They are not behaving the way real lesbians normally would, yes, but that is not what they are being paid for. OTOH, statistically, yes.

If a naked man and a naked women were each drowning, and you could only save one, which one would it be?

 

[MrHide-Patten]

More boobs in one place and less dicks?

As far as peronal tastes go, I've never found the standard man and woman, or many men and woman very appealing to watch (and if I do I get bored very quickly). But I'm more voyeuristic, I'm watching this thing and picturing myself in the scenrio is a bit of a turn off. I look like a cross between Shrek, Jack Black and John Goodman... plus the stay puff marshmellow man. Yesh.

 

[IllumInaTIma]

One beautiful lady=Good
Two beautiful ladies=Very Good
Two beautiful ladies loving each other=Very Very Good

For me, it's as simple as that.
However, by that logic, I'm genuinely curious if females find gays attractive.

 

[DefunctTheory]

If a naked man and a naked women were each drowning, and you could only save one, which one would it be?

Is... is that the premise for a porno movie?

'Cause I'd watch it.

So, you decide to skip around that. Lose the man for a woman, go for twice the breasts and none of the balls and chesthair. Win-win, your penis is happy.

Never in my life have a seen a statement that so perfectly reflected upon my own soul.

However, by that logic, I'm genuinely curious if females find gays attractive.

I had a bi-sexual girlfriend who liked looking at gay guys having sex/kissing/so on. But she had a lot going on in the noggin though, if you know what I mean, so I'm not sure if thats true of all bisexuals, women, or whatever.

 

[Norithics]

There are plenty of different reasons you could like it, actually!

There's the aspect of something different, somebody with very foreign and exotic sexual experiences, the idea of getting to see something intimate with no competition of the same field, the list goes on!

As for me? As a bisexual male, I love lesbians! Where it gets a little embarrassing, however, is the fact that I'm really only nominally interested in the sexual aspect. What I really, really love is lesbian fluff. Like the freckly, gregarious farmgirl holding hands with the bespectacled geek, that kind of thing. I don't know what it is, and it makes me feel like the mirror universe version of a slash-fanfiction writing yaoi fangirl, but. I dunno! I just really like it, it's insanely adorable and fills me with warm fuzzies.

 

[kickyourass]

You're trying to apply logic to the human libido? Does the word Sisyphean mean anything to you?

But if you want a real answer, and this is talking purely about the sexual aspect, which I am assuming is what you're asking about, I'm gonna say it's kinda basic math. 1 hot woman doing sexual things is good, 2 hot women doing sexual things is better, see? Basic math.
Sure your brain probably knows all the logical things like 'real lesbians would probably never want anything to do with me sexually' and all the other stuff that just about everyone with two brain cells to rub together can figure out, but if you're watching that kinda stuff the logical part of your brain probably isn't working just then if you get my meaning.

There are plenty of different reasons you could like it, actually!

There's the aspect of something different, somebody with very foreign and exotic sexual experiences, the idea of getting to see something intimate with no competition of the same field, the list goes on!

As for me? As a bisexual male, I love lesbians! Where it gets a little embarrassing, however, is the fact that I'm really only nominally interested in the sexual aspect. What I really, really love is lesbian fluff. Like the freckly, gregarious farmgirl holding hands with the bespectacled geek, that kind of thing. I don't know what it is, and it makes me feel like the mirror universe version of a slash-fanfiction writing yaoi fangirl, but. I dunno! I just really like it, it's insanely adorable and fills me with warm fuzzies.

Aside from the bisexual bit (I'm straight) I agree with basically everything you said. It's the weirdest sense of mental dissonance when on the one hand I love lesbian porn, but if a fem-slash couple I really like is made into porn I'm usually repulsed by it. Is there a word for that? Cause I haven't found it yet.

 

[Godhead]

If a naked man and a naked women were each drowning, and you could only save one, which one would it be?

Well the man could be Hitler, and the woman could be abusing her children, and... Fuck, we're not going down this road again. This must never be brought up again.

OT: Four boobies are better than two, unless a pair of them is a fat guy's. But then I should probably get out of the porno shoot.

Watch your favorites anywhere: No captcha! Not on the bus!

 

[Abomination]

Because lesbians are still women?

Also wouldn't the "ultimate conquest" be converting a lesbian to cock?

 

[Saulkar]

If a naked man and a naked women were each drowning, and you could only save one, which one would it be?

Screw both of them! I would save the whirlpool, it sucks so gud!

EDIT: OT: Essentially it takes the penis out of the equation, some men straight just feel uncomfortable looking at it no matter how deep it is.

 

[thiosk]

the breast ratio doubles.

Huh. That is a remarkably accurate indicator.

 

[Scarim Coral]

I remember this contestant from Big Brother mention his attractness to lesbians. In his view, he liked lesbian because there is no "man" in the said love making like making out therefore he project himself as a mystery man who get to joined in with the lesbians. He doesn't watched it to see another guy getting the action, only himself.

 

[Jhonie]

One beautiful lady=Good
Two beautiful ladies=Very Good
Two beautiful ladies loving each other=Very Very Good

For me, it's as simple as that.
However, by that logic, I'm genuinely curious if females find gays attractive.

While I wish to point out that voyeristic tendencies isn't as common in women as it is in men(testosterone thing I guess, feels like I'm intruding) it is true that a lot of women do find gays attractive, myself included. Not only because of the whole "two guys banging each other" sexyness factor, but also (quite possibly mostly) because the gay stereotype portrays him as always being well dressed, respectful and having excellent manners, all things most women look for in a man. "All the good guys are either taken or gay" - not too unusual saying in girl community. Something to think about

 

[KingsGambit_v1legacy]

Regardless of the fact that the man isn't involved, on the basis that he likes looking at women, looking at two and further, two in the context of sexual arousal, is going to be a turn on. But this has already been answered by TV more accurately than anyone else can hope to match.

Jeff said it best in Coupling:

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[Norithics]

Aside from the bisexual bit (I'm straight) I agree with basically everything you said. It's the weirdest sense of mental dissonance when on the one hand I love lesbian porn, but if a fem-slash couple I really like is made into porn I'm usually repulsed by it. Is there a word for that? Cause I haven't found it yet.

Gah, I know! I don't know what it is, but there's something to it. I guess not totally porn, but if it's done weird and distastefully, in a way that seems unfitting for the characters, my brain just rejects it outright.

Also wouldn't the "ultimate conquest" be converting a lesbian to cock?

Aaand again bisexual people are utterly invisible, because you wouldn't be 'converting' anything; just introducing a new experience to somebody.

 

[Gameguy20100]

For the same reason girls write gay fan-fiction ( which is about 40% of fanfiction oddly)

I think its just the idea of two people of the same gender and both being physically attractive.

But then I don't get turned on by anything so I don't really know 100% OP