Why are people so afraid of words?

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Bob_Dobb

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Legit101 said:
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Legit101 said:
"Hey ****" is a generally accepted greeting in Australia.
Haha, seriously? If I ever try it out and get my head smashed in I'll be blaming you.
Not all people may take it as lightly as some do... haha.
Australia, the only country where you can start a sentence with "Fuck off" and it sounds normal.
 

ShadowsofHope

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The more people censor and fear certain words, the more stigma that those words will have in a social setting due to "taboo". The opposite is also true, such as the acceptance of words such as "fuck", or "shit", or "*****" in the media and books in our modern society. And while these words may hold meaning that be offensive to some people, being "offended" by these words is an entirely personal stance and such "offense" has no right to force other people not to use the words because they feel like they deserve not to be offended in their day-to-day life. Of course, however, there are just some words that you plainly don't use to address certain individuals in society (like calling a black person a ******).

Not to say that social manners take a trip out the window here, but words only have as much meaning (negative or positive) as you ascribe to them. Otherwise, they are just a string of sounds.
 

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Well on another forum you'll get permabanned for using words like n*gger.

I know, it's stupid. Even if they are used in a non-offensive way

I don't know if it's the same thing here so i'm just not gonna say them.
 

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On the one hand, yes, words shouldn't be hurtful, they are only as powerful as you let them be an all. Which is fine in theory.

But, c'mon, everyone gets hurt or offended by words to some extent every so often. Sure, they only have the power we given them, but we've given them an awful lot of power. Racist/sexist slurs are there for the purpose of hurting people, in the pervasive belief that they are less than.

Sure, in an enlightened society free of prejudice, such words would presumably lose their power. But the thread is likely to come to an end before we reach that point.
 

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Lukeje said:
There are reasons for not wanting such words in the titles of threads (it might give the wrong impression of the sight to advertisers and potential new members), but I don't understand self censorship within the threads. The Escapist has never had a no-swearing policy as far as I'm aware.
It doesn't? Fuck, that's news to me!

Seriously though, I genuinely thought there was some sort of no-swearing policy because everyone on here is so polite compared to other forums I frequent.
 

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I've just been browsing this thread:

http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/read/18.316255-Poll-Which-is-the-most-offensive-N-word-or-C-word?page=1

and the number of people who are afraid to just write words out is astonishing. As several people on that thread have pointed out, words hold no intrinstic offensive value; it is how words are used and received that make them offensive.

For example, I see nothing wrong with asking 'Which word is more offensive, **** or ******?' because I'm not directing those words at anyone in particular, nor am I using them in an insulting context. However, I wouldn't use the word ****** when addressing or describing someone, as that could easily offend. Again, I see no problem with that last sentence because it's not directed at anyone in particular, it's just an example.

So why are people so very afraid to write down words in order to discuss them? Is it simply the fear of offending someone, or is there more to it than that?
because people have been bullied by PC nazis for over a decade, of course they would be afraid of the lynching that seems to follow so much as the thought of those words.
 

Gyrohelix

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Fear of offensive words is illogical, people put power in them where there is none.

Way Off-Topic: How do i start a thread?
 

Techno Squidgy

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b3nn3tt said:
I've just been browsing this thread:

http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/read/18.316255-Poll-Which-is-the-most-offensive-N-word-or-C-word?page=1

and the number of people who are afraid to just write words out is astonishing. As several people on that thread have pointed out, words hold no intrinstic offensive value; it is how words are used and received that make them offensive.

For example, I see nothing wrong with asking 'Which word is more offensive, **** or ******?' because I'm not directing those words at anyone in particular, nor am I using them in an insulting context. However, I wouldn't use the word ****** when addressing or describing someone, as that could easily offend. Again, I see no problem with that last sentence because it's not directed at anyone in particular, it's just an example.

So why are people so very afraid to write down words in order to discuss them? Is it simply the fear of offending someone, or is there more to it than that?
For my post in that thread, fear of the ban hammer. 4 out of 5 times, I mean no offense when I call someone any kind of insult. The more friendly I am with someone the more likely I am to insult them. My best friends suffer abuse that probably breaks the rules of the Geneva Convention...
 

C. Cain

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It doesn't? Fuck, that's news to me!

Seriously though, I genuinely thought there was some sort of no-swearing policy because everyone on here is so polite compared to other forums I frequent.
There is such a policy. Sort of: http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/codeofconduct
But it's apparently incredibly lax.
 

Techno Squidgy

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You couldn't just swap the words around. "OI, PIANO!" certainly doesn't have the same effective as "OI, DICK!" Piano just lacks the necessary punch. The reason Dick, fuck and **** are all so effective as swear words is the pure impact of the words. They kind of explode out of your mouth in a way that other words just don't.
 

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Lukeje said:
There are reasons for not wanting such words in the titles of threads (it might give the wrong impression of the sight to advertisers and potential new members), but I don't understand self censorship within the threads. The Escapist has never had a no-swearing policy as far as I'm aware.
ha!
no swearing policy on the escapist
'wipes tear of amusement'
 

Lukeje

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The Lugz said:
Lukeje said:
There are reasons for not wanting such words in the titles of threads (it might give the wrong impression of the sight to advertisers and potential new members), but I don't understand self censorship within the threads. The Escapist has never had a no-swearing policy as far as I'm aware.
ha!
no swearing policy on the escapist
'wipes tear of amusement'
Do you have an example of someone being banned for swearing?

Edit: I may have misinterpreted your post. Apologies if I have.
 

C. Cain

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Lukeje said:
Do you have an example of someone being banned for swearing?
Uhm, I rather doubt an example will be forthcoming. Methinks he finds the mere notion of a no swearing policy as such ridiculous. Hence his amusement.
 

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C. Cain said:
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Do you have an example of someone being banned for swearing?
Uhm, I rather doubt an example will be forthcoming. Methinks he finds the mere notion of a no swearing policy as such ridiculous. Hence his amusement.
Ah, I may have misinterpreted then. Editing...
 

C. Cain

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Lukeje said:
Ah, I may have misinterpreted then. Editing...
Yeah, I can't read his mind, though. But that's how I read it. Maybe you should wait for him to clarify?
 

The Lugz

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Lukeje said:
The Lugz said:
Lukeje said:
There are reasons for not wanting such words in the titles of threads (it might give the wrong impression of the sight to advertisers and potential new members), but I don't understand self censorship within the threads. The Escapist has never had a no-swearing policy as far as I'm aware.
ha!
no swearing policy on the escapist
'wipes tear of amusement'
Do you have an example of someone being banned for swearing?

Edit: I may have misinterpreted your post. Apologies if I have.
apparently i wasn't as clear as i had imagined, i meant that considering the level of swearing found in the content the escapist produce, and the amount of swearing in the forums is rather high :)
the idea of a no swearing policy deeply amused me
it was indeed intended to be somewhat hyperbolous
 

Lukeje

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C. Cain said:
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Ah, I may have misinterpreted then. Editing...
Yeah, I can't read his mind, though. But that's how I read it. Maybe you should wait for him to clarify?
Yeah, that's why my edit leaves him room to reply if I was right with my initial assesment.
 

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With me it's just that it's been drilled into my head since I was a kid to not say those words. Swear words I can get past, and have no issue swearing in text form. But there's a mental block keeping me from typing out racial slurs, no matter the context, that I just can't get past.