Of course, but when you have the name Saint Cynicism I couldn't pass that up. Although theoreticly almost any ism could be reduced to anti something.
Feminism: anti womens' inequality
Optimism: anti pessimism
Pessimism: anti optimism
Paedobaptism: anti unbaptized infants
Republicanism: anti...goverments that aren't a rebuplic
Well some of them are pretty hard. Look at this one, Zootheism: attribution of divine qualities to animals. I guess...anti...non divine animals?
Edit: Slightly relevant to this thread, check out the Colbert Report from this night, pretty ridiculous.
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And yes, sex sells. Its not even something I'm going to argue, it is simple marketing fact.
YES there are still games, anime, manga, movies, commercials that DON'T use sex to sell product, that doesn't mean the point is invalid altogether.
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To be fair, very few people are going to buy a game just because it has tits in it, but when they see the advertisement, that is definitely something that effects their decision whether they realize it or not.
It is a marketing fact?
"But if you look at movies, OTHER games, manga, anime, and commercials, you see an overwhelming support of what I have said." Really?
Let's take a look at games:
Xbox: Halo 2
Xbox 360: Halo 3
PS 2: Grand Theft Auto: San Andreas
PS 3: Gran Turismo 5
SNES: Super Mario World
PC : The Sims
Which of this games were advertised using "Sex sells"? And if they were can you proof that they sold so good because of "Sex sells"?
What about the other games on this list: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_best-selling_video_games
All your post sounds like is "Everyone knows 'sex sells'", but where are the facts? Where are the top selling "sex sells" advertised games? They are clearly outnumbered by other games.
Torrasque said:
If you look at fighting games for example, female fighters are very likely to be wearing skimpy outfits, tight clothing, and have huge knockers.
Thats just how marketing works, and you can try to find a guy that would rather have Chun Li, Taki and Morrigan in modest clothing, but you will fail.
Hello, I am that guy!
For example in Guild Wars female Rangers have the choice between a bikini and a lot of more sensible fighting attires: I will never wear the bikini in fights, but when sitting at the beach in Fisherman's Haven I might wear it, because that is the only place where the bikini fits in.
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And yes, sex sells. Its not even something I'm going to argue, it is simple marketing fact.
YES there are still games, anime, manga, movies, commercials that DON'T use sex to sell product, that doesn't mean the point is invalid altogether.
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To be fair, very few people are going to buy a game just because it has tits in it, but when they see the advertisement, that is definitely something that effects their decision whether they realize it or not.
It is a marketing fact?
"But if you look at movies, OTHER games, manga, anime, and commercials, you see an overwhelming support of what I have said." Really?
Let's take a look at games:
Xbox: Halo 2
Xbox 360: Halo 3
PS 2: Grand Theft Auto: San Andreas
PS 3: Gran Turismo 5
SNES: Super Mario World
PC : The Sims
Which of this games were advertised using "Sex sells"? And if they were can you proof that they sold so good because of "Sex sells"?
What about the other games on this list: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_best-selling_video_games
All your post sounds like is "Everyone knows 'sex sells'", but where are the facts? Where are the top selling "sex sells" advertised games? They are clearly outnumbered by other games.
Torrasque said:
If you look at fighting games for example, female fighters are very likely to be wearing skimpy outfits, tight clothing, and have huge knockers.
Thats just how marketing works, and you can try to find a guy that would rather have Chun Li, Taki and Morrigan in modest clothing, but you will fail.
Hello, I am that guy!
For example in Guild Wars female Rangers have the choice between a bikini and a lot of more sensible fighting attires: I will never wear the bikini in fights, but when sitting at the beach in Fisherman's Haven I might wear it, because that is the only place where the bikini fits in.
FPS games are exempt from the "sex sells" rule because there are usually no females in the game.
Halo has fems, but CoD, MoE, BF, etc. don't have fems at all.
So sex doesn't sell for these games, simply because its a massive cockfest.
San Andreas: You can go to the strip club. There are hookers in the game.
You ever hear of the saying "sex, drugs, and alcohol" ?
Every single GTA game is built on that saying, and OH HEY! What comes first? Sex!
Gran Turismo: You don't even see humans in the game besides the heads of your driver. Covered by a helmet.
Imo, I think a hot girl would drive my car better than a guy.
Super Mario world: It's core demographic is children. Its meant to be childish.
Sims: Ok, now you're just picking ANY fucking game you can think of.
I don't even consider Sims to be a game, its such a waste of time and space.
"My life is boring. I will play a game that simulates LIFE because my life is boring as fuck. That will stimulate my life! WOO HOO!"
You are the reason that I try to avoid saying absolute arguments like "all douchebags are douchebags" or "all retards that argue against principles that have been agreed upon to be FACT, are retards". Because you need to find ONE counter-example, and suddenly my point is completely invalid eh?
I can think of at least 10 games to each of your games, that support my claim. But I'm not going to.
I'm going to wait and see what bullshit comes from your mouth next.
Nothing destroys an argument more, than the person themselves saying how shitty their argument is.
People are not against feminism in gaming. They are against feminists full stop.
Because femnazis dont understand the difference between humour and a attack against women.
Duke Nukem goes from this obvious self parody and gets turned into this evil propaganda game thats designed to make men treat women like property.
Besides, games are cheaper than your girlfriend. What is wrong with stating a fact?
Oh and white males are the core audience so it would be stupid to not make games with them in mind.
Besides, women get their panties in a twist over damn near every female character that is hotter than they will ever be. How many times you heard a dude ***** because the male protagonist is a walking slab of muscle instead of a glasses wearing, unkempt, cheeto covered, fat bastard?
In short. Males have to deal with bullshit in games too. We just whine less.
Not so much bothered by how attractive the women in games are (being bisexual might be the cause of that)just at how dumb they are sometimes. About how angry I am at men in games being dumb sometimes. It's just that women in games tend to be dumb more often than men in games. Also, there is a significant amount of utterly useless women in games, whereas men in games don't do that so much. So, personally, I find the Capture the Babe minigame in Duke Nukem objectionable because the woman in it is being utterly useless. It might score some points back if player characters can elect to be women too. Still, a human being being effectively the ball in a sports game is kind of degrading in itself, no matter how you depict it. But whatevs, that shit is going to happen in a Duke Nukem game. It would be better if players could play as women.
This is exactly what most guys are sick of. You whine that something is offenssive that it should be equal, instead of going on with your life you take time to complain. Most of us guys play games that consist of stupid things we cant do in real life. Its a gettaway, and your complaining about it is exactly the thing some guys try to escape from and playing games you call sexist is fun, doesnt mean it teaches us to treat women like that, its a game thats completly not real, so why the fuck do most girls get offended that guys say stuff? Why can you just be mature enough to know that sometimes we want to be immature and we cant do that when women will knit pick at every little thing we say. Just ignore what you dont like and if you dislike something dont fucken buy it. But bitching about while being the minority demographic geared mostly for males is just pissing guys off because were sick of bending our recreation likes to whatyou femi nazis want.
Whoa, whoa, whoa. Lots of hostility here. It's not like it's even that big a blip on my radar. You need to calm down sir.
I was just trying to explain how I felt about the situation, and it's mostly gender neutral. I just prefer a little more intellect in my characters. More power to you if you prefer low-to-no intelligence in and behind your characters, doesn't bother me. I probably wasn't going to play Duke Nukem or any of the things you like anyways, because they cater to people who prefer things like you do as opposed to people who prefer things like I do. At the end there I was just trying to suggest a possible solution to the offensive nature of one of the minigames, which in all honesty might not detract that much from the title or the minigame itself. (I mean, come on. Lesbian implications hardly ever go wrong in the straight male demographic)
Anyways, "taking the time to complain" as you put it isn't so much a hassle for me, as is implied, as another element of entertainment. I debate on forums like these because I enjoy the challenge of putting together coherent arguments in the hopes of swaying others to agree with me, or getting said others to pose some information that I can learn from and will sway me towards their beliefs.
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And yes, sex sells. Its not even something I'm going to argue, it is simple marketing fact.
YES there are still games, anime, manga, movies, commercials that DON'T use sex to sell product, that doesn't mean the point is invalid altogether.
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To be fair, very few people are going to buy a game just because it has tits in it, but when they see the advertisement, that is definitely something that effects their decision whether they realize it or not.
It is a marketing fact?
"But if you look at movies, OTHER games, manga, anime, and commercials, you see an overwhelming support of what I have said." Really?
Let's take a look at games:
Xbox: Halo 2
Xbox 360: Halo 3
PS 2: Grand Theft Auto: San Andreas
PS 3: Gran Turismo 5
SNES: Super Mario World
PC : The Sims
Which of this games were advertised using "Sex sells"? And if they were can you proof that they sold so good because of "Sex sells"?
What about the other games on this list: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_best-selling_video_games
All your post sounds like is "Everyone knows 'sex sells'", but where are the facts? Where are the top selling "sex sells" advertised games? They are clearly outnumbered by other games.
Torrasque said:
If you look at fighting games for example, female fighters are very likely to be wearing skimpy outfits, tight clothing, and have huge knockers.
Thats just how marketing works, and you can try to find a guy that would rather have Chun Li, Taki and Morrigan in modest clothing, but you will fail.
Hello, I am that guy!
For example in Guild Wars female Rangers have the choice between a bikini and a lot of more sensible fighting attires: I will never wear the bikini in fights, but when sitting at the beach in Fisherman's Haven I might wear it, because that is the only place where the bikini fits in.
FPS games are exempt from the "sex sells" rule because there are usually no females in the game.
Halo has fems, but CoD, MoE, BF, etc. don't have fems at all.
So sex doesn't sell for these games, simply because its a massive cockfest.
San Andreas: You can go to the strip club. There are hookers in the game.
You ever hear of the saying "sex, drugs, and alcohol" ?
Every single GTA game is built on that saying, and OH HEY! What comes first? Sex!
Gran Turismo: You don't even see humans in the game besides the heads of your driver. Covered by a helmet.
Imo, I think a hot girl would drive my car better than a guy.
Super Mario world: It's core demographic is children. Its meant to be childish.
Sims: Ok, now you're just picking ANY fucking game you can think of.
I don't even consider Sims to be a game, its such a waste of time and space.
"My life is boring. I will play a game that simulates LIFE because my life is boring as fuck. That will stimulate my life! WOO HOO!"
You are the reason that I try to avoid saying absolute arguments like "all douchebags are douchebags" or "all retards that argue against principles that have been agreed upon to be FACT, are retards". Because you need to find ONE counter-example, and suddenly my point is completely invalid eh?
I can think of at least 10 games to each of your games, that support my claim. But I'm not going to.
I'm going to wait and see what bullshit comes from your mouth next.
Nothing destroys an argument more, than the person themselves saying how shitty their argument is.
Sounds like it was just a joke. people make much much more offensive jokes in comedy, usually yes they are less one sided. but people who get offended by the above needs to develop a sense of humour.
People are not against feminism in gaming. They are against feminists full stop.
Because femnazis dont understand the difference between humour and a attack against women.
Duke Nukem goes from this obvious self parody and gets turned into this evil propaganda game thats designed to make men treat women like property.
Besides, games are cheaper than your girlfriend. What is wrong with stating a fact?
Oh and white males are the core audience so it would be stupid to not make games with them in mind.
Besides, women get their panties in a twist over damn near every female character that is hotter than they will ever be. How many times you heard a dude ***** because the male protagonist is a walking slab of muscle instead of a glasses wearing, unkempt, cheeto covered, fat bastard?
In short. Males have to deal with bullshit in games too. We just whine less.
Not so much bothered by how attractive the women in games are (being bisexual might be the cause of that)just at how dumb they are sometimes. About how angry I am at men in games being dumb sometimes. It's just that women in games tend to be dumb more often than men in games. Also, there is a significant amount of utterly useless women in games, whereas men in games don't do that so much. So, personally, I find the Capture the Babe minigame in Duke Nukem objectionable because the woman in it is being utterly useless. It might score some points back if player characters can elect to be women too. Still, a human being being effectively the ball in a sports game is kind of degrading in itself, no matter how you depict it. But whatevs, that shit is going to happen in a Duke Nukem game. It would be better if players could play as women.
This is exactly what most guys are sick of. You whine that something is offenssive that it should be equal, instead of going on with your life you take time to complain. Most of us guys play games that consist of stupid things we cant do in real life. Its a gettaway, and your complaining about it is exactly the thing some guys try to escape from and playing games you call sexist is fun, doesnt mean it teaches us to treat women like that, its a game thats completly not real, so why the fuck do most girls get offended that guys say stuff? Why can you just be mature enough to know that sometimes we want to be immature and we cant do that when women will knit pick at every little thing we say. Just ignore what you dont like and if you dislike something dont fucken buy it. But bitching about while being the minority demographic geared mostly for males is just pissing guys off because were sick of bending our recreation likes to whatyou femi nazis want.
Whoa, whoa, whoa. Lots of hostility here. It's not like it's even that big a blip on my radar. You need to calm down sir.
I was just trying to explain how I felt about the situation, and it's mostly gender neutral. I just prefer a little more intellect in my characters. More power to you if you prefer low-to-no intelligence in and behind your characters, doesn't bother me. I probably wasn't going to play Duke Nukem or any of the things you like anyways, because they cater to people who prefer things like you do as opposed to people who prefer things like I do. At the end there I was just trying to suggest a possible solution to the offensive nature of one of the minigames, which in all honesty might not detract that much from the title or the minigame itself. (I mean, come on. Lesbian implications hardly ever go wrong in the straight male demographic)
Anyways, "taking the time to complain" as you put it isn't so much a hassle for me, as is implied, as another element of entertainment. I debate on forums like these because I enjoy the challenge of putting together coherent arguments in the hopes of swaying others to agree with me, or getting said others to pose some information that I can learn from and will sway me towards their beliefs.
When someone takes offense to a certain product because of what it contains eg duke nukem who is just stupid fun even though its made for audiance who just love it for shits and giggles, 9/10 times are not being objective when criticizing or recommending changes. Put it simply feminazis are usaully never objective when it comes to things they deem offenssive, and want it changed. Everything done will always offend someone no matter what you do, so why bother trying to cater to every minority of the margin who wont ever even buy it to begin with? Take fox news for example i doubt they ever played the games they critisize and demand they be changed, so why would any developer change its product based up a smal percent that more likely wont ever even purchase its product? As a male who was raised to respect women and treat them with curtisy in other words gentleman, but i ask what for after 10 years i ask why? Thetr are alot of Women dont respect men, even those that treat them well. And you can see why some guys want to enjoy what we do on our time without having to constantly edit it because someone may find it offensive. Hell what us guys often think about is offensive, thats what this blows down to is small percent getting offended
The world is a bit bigger than the continental US, sorry to say. Have you considered that the "raped while walking to school" bit may cover, oh I don't know, the entire world? And that the national stat for rape in the US is believed to be significantly higher than reported due to the fact that most rape is never reported?
Just keep digging your hole. You're free to cling to your misogynistic, privileged beliefs all you want, but it does not change the fact that feminism is a desperately needed force even in modernized countries.
No offense boss but, you're being a bit of a twerp.
That video is intentionally dishonest and misleading. It quotes statistics from the World at large alongside those from the UK whilst making no distinction in how bad each respectively is; effectively equating women in the UK with women in the most backwards and deprived places on our entire planet. That is outrageous to the women in 3rd World countries and is unbelievably demeaning toward their plight.
It also makes no mention of injustices and abuse that men suffer at the hands of women.
As for penetrative rape; it can only be committed by a man and, as a vagina is generally the preferred orifice, is in most cases perpetrated upon a woman. This is a crime that is almost impossible for one half of our society to commit, so that means the other half is sexist? No, it does not. It means that there are criminals out there, something I'd assume you will accept.
Is a black person who robs from a white family racist? Is the reverse true? Or is it simply down to the fact that the victim has something the perp wants?
The video reels off lots of crimes committed against women, implicitly implying that the motivation for them, one and all, is sexism. That is patently absurd. These are behavioural issues, not sexist ones.
I'm not saying these issues do not exist or that those victims do not need support, but why do these victims need special treatment over other victims? Why is a women who is abused more worthy of treatment than a man? Why is a man who is contemplating suicide scorned in favour of a woman who has been raped? Why is a man killed in an uprovoked attack in a dark alley worth less than a woman killed by an ex partner?
Edit: Ahhrg! The video is ostensibly about equality and yet the major emotional buttons it pushes have absolutely nothing to do with it. The lists of crimes where women are the victim, what have they to do with equality? Are there not lists of crimes that men fall victim too? They have as much claim to be about equality as these; there are also probably more of them.
The only things about equality that it touches upon are sexual license, something which they're a bit out of touch with (women have generally slept with more men than men have women), the wage gap (something the veracity of which I am extremely dubious about) and pregnancy for working women.
Firstly, pregnancy is an inherently unequal topic.
Second, a woman can choose to not get pregnant whilst building a career.
Thirdly, the video falsely implies that the 30,000 jobs women lose per year are each individually equal to a man's career.
Fourthly, how would you protect a "pregnant woman's job security system" from being abused by serially pregnant women?
Fifthly, how do you equate a several month long paid holiday to the remainder of the workforce who have to work the entire time, whilst possibly managing someone elses workload as well as their own? Or to the employer who has to employ a worker who does no work, whilst possibly having to employ an extra one to make up for her absence? Or to the men who have no chance of getting this paid holiday to begin with? This is the real sticker; depressingly complex and it would take up loads time and effort, of which I'm not willing to give.
Nobody is claiming that the motivation for rape or other injustices perpetrated against women is sexism; you don't do it saying "Oh hey, I'm going to be sexist today." They're a result of sexism permeating Western culture, which values women less than men and judges them more harshly - of course it's the other way around in some cases, but those are easily the vast minority of scenarios.
The point of the video is to make viewers honestly consider the fact: Are men and women equal in supposedly modern, progressive societies? That is its entire goal, and even if it does get facts wrong - which I'm skeptical it does - or misrepresent them, it is doing so with the intention of getting you, the viewer, to consider that question honestly and without a knee-jerk dismissal.
The answer is "no," of course.
And the other points are, in fact, points of equality. Women are far more likely to be abused or killed by a romantic partner than the other way around. Domestic violence cases overwhelmingly have women as the victim, etc. Those are issues of equality regardless of how they're phrased.
Come off it, the video manipulates the viewer into one answer and one answer only; it does the opposite of promoting consideration and shocks the viewer into seeing things the way it wants them to be seen. It does exactly the opposite of what you're saying; it promotes a knee jerk response of "no, they're not equal".
Going back to crimes committed against women; you're looking at it with a biased view. You look to see a female victim and she becomes the most important part; therefore the crime happens because she's a woman and you find reasons behind that. That's just wrong. Crimes aren't about victims, they're about criminals; the victim is almost irrelevant.
I articulated badly when talking about rape before, implying that it can only be committed on a woman by a man, this is obviously untrue. I was just trying to explore male on female rape; something that happens more often because more men are dominant than women and that most men are attracted to women. Men can also directly orgasm from committing rape whilst women cannot, something that definitely skews the numbers. If the numbers of straight and gay men were reversed then the same would happen to the numbers of straight and gay rape committed by men.
The crimes that individuals commit, that aren't crimes of passion, are nearly all done via a self justification; the criminal has an inferiority complex and convinces himself that he deserves whatever it is that he wants, that the victim doesn't deserve having whatever it is. So, he's justified in taking it or inflicting whatever it is upon the victim. The criminal does it to make himself feel better, not to make the victim feel worse.
There is no "women are inherently less valuable than men". The criminal just differentiates himself from the victim, s/he has had it rough and deserves better whilst the victim has had it all good and doesn't deserve the good that s/he has. Whatever sets the perp and victim apart is used as justification; whether that be race, sex, sexuality, affluence or social status.
In other words, it's not that the victim is worse than the perp but that the perp is better than the victim and everyone else who isn't just like him.
You then bring up spousal abuse, again something which isn't confined to man on woman. It is therefore not an equality issue, it's a behavioural one.
Straight off the bat half the cases of male on female violence are instigated by women, so you can scrub those.
The remainder of the cases are abuse; just abuse. Serial abuse will near always have the dominant partner be the lone money earner with the submissive victim as a stay at home parent, the property will be in the name of the dominant partner. The money will be in an account controlled by the dominant partner. If it's man on woman he is also confident that he is physically more powerful than the woman; even if that isn't the case the dominant knows that the submissive will just take it. The dominant partner also probably hates their life; whether it be through things like work, stress or social problems. They also hate their partner for not having to deal with any of the crap that they feel that they have to deal with; so they take it out on that partner.
This is abuse of power, it has nothing to do with equality or the lack of it.
Finally, women are judged more than men? Sorry, what? Maybe UK and US culture is more different than I thought but the only judgement on women here is on attractiveness, that's it. Anything else is taken as it comes. This is one of the major advantages of being a woman, there aren't any expectations. They're allowed to be weak but not expected to be. Men have far more judgements made on them than women ever do, and far more expectations. Ever read Rudyard Kiplings If?
I'm sorry, but that you think this - that you can even for an instant actually blame "half the cases of male on female violence" on the victims - just illustrates all the more the need for videos like this one.
You seem like an intelligent fellow. Please educate yourself on this matter, because it's all too unfortunate when intelligent people support and propagate an unhealthy, unequal and dangerous status quo.
For my own sake I'm going to take the fact that you ignore the points I try to raise and concentrate on one mildly flippant remark as a sign that you are at least considering them.
As for that remark, let's explore it. Do I blame the "victim"? There are several points, I'll try to be as concise as possible.
Firstly, I did not and do not put all the blame on one party.
Secondly, some blame is on the woman. This is something that really gets my goat about some feminists, they seem to shirk responsibility at every opportunuity. Yes, society has for the last thousand years or so had all the responsibility fall on the man; that has been one of his roles. Now, with equal rights, that should no longer be the case. You want equal rights? Then stand up and take responsibility for the things you should. With rights come responsibility.
Thirdly, women are very good at insulting people and hurting feelings. It has been shown consistently that women, in general, have better language skills and are better able to use and understand emotions than men.
Alongside this runs the issue that within male culture an argument starts with insults and then, when serious enough, goes to physical violence. A fight breaks out and the argument is sorted out that way.
Women do not, as a rule, go to physical violence. Arguments between women involve increasingly hurtful comments and emotional manipulation.
Put these together and you get a man who is out argued and emotionally compromised by someone innately better at doing this than he. He then cannot do what he would if it were another man taunting him and smack her; you can't hit a woman afterall. He has to keep taking the insults until, eventually and inevitably, he snaps. (Edit: The more often this happens the shorter his fuse gets.)
Fourthly, yes of course blame falls on the man too. You are already more than happy to assume full blame goes here so I won't bother exploring this.
Fifthly, these relationships are destructive. Both partners know it; both partners continue on. The husband knows doing a certain something will enrage his wife; the wife intentionally picks arguments with the aim of enraging her husband. Both parties hurt eachother greatly; emotional hurt on the man and physical hurt on the woman.
This ends up in one of several places.
The man beats the woman so bad during a fit of rage that she suffers serious physical injuries, probably life altering and possibly fatal.
The woman uses a weapon on the man, typically a kitchen knife, and stabs him repeatedly; causing serious physical injuries which are likely to be fatal.
There is a third choice and that is one of them leaves but, that is rarely taken; they'd be the "loser".
The fourth choice is that the authorities get involved but this is complex. Very difficult for the authorities; neither of them want to "lose" by being the one to ask for help and both will likely proclaim themsleves to be happily married and just having a bad day.
This is a partnership between two dominant members, neither of whom are willing to back down.
I'm "ignoring your points" as you put it, because I honestly don't have the time to write a huge essay in response. Suffice it to say that blaming the victim for assault, whether sexual, verbal or domestic, is pretty much *never* okay.
Anyway, I'm going to repeat my plea for you to genuinely educate yourself on this matter, because I'd really like to hope that you're not saying that women are men's equals even in the most liberalized Western countries. Because that is outright false.
Sorry for the short responses, they're all I can squeeze out right now.
Fair cop, I can understand that; consistently working to deadlines must be draining, I don't envy you that!
I will continue to air my thoughts though.
A point I'd like to clarify is that I'm talking about when a row is instigated by the woman that results in her being hit.
My point though is this; you always see the woman as the victim. You seem to dismiss any culpability that the woman has. The hypothical domestic situation I created above is common, it can be compared to the worst week of an average marriage extended over the majority of the relationship.
Not forgetting to mention the fact that the physical abuse a man commits leaves evidence aplenty behind whereas the verbal, mental and emotional abuse a woman commits leaves no such trail. Try having a vindictive woman who knows you intimately well insult you and you keep your cool; then report her and see how far you get. Try proving anything before you get laughed out the door.
Your argument seems to be that as soon as a woman is hit she is the victim, no matter the circumstances.
This necessitates the claim that whatever it is a woman does violence is never an appropriate response.
This ends up with the conclusion that there are either no bad women (they wouldn't have done something to deserve that response), or that they have superior rights to men (you can't hit a woman).
Violence is, occasionally, an appropriate response. That is why bouncers have a job, why cops carry truncheons and why countries have armies. And why millions of men fight every day in an effort to sort out disagreements between them.
I obviously do not suggest violence is a good option, it is almost certainly never one to commit to without trying many other things first. I am also not suggesting that all, or even most, cases of physical abuse are like this. I am suggesting that a decent sized percentage are.
Violence is a part of life, it always will be. This is why charges should be pressed rather than the state directly prosecuting.
To declare it inherently illegal is to declare one part of society at a disadvantage to another; as I mentioned before women, in general, have consistently been proved to have superior command of language and emotional understanding as well as the ability to use that to obtain a desired outcome. To block one whilst not blocking the other gives that other an advantage, and how could you stop this advantage anyway?
To suggest that physical abuse always causes more harm than verbal and emotional abuse is plain wrong, both can cause horrific damage. Again, if you ban the one that leaves evidence how do you create equality by also stopping the one that leaves no trace?
Reminds me of Harrison Bergeron.
It is you who is perpetuating an unequal viewpoint, one where women are superior to men, not I the opposite.
People have equal rights but they are not themselves equal.
Feminists claim that women are still unequal to men in Western society, we obviously disagree on this. I did have one moment of insight though, and it was the poem I spoke about before, Rudyard Kiplings If, that triggered it.
As I mentioned before men have more judgements and expectations put on them than women do. This is a two sided coin, with pros and cons. Women on the other hand have fewer such things to meet and, again, this has pros and cons.
The expectation that every man try to be a Man, as envisaged by the poem, is the backbone of male society. This generates a certain level of respect among and between men. For example, you assume when meeting a male stranger that he tries to be a Man.
Women do not have a direct corrolary, the closest they do have being the Mother. These two titles consist of wildly different traits though and so aren't comparable. Men have even begun to emulate the Mother with the Father, and they recieve the respect that role engenders.
Women emulating a Man though, they do not recieve the same respect that a Man does. I think this simply comes down to the fact that the term Man, while just a title signifying traits that a woman is more than capable of possessing, leads one to conclude that you have to be a man in order to be a Man.
Also, to be a part of male society and to be judged throughout life as a man trying to be a Man, and is expected to do so, is a necessary part; one that cannot be skimped.
This is an issue of respect not equality and what may, I believe, be what causes the impression that women aren't equal. Women are respected of course, as individuals and for what they achieve, but it is different to the respect that is afforded a Man.
(Disclaimer: Not all men are Men, many aren't and many do not even try. Most do not get the respect given to a Man, it's just respect to the assumed effort (and wariness of danger with some) that is exchanged between strangers. Once you know the person you can judge for yourself whether or not the person deserves that respect; women are part of this system too.)
If I'm even close to right I have absolutely no idea how to change it.
Its easier if I just list my thoughts in bold, so here goes.
Edited in the rest of my responses.
kurupt87 said:
Fair cop, I can understand that; consistently working to deadlines must be draining, I don't envy you that!
I will continue to air my thoughts though.
A point I'd like to clarify is that I'm talking about when a row is instigated by the woman that results in her being hit. I assume most of these thoughts would still apply if the roles were reversed? You seems to be talking about if a woman insults a man, and he hits her. So if a man insults a women, and she hits him the following thoughts still apply, correct?
My point though is this; you always see the woman as the victim. You seem to dismiss any culpability that the woman has. The hypothical domestic situation I created above is common, it can be compared to the worst week of an average marriage extended over the majority of the relationship.
Not forgetting to mention the fact that the physical abuse a man commits leaves evidence aplenty behind whereas the verbal, mental and emotional abuse a woman commits leaves no such trail. Try having a vindictive woman who knows you intimately well insult you and you keep your cool; then report her and see how far you get. Try proving anything before you get laughed out the door. You'd proof in either case, man or a woman. Are you implying that if a woman claimed her spouse verbably or emotionally abused her it would be taken more seriously then if a man made the same claim? That is probably true on average due to the gender roles society places on men and women, but either way they still require proof. No one is going to take the case to court because she said so and she is a woman. You would need recordings, witness to incidents and probably even a pych evaluation to make a case. A man can do all those things, he can make a case for the abuse. If you are arguing that society would view the man as weak for doing so, then yes I can sort of agree with that, but thats an issue of gender equality, and not necessarly women's rights.
Your argument seems to be that as soon as a woman is hit she is the victim, no matter the circumstances. More on my reasoning below but violence should rarely be resolution of verbal conflicts. It is not legally considered a defense.
This necessitates the claim that whatever it is a woman does violence is never an appropriate response. In regards to speech, this should be true regardless of gender. Like I said I will explain this more in a second.
This ends up with the conclusion that there are either no bad women (they wouldn't have done something to deserve that response), or that they have superior rights to men (you can't hit a woman). As I said before I have a hard time seeing any speech the deserves such a response. As for the issue of the rights, specificaly in this case, yes. I have some disagreement with this statement because I feel like you are stating that women should be brought down to men's level on this issue, rather then men being brought up to theirs. If not then I'm more accepting to the second statement
Violence is, occasionally, an appropriate response. That is why bouncers have a job, why cops carry truncheons and why countries have armies. And why millions of men fight every day in an effort to sort out disagreements between them. I disagree, violence is occasionaly used as a response, it rarely should be. Bouncers use force to remove someone from the premise when they physicaly refuse to. They don't hit people because they said something offensive, and if they do they can get in serious trouble. Cops do not assualt people for being verbaly abusive. Force/Violence is and should be used when either; it has already been done to you by the assialent, or the assialent has made a credibale threat to use violence on you. I see from below that you clarify your view somewhat but the above post seem indicate the verbal disagreements should occasionly be resovled with violence. Unless threats are made I cannot see that as being a appropriate response.
I obviously do not suggest violence is a good option, it is almost certainly never one to commit to without trying many other things first. I am also not suggesting that all, or even most, cases of physical abuse are like this. I am suggesting that a decent sized percentage are. I'm glad you clarified here because I think the previous comments suggest a little differently. As for the number of cases that are like this that would be hard to prove since you'd need to hear the arguments before the act of violence. Even then I still don't believe that those fights would justify violence unless the women directly threatend the mans well being, and even the violence can be avioded.
Violence is a part of life, it always will be. This is why charges should be pressed rather than the state directly prosecuting. On the fence about this. I assume your are saying that state drectly prosecting in the case of women is biased since it does not do the same for men. I don't know if this is what happens or not, so if someone does please provide a link or something. If that is true though then I guess it could go either way, the individual pressing charges or the state, but as long as it is consistent no matter the gender on the victim and the abuser then the system will be equal.
To declare it inherently illegal is to declare one part of society at a disadvantage to another; as I mentioned before women, in general, have consistently been proved to have superior command of language and emotional understanding as well as the ability to use that to obtain a desired outcome. To block one whilst not blocking the other gives that other an advantage, and how could you stop this advantage anyway? If I assume your initial premise that women "have superior command of language and emotional understanding as well as the ability to use that to obtain a desired outcome" then I can't really disagree with your statment. Thing is, I don't agree with that premise, I don't think women are inherently superior at using language and using it to get a desired outcome. Women do tend to have better emotional understanding, but they also tend to be more emotional then men. By your argument, yes some women will be able to verbal abuse men easier, some women would also be disadvantage and would be more susceptible to emotional abuse.
To suggest that physical abuse always causes more harm than verbal and emotional abuse is plain wrong, both can cause horrific damage. Again, if you ban the one that leaves evidence how do you create equality by also stopping the one that leaves no trace? I not sure how to respond to this. My above post slightly adresses the last point, but for me it comes down to this. I can't agree with your last statment because I do not believe your premise is correct. If you assume it is correct, which obviously you are, then I see your train of thought that leads you to these last two statements, and I can't really disagree.
Reminds me of Harrison Bergeron.
It is you who is perpetuating an unequal viewpoint, one where women are superior to men, not I the opposite.
People have equal rights but they are not themselves equal.
Feminists claim that women are still unequal to men in Western society, we obviously disagree on this. I did have one moment of insight though, and it was the poem I spoke about before, Rudyard Kiplings If, that triggered it.
As I mentioned before men have more judgements and expectations put on them than women do. This is a two sided coin, with pros and cons. Women on the other hand have fewer such things to meet and, again, this has pros and cons.
The expectation that every man try to be a Man, as envisaged by the poem, is the backbone of male society. This generates a certain level of respect among and between men. For example, you assume when meeting a male stranger that he tries to be a Man.
Women do not have a direct corrolary, the closest they do have being the Mother. These two titles consist of wildly different traits though and so aren't comparable. Men have even begun to emulate the Mother with the Father, and they recieve the respect that role engenders.
Women emulating a Man though, they do not recieve the same respect that a Man does. I think this simply comes down to the fact that the term Man, while just a title signifying traits that a woman is more than capable of possessing, leads one to conclude that you have to be a man in order to be a Man.
Also, to be a part of male society and to be judged throughout life as a man trying to be a Man, and is expected to do so, is a necessary part; one that cannot be skimped.
This is an issue of respect not equality and what may, I believe, be what causes the impression that women aren't equal. Women are respected of course, as individuals and for what they achieve, but it is different to the respect that is afforded a Man.
(Disclaimer: Not all men are Men, many aren't and many do not even try. Most do not get the respect given to a Man, it's just respect to the assumed effort (and wariness of danger with some) that is exchanged between strangers. Once you know the person you can judge for yourself whether or not the person deserves that respect; women are part of this system too.)
If I'm even close to right I have absolutely no idea how to change it.
When someone takes offense to a certain product because of what it contains eg duke nukem who is just stupid fun even though its made for audiance who just love it for shits and giggles, 9/10 times are not being objective when criticizing or recommending changes. Put it simply feminazis are usaully never objective when it comes to things they deem offenssive, and want it changed. Everything done will always offend someone no matter what you do, so why bother trying to cater to every minority of the margin who wont ever even buy it to begin with? Take fox news for example i doubt they ever played the games they critisize and demand they be changed, so why would any developer change its product based up a smal percent that more likely wont ever even purchase its product? As a male who was raised to respect women and treat them with curtisy in other words gentleman, but i ask what for after 10 years i ask why? Thetr are alot of Women dont respect men, even those that treat them well. And you can see why some guys want to enjoy what we do on our time without having to constantly edit it because someone may find it offensive. Hell what us guys often think about is offensive, thats what this blows down to is small percent getting offended
Calm down there, sir. You still seem very hostile. I enjoyed Duke Nukem 2D when I was a little girl on my Grandpa's computer. Good Ol' Duke is how I got into gaming in the first place. I enjoy mindless fun games from time to time, and while I don't often buy them, I might have bought Duke Nukem simply for nostalgia purposes. I still might, though it certainly won't be as much a part of my child's life as the 2D version was for mine. I don't think things people think are predominantly offensive, or at least I think the things people predominantly think should be taken as somewhat naturally occurring and therefore shouldn't be taken as offensive.
Still, I would honestly like to know if you find the idea of this minigame having female playable characters vying to capture the aforementioned babe honestly offensive. How does it detract from the mindless fun of this mingame? Aside from all this talk of feminism and feminazis, what is objectionable about this proposal?
Sounds like it was just a joke. people make much much more offensive jokes in comedy, usually yes they are less one sided. but people who get offended by the above needs to develop a sense of humour.
Still, I would honestly like to know if you find the idea of this minigame having female playable characters vying to capture the aforementioned babe honestly offensive. How does it detract from the mindless fun of this mingame? Aside from all this talk of feminism and feminazis, what is objectionable about this proposal?
Actually I'm a little confused how that minigame is going to work. Is it going to be multiplayer or singleplayer? If it is multiplayer then I assume Duke while not be the standered character model, in which case I see no problem implementing a female character model. I'm pretty sure it is multiplayer since it would basicly be capture the flag but they could make a singleplayer CTF(or CTB) section in this case. If it is singleplayer then I assume the charcter would be Duke in order to maintain countinuity.
No, if you checked the link I provided you would have found that all those games are THE ABSOLUTELY BEST SELLING GAMES of the mentioned systems according to the wikipedia website.
I contributed early on in this thread and it was getting kind of off topic then. It just seems to be going around in cicles with different people jumping in and arguing the same points :/ I'm a woman and I don't have a problem with Duke Nukem he's a big joke...really.
I contributed early on in this thread and it was getting kind of off topic then. It just seems to be going around in cicles with different people jumping in and arguing the same points :/ I'm a woman and I don't have a problem with Duke Nukem he's a big joke...really.
Eh don't take it personally, I'm just kinda pointing stuff out. I probably won't buy DNF but I know it's a joke as well. It's just funny how this is going in circles ya know?
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