Why are you hetero or homosexual?...

[Julianking93]

I question this a lot myself but you have to remember; that's simply how people are. Some people don't like what's between the same gender's legs and they don't want a sexual relationship with that, no matter how deep their emotional and sometimes romantic relationship can be.
I myself am bi/omnisexual since I felt both sexual and strong romantic feelings towards both genders and I can be with either or without any questioning of what's in their pants. I like it either way
But seriously, it's the emotional aspect of it that gets me into a relationship but for the majority, they simply don't like same sex sex.

 

[TheSolemnHypnotic]

*snip*

Well thank you. Your passion for this subject came through and I'm glad you're so aware and adamant about voicing your opinion. I think it would be cool if this thread were able to make people evaluate what they've taken for granted, even if they draw the same conclusions.

 

[TheSolemnHypnotic]

hetro due to nature itself.

but if nature was really smart, there would not be any gays.

What the heck? You like getting flamed, huh? XD

 

[DeathWyrmNexus]

There's just love. Who we give it to does not really matter.

That was beautiful :')

The point of love is who you give it to. I love my wife romantically ergo the kind of love I feel for her is different than the kind of love I feel for my children and the kind of love I have for youthful idealism and inquisitive thought.

Love is pointing to a particular person to whom it applies and saying, that is who, what, and how I want my life to be. So no, there isn't just love. There is the person and why.

Love is understanding that you can feed the animal within your blood while appealing to the sage in your head. Love is the ability to respect your lover after they do every dirty thing you would be afraid to confess you crave. Don't shortchange love, it is the whole package, person and perversion, lust and affection.

So no, I can't agree with what you found beautiful as it is naive at best and misleading at worst. Then again, I suppose it depends on who you're saying it doesn't matter to.

 

[TheSolemnHypnotic]

So no, I can't agree with what you found beautiful as it is naive at best and misleading at worst. Then again, I suppose it depends on who you're saying it doesn't matter to.

Well, it has been proven time and time again within this thread that I am naive and had no business posting this topic. +2 internet points to you, sir.

 

[TheSolemnHypnotic]

hetro due to nature itself.

but if nature was really smart, there would not be any gays.

What the heck? You like getting flamed, huh? XD

calm the fuck down dude, im not a homophobe, i was useing logic.
ie. technically the reproductive organs should be used to , ya know, reproduce. that was what i was getting at.

I am calm. It's just the initial lack of elaboration was just screaming "let's argue".

 

[TheSolemnHypnotic]

What the hell is wrong with you people?! And by people I mean the Posters of the most recent threads about bloody sexuality.

Listen, kid, if I have to follow your scenario, which is: in a relationship with someone, meet someone else, likey. Then the answer to this startling conundrum is that my sexuallity leans towards the sex which I happen to have begun liking. It's that bloody simple! If I am in a relationship with a girl and I meet some guy who I find sexually attractive, then obviously I am gay/bi. Your sexuallity is not something you can alter, or control in any way, no matter how much you try. It's a genetic predisposition, and no matter how much you try to be gay, or hetero, or bi, fact is you remain whatever it is that you are.

And yes, you probably are the only 16 year old who hasn't had a relationship yet, because you don't understand horse bollocks about how sex or love works. If, for instance, you fall inlove with some guy while you're in a relationship with a girl, and you try to deny it to yourself, than you're just being stupid (same applies to vice-versa).

And what amazes me the most is that you seem to, or at least claim to, understand that sexuallity is incontrolable, and yet you persist on asking your question, which is utterly meaningless, since you already have the bloody answer (that sexuallity is incontrolable). So, excuse me in saying, sir, but I believe you're just being stubborn and pigheaded, and somewhat trollful.

Wow. It's like you looked into my soul. You really get me! Are you single?

 

[TheSolemnHypnotic]

I think the fact that you've had to post 6 edits kinda shows how poorly worded/thought out the Op is. There is no 'why' to biological attraction. It just is.

Yeah, this is probably my last thread.

 

[TheSolemnHypnotic]

*snip*

Your post was very informative, as I never thought of that. Also, your boyfriend seems pretty wise. Most people would just try to completely ignore those thoughts. And you're smart for recognizing why you were looking at other females. Thank you!

 

[TheSolemnHypnotic]

I'm having a hard time accepting it but I think I'm...


wait WHY THE FUCK AM I TELLING STRANGERS THIS?!!

The internet is apparently a massachist playground, where we come to share our thoughts only to get cyberkicked in the face. And all of this is done...anonymously.

 

[Brandon237]

Because that is how you are born, and genetically and socially conditioned. I cannot feel a romantic or sexual attraction to another guy, it doesn't work for me. For me a romantic relationship requires both a physical and emotional attraction, I can get both from a girl, but I only half of the one for a guy.

I do not articulate myself very well across these threads. What you said does make sense. What I should have said (because it is more accurate) is that I relate to bisexuality better.

If you can feel a sexual, physical attraction for both genders, then you most likely are bisexual, hence you can relate to it better, a homosexual or heterosexual person will also relate to their stance more easily, it is human nature.

EDIT: I felt my diagram needs to be visible a little sooner, so I am also putting it on this page, I did not think to just edit this post, my bad.

Is there any point to the colours on that graph?

Yes. Yes there is. The boldness of the colour indicates level of attraction. The actual colour indicates type of attraction. I try, I really do, any suggestions for improvement would be appreciated.
I know I should have bolder lines across the center though going vertically and horizontally, to divide it into 4 sections.

I think I would be light to medium blue, OP it seems would be light purple from comments, but when life experience is added, slightly more on the blue side I would guess.

To make a simple standard like that as to the block one would be in is another reason why I have the colours

All right but it appears from my perception that bisexually inclined need more sexual intensity to be in a strong colour, as in it's more white as you go down more quickly for the purple.

When I made that I did not like the look because it appears that there is a big white wedge, but if you look at the blocks along each row, you will see that the purplish colours are as strong. It does look weird though. I think it is because while my red and blue Are R: 255, 0, 0 and B: 0, 0, 255, so you have a more intense colour, but in the middle it is not 255, 0, 255, but rather 127, 0, 127. I can fix it... but it will take... work

If you look closely, the blocks in each row are of the same strength though.

 

[DarkhoIlow]

I am hetero,because I am not attracted to men,pure and simple I would guess.

No,not even Neil Patrick Harris(yeah I said it!).

 

[Brandon237]

I'm having a hard time accepting it but I think I'm...


wait WHY THE FUCK AM I TELLING STRANGERS THIS?!!

The internet is apparently a massachist playground, where we come to share our thoughts only to get cyberkicked in the face. And all of this is done...anonymously.

Unfortunately this is soooo true. Those who add more will get FAR more backlash. The amount of criticism you will get increases exponentially with the amount of extra content you add.
But it is worth it for A: actually contributing something[footnote]this thread alone has created 11 pages of discussion, in great part because of your frequent additions to the OP and responses to the people in the thread[/footnote] B: Learning from peoples' reactions to your contribution and C: the praise that you will get for it.

On an unrelated note, do you agree with my sexuality chart? The colourful one?

 

[Brandon237]

Edit IV: Is there a way to turn the anger off in here?

Edit V: I KNOW FOR MOST PEOPLE SEXUALITY IS NOT A CHOICE.

Edit VI: There is no way I am the only 16-year-old who has never been in a relationship.

Edit VII: Perhaps I should lay off the threads. I suck.

IV: Unfortunately not, if someone gets angry, just tell them you are not replying until they edit it and message you to tell you it is edited. Don't do this for each individual, but quote everyone on a page (put the quoting in spoilers for post size) and tell them that you will not respond to their recent posts unless they edit unnecessary aggression out of them

V: Yes, for normal people you are generally confined to a small range, I do think though that social conditioning (including by yourself) can make you express your sexuality in a far stronger or weaker manner, to the point of being practically asexual. But most people you know... enjoy reacting to sexual stimuli, so I do not know why you want that for yourself...

VI: No, you are not, it is common and nothing to worry about, I only got into my first and current relationship at 15.

VII: Just change the OP a little in the manner I recommended and you should be golden Your OP will likely not be perfect, but just edit it a little where you need to. And this thread has been fine and created a crap-ton of discussion.

EDIT: Double post... why? These things are following me!

 

[TheSolemnHypnotic]

I'm having a hard time accepting it but I think I'm...


wait WHY THE FUCK AM I TELLING STRANGERS THIS?!!

The internet is apparently a massachist playground, where we come to share our thoughts only to get cyberkicked in the face. And all of this is done...anonymously.

Unfortunately this is soooo true. Those who add more will get FAR more backlash. The amount of criticism you will get increases exponentially with the amount of extra content you add.
But it is worth it for A: actually contributing something[footnote]this thread alone has created 11 pages of discussion, in great part because of your frequent additions to the OP and responses to the people in the thread[/footnote] B: Learning from peoples' reactions to your contribution and C: the praise that you will get for it.

On an unrelated note, do you agree with my sexuality chart? The colourful one?

I followed myself on the chart, and I must say it was pretty accurate. I liked it a lot, thank you.