I wanted to join a gaming a site, my brother was watching ZP one day and I joined from that.
A lot of people saying how nice and friendly the community here is, am I reading a different forum from these people? I have seen a number of threads turn into "rip the guy a new arsehole", I have been on the receiving end a few times.
This forum can be brutal, especially when people start tacking on insults to the end of arguments or throwing the go to insult (troll) around ... or the other classic, "your grammar sucks" "you used the wrong were/there".
This site also have a few geniuses but you can usually guess what most posts are going to be in favor of, like if I made a "MLP is for little girls only!" you can bet 90% of the posts would be in favor of MLP being for everybody and what I was just saying about being brutal.
I also noticed a tendency to react with short sighted emotion, I made a thread about rape that was locked after 15 or so posts. About 5 of them were about how I must support rape (which I said in the OP was totally untrue), rape is nothing like sex and all had stories about a person they knew who had been raped ... the other posts were mine and one other persons, who could see what I was saying.
On the whole though I like it here, every place has it's flaws but I am ok with this ones. On this one you can swear, which is never a bad thing.