Why Can't I just grow some fucking balls?

[Julianking93]

I've got a problem that some of you may have heard me bitching about before. This is about that girl who gave me her phone number last friday.

The problem is that I can't grow the balls big enough to just call her.

I've been staring at the goddamn number for about 4 days now, just thinking about whether to call her or not.

The point of this thread is 2 things;

1. I need motivation. Bad. Someone knock some sense into me.

2. Has anyone else had a problem like this and how did you get over it?

 

[zakski]

DO IT, you'll always wonder what if

 

[Grayjack]

Grow some balls and call her you bastard! My grandma has more balls then you!
Is that enough motivation?

 

[Cpt_Oblivious]

Oooh. 4 days...
Do it now, she's probably wondering why you haven't called yet.

DO IT BEFORE YOU MISS THIS CHANCE FOREVER! YOU'LL ONLY REGRET WHAT YOU DON'T DO!

 

[Souplex]

If you don't call her, she will think you are not interested and move on. Theres your motivation.
A very fundamental lesson I learned in life: Time spent doing nothing is time wasted. If you wait around waiting for life to serve you, you will die a nobody. You need to get up, grab life by the balls, smack it around till it does what you tell it, and make it your *****.
Lucky numbers: 3, 7, 12, 16.

 

[TheNamlessGuy]

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[El Poncho]

JULIAN! You told us you were going to do it earlier you pussy! Now do it or I will do unquestionable things...

I mean uh, you can do it! Phone her, uh, sport. Now do it before she forgets about you!

 

[TheNumber1Zero]

Call her. Call her now. Do it.

Never ha a relationship, don't want one.
That means "No"

 

[khaimera]

Just ask yourself whats the worst that coldd happen. She rejects you and you move on to a new love interest. It wont't kill you. It would just be a blow to your ego which is a made up concept anyways.

This used to happen to me until I realized that rejection is not the end of the world and anyone too dense to see that i'm a good person who is worth their time is missing out.

Hope this helps and good luck.

 

[p3t3r]

just count 1..2...3 and when you get to 3 don't think just do. thats how i do stuff i don't want to

 

[ProtoChimp]

MAN UP. I know I sound like an inconsiderate prick, but dammit you need to stop thinking about it and just go for it. That's how I got my GF and it's the best thing that ever happened to me.

 

[fd18e3d0-816e-11e4-b4a9-0800200c9a66]

My advice is basically what everyone else has said
1) If you don't do it you will kick yourself for not and always wonder what could have been
2) If you leave it too long she may think your not interested

And i'll add my own

3) What have you got to lose?

 

[Zer_]

I've got a problem that some of you may have heard me bitching about before. This is about that girl who gave me her phone number last friday.

The problem is that I can't grow the balls big enough to just call her.

I've been staring at the goddamn number for about 4 days now, just thinking about whether to call her or not.

The point of this thread is 2 things;

1. I need motivation. Bad. Someone knock some sense into me.

2. Has anyone else had a problem like this and how did you get over it?

My friend, you got her number, the hardest part is already done. Make that call, and set a date for the coming weekend! DO IT!

One suggestion is to keep the date simple and light. Don't take her on some super romantic getaway, just a nice coffee, or go see a show.

 

[Susan Arendt]

Dude, suck it up. What's the worst that could possibly happen? You say hi, she says hi, you chat for a bit. It ain't rocket science, for god's sake.

 

[Nebr66]

No offence, but this seems like the wrong kind of place to be asking for this sort of advice.
But if you truely have fellings for this girl, I say you should at least give it a shot, I mean I doubt she's gonna wait forever to hear from you and if it doesn't work out then at least you tried.

Damn, that sounded like I lifted it from a buddy movie.

 

[Armored Prayer]

Let me try something....

*waves hand* "You will call her..."

Did that work?

 

[Woodsey]

Well, if you're a lady, the chances of said balls growing is slim at best.

 

[AgentNein]

Let's take this logically. You call her, and things don't go well for whatever reason. You might feel stupid or something, and then you'll move on.

Or you don't call her, and then you miss your shot, or you call her too late, and you'll have to live with that shitty, shitty feeling of regret. It's a no-brainer.

 

[Guitar Gamer]

Whatever you do, do NOT do it drunk.
Drunk confidence is NOT the kind of confidence you need right now.

And I would be in nirvana if I could get the charming skills to get a girl to give me her number