Why do people care if something "makes them gay?"

[Schwerganoik]

I've heard a lot the question, "Does this make me gay," and I've been wondering why people are so worried about becoming gay. However, what really confuses me is the fact that even if the action or quality in question made someone gay, he would not cease or desist, anyway.

What do you all think?

 

[Gigano]

Because they're immature and caught up in majority norms?

Many people will intuitively have a great fear of sticking out, since being "different" is really the greatest (if not the only...) "sin" of all, especially during the formative years.

As most people grow up, they'll learn to accept that humans are simply different, and that "being gay" is not something you become by other interests than the same sex, nor anything to condemn (I sure did learn that). Or they'll remain senseless immature bigots caught up in homophobia (religiously motivated or not)...

 

[spartan231490]

1 word: homophobic.

 

[flakemunchar]

Because they're immature and caught up in majority norms?

Many people will intuitively have a great fear of sticking out, since being "different" is really the greatest (if not the only...) sin of all, especially during the formative years.

This.

I'd say write something myself, but you summed it up perfectly.

 

[Keralastic]

words

Pack it up folks, we're done here.

Good work.

 

[iLikeHippos]

Because it has become a condescending phrase to point out to a man when he does something fruity.

And with testosterone being what it is, no straight male wishes to be called "fruity".

 

[Schwerganoik]

1 word: homophobic.

Of all the times that I've heard the word "homophobia" thrown around, this seem to be the only example of someone being afraid of homosexuality.

 

[kickyourass]

Well I really don't know, but then again I don't really care about sexuality, if something makes me look "Gay" to someone else then so be it.

 

[Harlemura]

Because people don't want to be perceived as something they're not.
I'm pretty that's the underlying matter. I, for one, don't really want to be giving out the wrong impression.

 

[The Procrastinated End]

Because they are homophobes who are uncomfortable with their own sexuality.

 

[evilartist]

I only say it when I'm joking. Otherwise, I don't give a crap.

 

[SUPA FRANKY]

Because people don't want to be perceived as something they're not.
I'm pretty that's the underlying matter. I, for one, don't really want to be giving out the wrong impression.

Damn good answer...

OT: Even though I think being homophobic is just immature...you really should tell that to everyone else, as gays tend to get strange looks and etc.

 

[Alon Shechter]

Because they're immature and caught up in majority norms?

Many people will intuitively have a great fear of sticking out, since being "different" is really the greatest (if not the only...) "sin" of all, especially during the formative years.

As most people grow up, they'll learn to accept that humans are simply different, and that "being gay" is not something you become by other interests than the same sex, nor anything to condemn. Or they'll remain senseless immature bigots caught up in homophobia (religiously motivated or not)...

This guy did the trick perfectly.
I do lots of things that people called me "gay" for,
The biggest and stupidest example is complimenting my girlfriend on her beauty.
Other stuff include Playing Guitar (WTF?), Enjoying video games (Again - WTF?) and being interested in History (mainly WW2 stuff) and psychology.

 

[socialmenace42]

Stupid Stereotyping. And I totally agree; homophobia. If you associate something with (very sarcastic quote marks) 'being gay' and then demonise it for precisely that reason, That is the very definition of shunning, penalising or fearing homosexuality.

It is for precisely this reason that i think it's healthy to just do whatever the hell you want. Like for example in the UK there's this realy stupid stereotype that if you have a piercing in your right ear, you're gay. I for one encourage EVERY bloke, gay and straight alike, with half a brain to go ahead and pierce their right ears so that we can collectively scoff at those who suggest this is a preset for our sexuality.

I mean for gods sakes it's not even a step up from kids in the playground saying you've got lurgies because they pushed you into the girls toilets.

 

[masterkeaton]

Probably because they see it as a challenge to their masculinity.

Me and my (male) friend frequently hug when we see each other, and I don't have anything against gay people, I have gay friends. When we hug it doesn't bother me, nothing wrong with showing some 'man' love

 

[Dags90]

It's easier than considering things on their own merits.
The sad thing is, something like that would probably work.

 

[Fallen-Angel Risen-Demon]

Because there is apparently something wrong with being gay. People like that are pretty idiotic to say the least.

 

[Mimssy]

I don't really understand it. It makes someone looks insecure to me. I do get really offended (to the point that I noticeably cringe and speak up) when someone says, "That's so gay" in a derogatory manner. A characteristic of a person is not a synonym for so something that is less than good. That's like saying an extra page of homework is so brunette. None of that shit makes sense to me.
It wasn't until middle school that I realized most people don't get crushes on people of both genders and that I wasn't in majority.

 

[Breaker deGodot]

Because we're immature. If someone has a problem with homosexuality, there are better ways to convey it than acting like it's a disease. It's not. It's just a choice, like everything else.

 

[quiet_samurai]

It's easier than considering things on their own merits.
The sad thing is, something like that would probably work.

Hahahaha! Obviously they are either smoking or blowing each other in there. Honestly I'm supprised the gay community hasn't blown up over this, I know I would if I was homosexual. It's pretty offensive.... yet I find it hilarious in its ridiculousness.

And why do two guys talking quietly in a secret place make then automatically gay as well? Maybe they are speaking on a sensitive topic.